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Okay, first I'm a virgin, so lets go ahead and get that straight, but anyways, so this black girl at work (light-skinned, dat fitness body) always flirts with me and stuff and so I finally gave her my number and told her we could go watch a movie or something when she gets off.
So she texts me and says hey I'm off and I'm like cool what you trying to do? She says I can't tonight, we should hang out tomorrow, so I'm like cool whatever. Well we're texting, flirting n ****, and she just randomly asks if I'm a virgin and I'm like yeah, are you and she says no (which I already knew) and she goes "You need to find a virgin to lose yours to" and I say "**** that" and she's like why? And I said because one of us needs to know how to do things, and she's like it "I bet it would be weird doing it with a virgin" and I'm like nah I bet'd be simple, let's find out. She's like but it'd be weird because you're white and I've never messed with a white boy. I'm like there's a first time for everything.
Should I pursue this? I'm just trying to lose the v card.
So she texts me and says hey I'm off and I'm like cool what you trying to do? She says I can't tonight, we should hang out tomorrow, so I'm like cool whatever. Well we're texting, flirting n ****, and she just randomly asks if I'm a virgin and I'm like yeah, are you and she says no (which I already knew) and she goes "You need to find a virgin to lose yours to" and I say "**** that" and she's like why? And I said because one of us needs to know how to do things, and she's like it "I bet it would be weird doing it with a virgin" and I'm like nah I bet'd be simple, let's find out. She's like but it'd be weird because you're white and I've never messed with a white boy. I'm like there's a first time for everything.
Should I pursue this? I'm just trying to lose the v card.
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You should pursue that and see where it goes.
I don't think you should say you a virgin though if you know the girl is not (just say you don't have a lot of experience because you are not that type of guy and all that bs stuff).
You have nothing to loose here seriously. Tell her it would be could if you hang out and take it from there.
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The first pair of J's I bought with my own hard-earned dough had mad sentimental value behind them. I'd never pass on a pair someone bought for me but it's more satisfying knowing I earned it.
If you want to lose your card to a JO that's your choice but It'll be more satisfying if it's with somebody you care about though. If you just need to get that release just let a JO give you that slow-neck special, aint't no intimacy threshold there.
If you want to lose your card to a JO that's your choice but It'll be more satisfying if it's with somebody you care about though. If you just need to get that release just let a JO give you that slow-neck special, aint't no intimacy threshold there.
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been on a LONG dry season was wondering about escorts
anyone have experiences with escorts?
if so how was it
anyone have experiences with escorts?
if so how was it
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Real talk. never say you're a virgin fam. That's #1
Unless you've been with the girl for a minute . If its some girl you trying to smash keep it on the hush.
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Depends on age group really tho right
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Me personally I will more than likely buy some bad broad coochie one day...esp if I'm on vacation somewhere n things aren't going as planned
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This whole monogamy jive is new to me, I'm still adjusting.
First time in life I'm not trying to smash everything that moves.
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Cmon dude, you hit puberty around 10 years old. So its safe to say you smashed your first girl at least 2 years after that. I'm sure you can wait at least that long.
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There are too many thirsty birds in the world to be paying a prostitute.
Unless Ice La Foxx is in town
Unless Ice La Foxx is in town
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I don't think you misplayed this one at all. I suppose you could have lied, but then she'd know you were lying when it came down to business
. If anything, just embellish your story a little bit. Be like, "You know, I had my chances but I didn't feel like the situation was right. The girl had a bf, and I just didn't wanna put myself in that situation" etc. That was mighty forward of her to inquire about your sexual history before even going on a date. I'd steer the conversation away from it for now and just tell her that you want to spend some time getting to know her better.EDIT: on second thought, I wish you hadn't said, "Let's find out." Came off a little desperate. Just play it cool, bro. Don't bring it up again and let things advance naturally.
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Played it right, had a pretty simar thing with a this tan girl, she was probably 4 years older, and we knew each other for a year or two through mutual friends.
She was pretty cool, and we made out etc.. But when it came down to it, telling her I was a virgin was the biggest mistake. Literally what she said "I would do it, but I want you to lose it to someone special, no need to get attached". Funny thing is, next time I was in this situation, I lied, and got a constant booty call out of it.
Good luck bro.
Played it right, had a pretty simar thing with a this tan girl, she was probably 4 years older, and we knew each other for a year or two through mutual friends.
She was pretty cool, and we made out etc.. But when it came down to it, telling her I was a virgin was the biggest mistake. Literally what she said "I would do it, but I want you to lose it to someone special, no need to get attached". Funny thing is, next time I was in this situation, I lied, and got a constant booty call out of it.
Good luck bro.
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Mite you have the power bro with ur v card choose wisely my friend
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This exact thing happened to me in the past. She went from DTF to "You should save it for someone special." Maybe lying is better, after all.
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Are you sure about that? I think it's about even.Listen to this man look u aint got time for all that we men are endangered species women outnumber us 3-1 there should be women lined up on each mans porch praying she is worthy enough for him to unleash his seeds upon thy face. If one woman aint down with the program its another one that is just keep it moving. Oh and if or when this female thats playing games does come around make sure its at her house on her bed so the SECOND u bust that nut u start getting dressed. She gonna ask where u going remind her of that text and how she aint wanna share her bed then hahahaha she gonna be mad but it wont matter cause u got them yambs.
thadocta right tho...nobody got time for games. I can see where you getting your signals crossed and I would keep it moving.
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Thanks for all the advice fambs.
Telling her I'm a virgin probably was a mistake, but I figured it'd be obvious. Anyway, she seems to be coming around. I'm at least gonna catch dat neck
Telling her I'm a virgin probably was a mistake, but I figured it'd be obvious. Anyway, she seems to be coming around. I'm at least gonna catch dat neck
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Thanks for all the advice fambs.
Telling her I'm a virgin probably was a mistake, but I figured it'd be obvious. Anyway, she seems to be coming around. I'm at least gonna catch dat neck
Naw I like the cut of your gib bruh, that self-assuredness and confidence doesn't usually ride with virgins like that.
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I thought it was close to even with a little more women than men. Plus with the way the media has changed the way society thinks of women away from the badass men of old like McQueen, Brando, Dean, Newman to more of a women on a pedestal type like in the romcoms. That is why women don't have to line up for dudes because there are so many simps/betas/white knights out there to inflate their egos. Even orcas have egos on POF, reference to misc.
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I've actually considered it. But I couldn't just come out of pocket for the yambs when ****** outchea handin' it out like coupons
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Dunno bout that situation cuz I lost mine in my teens, but maybe 20+ you should say you're not experienced instead of saying a virgin. I can see chicks getting scared of you becoming needy.
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I'm 17, so yeah..
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So **** it then, shouldn't have to hide that at 17.
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