The Chase

[toast1985]

Wanted to talk w/ my fellow NT'ers and get a few perspectives on the Chase when it comes to women. My philosophy when it comes to chasing women, I simply don't. I've explained it in another thread, but anything that has to be chase doesn't want to be caught.

However, throughout my life I've encountered guys who are honestly excited by the thought of chasing females, and I'm under the impression that a lot of women operate under the premise that a guy should have to chase them. I'm sure women who love to have guys who are willing to put up w/ the chase, do so for a feeling of self-validation. Conversely, I figure guys who do so, do so simply because of the excitement in the conquer. Personally, I am way too prideful to put myself out there to get with someone.

I've also seen a quote on FB from a good friend of mine, who admitted to putting guys through the rigor just to get to know her, which read something to the effect of: Ladies, if he's not willing to chase you, he's not worthy of your presence (which I butchered horribly, but the theme remains).

Of course, it's important perceptive enough to tell when a lady is genuinely disinterested in you, or have serious pressing obligations in her life outside of a normal relationship. But whats your personal take on chasing women in general, or women chasing guys for that matter.

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[toast1985]

Wanted to talk w/ my fellow NT'ers and get a few perspectives on the Chase when it comes to women. My philosophy when it comes to chasing women, I simply don't. I've explained it in another thread, but anything that has to be chase doesn't want to be caught.

However, throughout my life I've encountered guys who are honestly excited by the thought of chasing females, and I'm under the impression that a lot of women operate under the premise that a guy should have to chase them. I'm sure women who love to have guys who are willing to put up w/ the chase, do so for a feeling of self-validation. Conversely, I figure guys who do so, do so simply because of the excitement in the conquer. Personally, I am way too prideful to put myself out there to get with someone.

I've also seen a quote on FB from a good friend of mine, who admitted to putting guys through the rigor just to get to know her, which read something to the effect of: Ladies, if he's not willing to chase you, he's not worthy of your presence (which I butchered horribly, but the theme remains).

Of course, it's important perceptive enough to tell when a lady is genuinely disinterested in you, or have serious pressing obligations in her life outside of a normal relationship. But whats your personal take on chasing women in general, or women chasing guys for that matter.

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[ruxxx]

I don't do dat.

 

[ruxxx]

I don't do dat.

 

[wisepharoah]

When I was younger I rarely did it, now that I'm older I never do it. Simply don't have the time nor patience to play games with females. I believe I'm just as much as a catch as any woman so the whole theory that a man has to chase doesn't appeal to me. Besides woman are always being pursued and I'm not catering to her ego or being another option. Woman are for fun at this point in my life.

 

[wisepharoah]

When I was younger I rarely did it, now that I'm older I never do it. Simply don't have the time nor patience to play games with females. I believe I'm just as much as a catch as any woman so the whole theory that a man has to chase doesn't appeal to me. Besides woman are always being pursued and I'm not catering to her ego or being another option. Woman are for fun at this point in my life.

 

[ogskinnyj]

I do.

It's exciting, a chAllenge, an ongoing one.

For me a girl who u have to chase shows me among other things she has class and does not sleep w everyone who tries...this is very important to me in a female.

I'm a dude like many others who after I smash I lose interest very quickly no matter what caliber of girl, so the chase is a big part of the whole deal for me...then the smash is the climax in more way than one

 

[ogskinnyj]

I do.

It's exciting, a chAllenge, an ongoing one.

For me a girl who u have to chase shows me among other things she has class and does not sleep w everyone who tries...this is very important to me in a female.

I'm a dude like many others who after I smash I lose interest very quickly no matter what caliber of girl, so the chase is a big part of the whole deal for me...then the smash is the climax in more way than one

 

[damelloyellow15]

sometimes you have to bruh unless you got $$$$$$$ then you good $$$$$$

 

[damelloyellow15]

sometimes you have to bruh unless you got $$$$$$$ then you good $$$$$$