The Combat Jack Show Thread

[tokes99]

I see nothing wrong with that.

It's 2023. Society still operates like women need to get married and settle down at a certain age.

and that's better than being married and being unhappy just to say you're married not to have some sort of body count.

Has that "city girl" mindset helped or hurt girls?

It's pros and cons with every decision you make but from what I've seen them girls have all types of regrets and issues from their days of having "fun".

it's definitely not that the case that society is telling women they need to settle down if anything it's the opposite...any guidance to women in how they might need to move should be informed by what the individual woman's ultimate goal(s) are and whatever those goals are are likely to have tradeoffs...the 'problem' with the 'have fun' blanket prescription today is that too many women want to use their 20s, their peak attractiveness & prime child bearing years, to 'have fun' when their ultimate goals is children & family and the expect the men to be in that same type of time.

there is nothing inherently wrong with the 'do you boo' philosophy but it does not come without consequence for women particularly because their biology provides limitations that men don't have to the same degree

 

[Maximus Meridius]

because I'm hoping you realize the hypocrisy in your statement and the fact that men aren't marrying women, specifically black men.

You know the divorce rate and who files for divorce by far?

 

[frshstunna]

Most chicks still want to get married if they had a proposal on deck from a dude they like, no matter what type of hot girl or independent women stuff they talking…Fellas would always hold the power with this and it’s never been easier to smash and not have to deal with any bs so less pressure n incentive to wife something

Marriage just isn’t as emphasized or seen as a necessity these days, I don’t think it’s a man vs woman thing

 

[Maximus Meridius]

It's definitely a deep problem that has many reasons. Not as simple as black men don't want black women or vice versa.

 

[Maximus Meridius]

They touched on that Obama chef "drowning". Man that story is real funny looking. First it came out he couldn't swim but it's a video of bruh doing the backstroke (pause) in a pool yet he died in 8 feet. Then we got one of Bill and Hilary's chef's drowning back in 2015. Interesting coincidences.

 

[6pac]

This **** is decent

His co host with the du rag is hilarious

 

[finessence]

Has that "city girl" mindset helped or hurt girls?

It's pros and cons with every decision you make but from what I've seen them girls have all types of regrets and issues from their days of having "fun".

That’s none of our business. People gone have issues whether single or involved. I’m all for women being liberated.

We have bigger issues then women being promiscuous. If a woman wants to have casual sex, that’s her business.

The double standards need to stop. It’s all because of men’s ego. Men are wayyyy more insecure than women.

Marriage and kids aren’t the goal for everyone. Look how many unfit parents and buck wild kids are out here. The less children, the better.

Everyone isn’t fit to be a parent. Some people aren’t emotionally stable enough to be in relationships

 

[finessence]

You got black men and women out here getting crazy piercings, tattoos, body augmented, etc at YOUNG ages. They regret that more than having fun as youths.

Some people don’t want their mate to have all those crazy piercings and tattoos. Which is fine. You eliminate a certain crowd from being attracted to you.

You can’t have it both ways. Society is connected and documented more than ever now.

I know dudes who regretted getting permanent gold teeth, tattoos, etc. women also.

A lot of people don’t realize that you some times age out of those phases. Then, you’re in your mid 30s, 40s living with regrets.

Ultimately their bodies and minds get tired of the partying, clubbing, etc then by that point, the dating pool has passed you by and no one wants you, you’re ran through, damage goods, etc. that’s a personal problem. Society doesn’t feel sorry for you if you’ve slept around with a lot of people. All of the decisions we make while young, dictate our future.

Again, we need to stop telling people who aren’t suitable to be parents, to have kids.

Stop taking advice from people to on relationships and dating. That’s a huge flaw amongst people as well. Why should people take dating advice from someone who’s single or has multiple BMs or BDs, that’s definitely not smart.

Again, if a woman or man wants to be liberated, that’s not our business. They’re responsible for their own future

 

[Deleted member 248173]

The amount of tattoos and piercings on these broads today is ugly as hell. **** is infuriating seeing a beautiful woman covered in trash and then 2-3 piercings in her face.

 

[finessence]

The amount of tattoos and piercings on these broads today is ugly as hell. **** is infuriating seeing a beautiful woman covered in trash and then 2-3 piercings in her face.

Bruh they want to be men so bad. Mfers be tough as hell but want a soft hearted dude, out here strictly listening to rap music but want an old school love. Don’t know a lick of romance or R&B music…. But wants what grandma or mom had back in ‘71…

I’ve seen certain women with tattoos, piercings, certain hairdos and automatically eliminated them (which is cool).

That damn septum piercing or facial piercings and face tattoos is an immediate “no” for me. Which is FINE. Some dudes may want that which is cool. Whatever floats your boat we all have different standards

 

[tay1]

****** still mad at women havin tattoos in 2023

 

[finessence]

My n_ who said angry? Mfers just said that’s not my PREFERENCE. Y’all n_ don’t even wash your *** or have good oral hygiene, worried about a b**** having tattoos. We not gone even get started on you musky n_ who walk around here everyday smelling like a hospice mattress.

Like it’s a crime to not be a fan of tattoos. I don’t have any. It’s not for me. I’ve dated plenty women with tattoos.

Take your grievances up with God playboy

 

[Deleted member 248173]

****** still mad at women havin tattoos in 2023

**** trash but I can accept it. Now covering your whole back or doing a sleeve and ****. It’s not cute, it’s masculine as ****. Then after a few years it ages and looks like ****.

Also most of these tattoos are dumb or done by a ****** artist. I remember talking to a joint that had “paw prints” up her thigh. Tattoo was so ****in trash it looked like chicken feet. She was fine as hell though.

 

[Magic33]

I hope none of you dudes have tattoos saying this ****.

You dudes need to become more introspective.

Do you all ever sit around talking about black men, and what you can do....you know **** you can actually control.

 

[steebie j]

I can deal with subtle tats on women

But chest/titty tats are a no go for me

 

[finessence]

I hope none of you dudes have tattoos saying this ****.

You dudes need to become more introspective.

Do you all ever sit around talking about black men, and what you can do....you know **** you can actually control.

I don’t have any tattoos. I’m of the “let people do as they please” cloth, as long as it doesn’t effect your everyday life.

All I said was my “preference” when dating a woman is little to no tattoos, no crazy piercings and natural hair. There’s nothing wrong with that

 

[Maximus Meridius]

Whether you as a man have tats or not don't matter. Why would you be attracted to what you have?

Tats on girls can look good depending on what it is/where it is. Their thigh, lower back, ankle can be done good. Girls just go overboard, I was seeing this girl a year ago that had a tat on her neck. From the jump I was thinking "yeah she just for smashing".

And double standards exist. That's just what it is. It's some benefit women, some that benefit men.

 

[tokes99]

That’s none of our business. People gone have issues whether single or involved. I’m all for women being liberated.

We have bigger issues then women being promiscuous. If a woman wants to have casual sex, that’s her business.

The double standards need to stop. It’s all because of men’s ego. Men are wayyyy more insecure than women.

Marriage and kids aren’t the goal for everyone. Look how many unfit parents and buck wild kids are out here. The less children, the better.

Everyone isn’t fit to be a parent. Some people aren’t emotionally stable enough to be in relationships

You got black men and women out here getting crazy piercings, tattoos, body augmented, etc at YOUNG ages. They regret that more than having fun as youths.

Some people don’t want their mate to have all those crazy piercings and tattoos. Which is fine. You eliminate a certain crowd from being attracted to you.

You can’t have it both ways. Society is connected and documented more than ever now.

I know dudes who regretted getting permanent gold teeth, tattoos, etc. women also.

A lot of people don’t realize that you some times age out of those phases. Then, you’re in your mid 30s, 40s living with regrets.

Ultimately their bodies and minds get tired of the partying, clubbing, etc then by that point, the dating pool has passed you by and no one wants you, you’re ran through, damage goods, etc. that’s a personal problem. Society doesn’t feel sorry for you if you’ve slept around with a lot of people. All of the decisions we make while young, dictate our future.

Again, we need to stop telling people who aren’t suitable to be parents, to have kids.

Stop taking advice from people to on relationships and dating. That’s a huge flaw amongst people as well. Why should people take dating advice from someone who’s single or has multiple BMs or BDs, that’s definitely not smart.

Again, if a woman or man wants to be liberated, that’s not our business. They’re responsible for their own future

agreed on all of this, the only things i would say is the insecurities are different…not that men are more insecure than women or vice versa and i just think to some extent, for women especially, biology takes hold the ‘baby rabies’ switch can be a real phenomenon and women should probably consider what their future selves or ultimate goals are, consider what it is men want, and weigh out the ROI of things, as having kids is more finite for them, men eventually figure out at some point to do the same…

women being promiscuous benefits men ultimately, so no complaints about that from me , if maybe only the men that are already attractive or savvy enough to figure out to some extent what makes them attractive…

even tho the birthrate is either just at or just below replacement in much of the industrialized/w.e.i.r.d. world, no one needs to convince folks to get together to do the thing we were ultimately designed to do, it’s just that both genders disappointment/frustrations with their actual options vs the theoretical ones are playing out via online discourse which is leeching out into our behavior in the real world or perhaps vice versa

 

[frshstunna]

Idk how we got to tattoo talk , but I treat it on a case by case basis I can’t judge just off having tats in general….Some chicks can pull off that look and got good work done and others just have terrible tats

One joint had some other dudes name on her lower back, in big *** letters…Too distracting back there had to cut it

 

[Maximus Meridius]

Pretty girls with nose rings

 

[Remy LeBeau]

I never wanna hear these folks talk about suicide and mental health ever again.

 

[Magic33]

Whether you as a man have tats or not don't matter. Why would you be attracted to what you have?

Tats on girls can look good depending on what it is/where it is. Their thigh, lower back, ankle can be done good. Girls just go overboard, I was seeing this girl a year ago that had a tat on her neck. From the jump I was thinking "yeah she just for smashing".

And double standards exist. That's just what it is. It's some benefit women, some that benefit men.

I wish there would be a double standard of men sitting around bashing women, because you all don't seem to be applying that.

 

[Maximus Meridius]

I wish there would be a double standard of men sitting around bashing women, because you all don't seem to be applying that.

Huh

 

[finessence]

I wish there would be a double standard of men sitting around bashing women, because you all don't seem to be applying that.

Who’s bashing them? Why’s it OK to bash men and not women? I go at all genders, I don’t pick sides.

Should Carlee Russell not be bashed because she’s a woman??

Should the women who were in the Charles Manson cult not be bashed??

I’ve always said I am PRO-women being liberated. Pro-independence, Pro-If they don’t want a man, they shouldn’t be pressured.

Let them have autonomy over their own bodies and thoughts.

Talking about traits you dislike is “bashing” women? Bruh I detest more n_ then females.

It’s a million cats from my hood or city who I ran with that if I see them, I’ll walk pass them like they don’t exist.

ANY negative thought about a woman = bashing?

 

[tokes99]

I wish there would be a double standard of men sitting around bashing women, because you all don't seem to be applying that.

if it’s one thing i ‘discovered’ about the general discourse about & between men & women from speaking to both men & women i know anecdotally about intersexual dynamics, is the women don't have any qualms about ‘bashing’ men regardless of the forum, whereas men really only talk spicy online or amongst ourselves…and really it’s only been recently w/the online stuff that men are really talking greasy but folks are so completely comfortable with & used to men being bashed/criticized it doesn’t even register it’s built in at this point; but if any man begins forms a sentence or thought that seems like it could/might be critical of a woman someone will try to check dude about it , it is what is…double standards exist