TAY: thread about yambs...

[soleking]

Need advice in this particular yamb. We have been texting for a while and she has asked me multiple times if I'm talking to anyone at the moment. I'm not sure how to respond does she want me to say her or??? I'm confused

 

[bishopstrongbow]

Need advice in this particular yamb. We have been texting for a while and she has asked me multiple times if I'm talking to anyone at the moment. I'm not sure how to respond does she want me to say her or??? I'm confused

Do you like this yamb? Is this a yamb you want to make a good impression on?

 

[keel252]

Could you guys date a woman that doesn't workout? I realize I need a woman who cares about the shape her body is in. Recent deaded a chick and now that I look back on it. it was bc she made a couple comments about she doesn't have to work out bc guys will still be attracted to her. Get out of here lady.

 

[jay are]

It really doesn't though. The best birds will have you believing they aren't, because they've convinced themselves they aren't.

That what I'm saying...they convince themselves they was never "bout dat life" , but if you pay close attention to detail you will slowly find out. I just find it crazy how good they are at hiding it.

 

[the antihype]

Need advice in this particular yamb. We have been texting for a while and she has asked me multiple times if I'm talking to anyone at the moment. I'm not sure how to respond does she want me to say her or??? I'm confused

Whether it's true or not, you gotta let her know that you got em lined up out the back door. Don't put her on a pedestal. Play it cool and make yourself the desired one.

 

[ballinsam23]

Need advice in this particular yamb. We have been texting for a while and she has asked me multiple times if I'm talking to anyone at the moment. I'm not sure how to respond does she want me to say her or??? I'm confused

Whether it's true or not, you gotta let her know that you got em lined up out the back door. Don't put her on a pedestal. Play it cool and make yourself the desired one.

If he goes that route AND she's looking for a relationship he will be deaded with the quickness.

If you're looking for a relationship, flip the question back on her to see where she's at, before you tell her the truth.
If you're not looking for a relationship, just say "i'm just looking to have a good time right now, dont wanna put labels on anything."

 

[the antihype]

If he goes that route AND she's looking for a relationship he will be deaded with the quickness.

If you're looking for a relationship, flip the question back on her to see where she's at, before you tell her the truth.
If you're not looking for a relationship, just say "i'm just looking to have a good time right now, dont wanna put labels on anything."

Dude is having "text conversations" with girls...tells me that he's young. Don't see what a youngin would need a relationship for. No women wants a man that isn't desired by others. I say keep the pressure on her and reel it in.

 

[the antihype]

Besides a woman's mentality is that she can always "change" a man. So if SHE wants a relationship, which is what 99% of women want, she'll still be willing to step to the plate.

 

[ballinsam23]

Ehhhhh I need to know what mind state he's in. Maybe he wants a girl? Maybe he doesnt. You cant use the same response for both situations.

Girls want exclusivity. She's asking him these questions because she wants him for herself.

 

[soleking]

Do you like this yamb? Is this a yamb you want to make a good impression on?

I do like her

 

[アミーゴ]

I do like her

Have u guys gone out already etc etc... U want to date her I take it?

 

[Mark Antony]

I just say naw, I don't have anything serious right now. Or I used to say i'm not looking for a relationship right now. I changed that to "not looking, but always open to the right one finding me". Just saying "i'm not looking for a relationship right now" bit me in the *** with someone I could really see a future with because she made up her mind that we were short term at that point. I really meant the full " not looking, but always open to the right one finding me" but women tend to get in their feelings, latch on to the negative and protect themselves early. Hell we all do that. But that way it covers both the ones i don't plan on being serious with and the ones I do.

 

[mugen81]

EWD with the big words, lol...
My policy is "Don't ask,Don't Tell"...
We all have been ****,simps, damaged goods to somebody in this world and if you are insecure in yourself, don't ask questions that will drive you crazy...I feel your past relationships should come up in convo only if you have are dealing with kids, or like big homie said with stds... If a girl blames or even speaks about her ex, I just bounce because there is something deep rooted in that and that ish will get deflected on to you as if you were/are the guilt of the pain inflicted...
And if a girl is asking you if you are seeing somebody, keep it 100( I will always reiterate that), you waste too much time as a young man playing games...
When you put your cards out there and you tell somebody the truth, it cleanses you of any guilt trips, etc... If a girl can't get down with your path then she is not worth it...

 

[アミーゴ]

And if a girl is asking you if you are seeing somebody, keep it 100( I will always reiterate that), you waste too much time as a young man playing games...
When you put your cards out there and you tell somebody the truth, it cleanses you of any guilt trips, etc... If a girl can't get down with your path then she is not worth it...

U damn right on this.

 

[tdogg2k]

Could you guys date a woman that doesn't workout? I realize I need a woman who cares about the shape her body is in. Recent deaded a chick and now that I look back on it. it was bc she made a couple comments about she doesn't have to work out bc guys will still be attracted to her. Get out of here lady.

Not any more
I use to, but im so in to the gym the ones who arent are always trying to do everything in their power to stop you or distract your attention to the gym and put it on them.
My last girl was mad because I always told her 5-7 is gym time, Period.
Women who work out understand.

Need advice in this particular yamb. We have been texting for a while and she has asked me multiple times if I'm talking to anyone at the moment. I'm not sure how to respond does she want me to say her or??? I'm confused

Since you like her, Flip it.
just be like I'm single but open like Mark Anthony said.
then flip it by saying, I guess I'm going to have to be the best out of your bench aren't I.

 

[joepac12]

I truly believe some females are to be smutted out and never wifed or to be taken seriously. They place themselves in certain situations that I can't respect.

 

[rrlegend]

I truly believe some females are to be smutted out and never wifed or to be taken seriously. They place themselves in certain situations that I can't respect.

It's in their DNA .


And yeah I was off on that comment a bit because I couldn't give the examples I wanted to with those 3 things and ya boy was on 36 hour shift . But for the most part a former bird will let it be known in subtle ways and through convos . One of the main indicators is if she moves around alot like every year or six months she's lived here and there .

 

[rrlegend]

Also ewd I might get a spot in your neck of the woods. It'll probably be Austin but I may look for something closer to Caldwell . Shot me some ideas as to what I'm getting myself into up there , San Antonio's cool but its mad boring

 

[tmay407]

If San Antonio is boring to you, don't move to Caldwell or Bryan/College Station. B/CS is a lot of fun for a short period of time, but it can get old and repetitive quick. Caldwell is just a small town, nothing to do.

The one positive to B/CS is a new batch of girls every year.

 

[rrlegend]

If San Antonio is boring to you, don't move to Caldwell or Bryan/College Station. B/CS is a lot of fun for a short period of time, but it can get old and repetitive quick. Caldwell is just a small town, nothing to do.

The one positive to B/CS is a new batch of girls every year.

Trust mr I know about Caldwell , college station , and Bryan . Our main yard using Caldwell and all they have their I'd an old Walmart , McDonald's and a couple of taco shops , if anything ill probably get a place in northern Austin

 

[Mark Antony]

I truly believe some females are to be smutted out and never wifed or to be taken seriously. They place themselves in certain situations that I can't respect.

It's in their DNA .


And yeah I was off on that comment a bit because I couldn't give the examples I wanted to with those 3 things and ya boy was on 36 hour shift . But for the most part a former bird will let it be known in subtle ways and through convos . One of the main indicators is if she moves around alot like every year or six months she's lived here and there .

I found this true the more chicks I met. It's odd because you assume every one wants to be treated equally and with respect, not these ****, that scares them off. Some folk just ain't wired right.

 

[elderwatsondiggs]

Also ewd I might get a spot in your neck of the woods. It'll probably be Austin but I may look for something closer to Caldwell . Shot me some ideas as to what I'm getting myself into up there , San Antonio's cool but its mad boring

[COLOR=#red]Big Homie, I don't know too much about Caldwell, I do however know that Austin is great especially when you have the bread to enjoy it. I too thought that San Antone is a little slower, I mean I could def make it work but doesn't seem as lively as Austin. sXSW every year means a steady infux of Yambs from all around the country in Austin.

The homie Mugen has more experience with ATX so I'm sure he can chime in.

Didn't see tmays response till after I posted, but yeah he's correct, he's been in Cstat a lot longer than I have. Yes it can get old very fast...but it's what you make of it. There's not much of a middle class here...just 50,000k plus students, families in the surrounding areas, and as far as black chicks go they are pretty much ratchet. However if you cast a wider net it's a lot a lot a lot of white ladies. I usually have not dated them but here it's kind of hard not to. I have no prejudice BTW, I just historically have dated the various other ethnicities.[/COLOR]

 

[mugen81]

Man I amconflicted as of right now where to settle..Wifey wants to move back to Austin( her parents have a house in Birds Nest) but I want to move back to the Yay Area but Austin definately is high on my list( but more towards Round Rock to start a family)...
But the night life is great in ATX and you can find parties every night of the week and the people are just so damn friendly that it changes your attitude instantly and the food choices are straight piff but the damn traffic is a ***** and plus 6 street gets old fast.. But live music and if you are the outdoor type then you can't go wrong... Plus the yamb selection is off the wall, simply because its a college town but I have noticed alot of west coast transplants over the years and that makes the yamb pool exceptional...
Plus instead of Houston's dumb weather, you actually get seasons...
ATX is an acquired taste and some even try to throw race into the mix(which makes no damn sense) but the cost of living is still cheaper then say SF,LA,SD,NY, plus the technology game is picking up out there...
Then you are only like 1-1 1/2 from San Marcos and I don't know what's in the water but the Latinas out there are So damn Fine, plus it's a college town too..ATX is just nicely located, man even the hood is cool, lol
Not like the time I went to Dallas to visit my cousin, Man my head was on a swivel out in Oak Cliff but the night life was mad fun though lol

 

[lamekilla]

Need some advice TAY fam,

Been living the single life for a couple months and tryna get my mojo back. Monday afternoon at work I met this super sexy chick. She was sitting down so I just kinda sat maybe like 2 seats away from her just to see if I could get her attention, thinking that I wouldn't. She looks at me and smiles (gametime!) so I introduced myself. I ask her where she's from while I'm trying not to drool over how good she looks and smells and notices she has crutches but looks perfectly fine. She then tells me she injured her hip training for the New York marathon. At this point I'm in full attack mode. We end up talking for about 30 mins, mind you this chick is 30 and I'm 23.She was really giving me some play and I knew she was feeling me when she asked me about what artist am I listening to a lot currently and I told her curren$y. She had never heard of him but proceeded to look him up and listen to a few songs and then buy weekend at Bernie's on iTunes

Longer story shortened she tells me that she's in the wine business and has traveled literally all over the world she even tried to give me a bottle of wine that she had with her but I had to turn it down cause I was at work. I was ready to kind've leave everything there because even though she was giving me some really good play I still felt like she was giving off the friendly person vibe. She then proceeds to give me her card and tells me that she's hosting a wine tasting party on Friday and that I should contact her. its Wednesday and I haven't hit her up. I don't know how to move in. I mean I know I have all the tools but Im not even interested in a wine tasting party, just her draws. I know she was feeling me but I havent had too much experience on moving in on an older chick. She seems real mature but i know choosing when i see it. Any advice fellers??

 

[clyde the glide]

dont be afraid to step out your comfort zone.  wine tasting party aint all that bad...