TAY: thread about yambs...

[youngdoc]

So three weeks ago at this chicks bday party I pulled this girl (they are friends but not close). Smashed her the following weekend

Now trying to smash the bday chick (chick in the text messages) and me and my roommate are going out to some bars with her and her friend tomorrow night

Not sure exactly how I will play it tomorrow night but I still wanna smash bday chick

I'll be shocked if anything comes outta this, she's prolly playing like she don't know or she's gonna get the scoop before y'all go out. If she gives up the buns knowing what happen I like her.

Yeah I'm gonna gauge her interest early on and if it's not there I'm just gonna do work at the spot.

 

[jay are]

Been a good day for everybody
Got this number from a chick ive been eye-ing in class all semester. Luckily I saw her in the gym, and i just decided failing is better than not knowing so I asked for her number.

The question is that I used "ive been meaning to get your number. I know the final is around the corner could I get your number so we could study ?"
What u veterans think about the situation?

 

[mugen81]

I think this thread has always been "Real", because for the simple fact as men we all struggle with ups and downs. When I contributed it was never for the shine but to give guys advice I never received until my first real breakup and I am still learning(even being engaged). I noticed my post in the last two months have been more douchey because its coming from a place of love like a big brother or uncle. Life is too short for all the analyses and you have to seize that moment because we dont know when our last moment is.Sometimes I think my advice is raw because my life has been raw and it's coming from a place of wanting dudes to succeed and to also see that we all have taken L's. Maybe what I thought was good advice, wasnt, I don't know but I give the reins back to the TRUE OG'S....
I'll still lurk because this still is my favorite thread, but I definately will think before I write in here again, lol...
Peace

 

[301216baller]

 this ***** is dumb

 

[BALH ENH]

Old flame just POPPED back up in my phone. She tryna smoke. ***** got a mini mansion. Praying this goes well. Byyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyye

 

[ice city fc]

TAY fam lol remember that cute hispanic shorty I was kinda shook and nervous to approach at the library well ironically today she sat by me so I said F it and started a brief conversation
I notice that she was eating some raisins so I proceed to ask her if I could get whatever she's eating she was nice and cool about it gave me some then I ask her for her name I introduce myself with a handshake we got to talking briefly about her major then before I left I made a quick joke then she said "well you have a nice day " then I told her "I'll see you around campus " lol didn't ask for her number right away kinda wanna build this up but I only have two weeks of school left idk how to play this .

How you ask for some raisins and not her number.

 

[アミーゴ]

I think this thread has changed because the people posting lately are taking L's that the regular's haven't.

It frustrates me when it's there for the taking and excuses are throw out there.

 

[Coromanti]

 

TAY fam lol remember that cute hispanic shorty I was kinda shook and nervous to approach at the library well ironically today she sat by me so I said F it and started a brief conversation
I notice that she was eating some raisins so I proceed to ask her if I could get whatever she's eating she was nice and cool about it gave me some then I ask her for her name I introduce myself with a handshake we got to talking briefly about her major then before I left I made a quick joke then she said "well you have a nice day " then I told her "I'll see you around campus " lol didn't ask for her number right away kinda wanna build this up but I only have two weeks of school left idk how to play this .

How you ask for some raisins and not her number.

lol ol boy tried to edit too

 

[niquefreak94]

lol ol boy tried to edit too

DAAAMN he did!!!!!

 

[youngdoc]

I think this thread has changed because the people posting lately are taking L's that the regular's haven't.

It frustrates me when it's there for the taking and excuses are throw out there.

Byron Russell/Howard Eisley brings me enough frustration already

 

[アミーゴ]

Byron Russell/Howard Eisley brings me enough frustration already

The one thing about him is he gets out there and TRIES. If a girl is throwing it at him he gets the number and does his date thing.

He just doesn't have that MJ attitude where he KNOWS he's gunna smash it on Patrick Ewing and nobody is gunna stop him.

He's too nice.

Some of the guys in here aren't even attempting jumpers in the first quarter.

 

[youngdoc]

Byron Russell/Howard Eisley brings me enough frustration already

The one thing about him is he gets out there and TRIES. If a girl is throwing it at him he gets the number and does his date thing.

He just doesn't have that MJ attitude where he KNOWS he's gunna smash it on Patrick Ewing and nobody is gunna stop him.

He's too nice.

Some of the guys in here aren't even attempting jumpers in the first quarter.

I'mma start calling him Charles Smith

 

[アミーゴ]

I'mma start calling him Charles Smith

The poor guy won't get it. He may be useful Saturday... BP starts at 6

 

[tdogg2k]

I understand the young fellas in here take L's that's understandable. But I guess their L's seem so avoidable to me they come off as sad.

Yea L's are expected, I even enjoy looking at the L stories, and looking at the responses to bring these people up and giving them confidence.


It's the Harping on the L stories, day after DAy that depresses me in here. we went through a week (or more I missed some pages) of that L story with the TA
That's why I was saying come back with a sucess story atleast.

TAY fam lol remember that cute hispanic shorty I was kinda shook and nervous to approach at the library well ironically today she sat by me so I said F it and started a brief conversation .

I had to man up and do it .

Even though he didn't get the number, he atleast finally manned up and talked to her..
This is what im talking about.


Each L story should progress in here.
and if it doesn't Leave it be. take the advice that's given and drop it

It's the harping that's killing me to see personally. the more you sit there and think about it and harp on it, the more and more you defeat yourself because that Lis in your head. and hard to shake.

Leave the past in the past

 

[Coromanti]

I forgot about this song.  In middle and high school this song helped me gain confidence...especially when the things they talked about eventually ended up coming true.

 

[kevlar shrimp]

Two weeks ago I'm at a party

Chick comes up to me and says "why didn't you pay any attention to me last time?"

I had met her and her friend once before that night and her friend was just more talkative

Got the # and all that there

Fast forward to last night

I go to chill with her. Walk into the room feeling like Kobe knowing he's gonna drop 40.

15 minutes in, she tells me she's on her period 

Finesse her to give me sloppy toppy. After not bustin for half hour I said F it

 

[suberzat1]

 
Two weeks ago I'm at a party

Chick comes up to me and says "why didn't you pay any attention to me last time?"

I had met her and her friend once before that night and her friend was just more talkative

Got the # and all that there

Fast forward to last night

I go to chill with her. Walk into the room feeling like Kobe knowing he's gonna drop 40.

15 minutes in, she tells me she's on her period 

Finesse her to give me sloppy toppy. After not bustin for half hour I said F it

Im still not about that life.

 

[Bruce Banner]

Yeah for me its not all about getting the number right away it was all about breaking the ice for me , i introduce myself , got to know her , now next time i see her it wont be weird at all if i walk straight up to her and strike a convo maybe that will lead to getting the number . but i appreciate the knowledge man you've been helping a lot of ppl on here .

 

[romedadude]

 
Two weeks ago I'm at a party
Chick comes up to me and says "why didn't you pay any attention to me last time?"
I had met her and her friend once before that night and her friend was just more talkative
Got the # and all that there

Fast forward to last night
I go to chill with her. Walk into the room feeling like Kobe knowing he's gonna drop 40.
15 minutes in, she tells me she's on her period 
Finesse her to give me sloppy toppy. After not bustin for half hour I said F it

Im still not about that life.

I did it once before, only because she said she REALLY wanted the D and because I wanted to hit since high school. Can't say I'd run that stop sign again though.

 

[hennessy beach]

poppin randoms on their period...

what is this life?....

 

[011781]

you know she ugly if she eating raisins. 

 

[011781]

It's a good thing im learning all of this now, I swear TAY has saved me already from some headaches I may have encountered in the future. Of course I'll get to the point of error, no one mans game is going to be perfect. (Unless they're one of those professional pick up artists I saw over the summer

)

TAY gonna have you confused breh... 

take this advice at your own risk. 

there's a lot of irresponsible advisers running around this thread. 

 

[bless]

 
you know she ugly if she eating raisins. 

Hahaha!

 

[coolgraymemo]

Each L story should progress in here.
and if it doesn't Leave it be. take the advice that's given and drop it

It's the harping that's killing me to see personally. the more you sit there and think about it and harp on it, the more and more you defeat yourself because that Lis in your head. and hard to shake.

Leave the past in the past

"Harping" on it will actually get you over her much quicker than avoiding it. But don't take my word for it, I'm only a crisis/suicide prevention counselor. I have zero training in grief/bereavement counseling.


On a brighter note, kicking it this weekend with that girl that texted me.

 

[tmso]

Get those yambs Cool Grey.

On another note, hitting up Vegas in a couple of weeks. Smashed something serious the last time I went (21st birthday), so it should be a good time now that my younger brother is 21.

Can't wait for finals to be over so I can focus on getting myself back into shape and around these New Year's resolution gym yambs.