Bro, just say you’re an Andrew Tate fan. That’s what it seems to be.
And how is being in your 30s, 40s, or 50s an arbitrary age? That’s means you’ve lived long enough to INTERACT with a multitude of human beings.
You expect a teen, or early 20 something to still be coming along. At those ages you’re still developing people skills. You aren’t quite in tune with your hormones yet.
Why is it so hard to for you to understand that a person in their 30s, 40s or 50s should in the LEAST bit have experienced enough socializing to have an idea about relationships? It’s that simple.
Women may not have to chase but at the end of the day, she still has to show and prove. Same goes for men.
Again, people are over analyzing basic human principles just because it’s a POPULAR internet discussion. That’s the bottom line. It draws ratings. It draws shock value.
At the end of the day, you’re either going to go out there and mingle and find someone you enjoy spending time with or not, it’s that simple. It’s a do, or get left behind situation where you’re either going to be complaining like everyone else who’s sitting back being afraid or bitter, or you’ll be happily involved with someone.
fan is strong, i just have heard a few conversations he has held at length as opposed to the viral clips where his following posts and didn’t see what was so wild about a guy basically saying men are generally like this & women are generally like that
it’s not a lack of understanding about what experience folk ‘should in the least bit have’ really, but fundamentally the ‘should’ part is a judgement that is different from what actually is, people
should be better w/money but most people live paycheck to paycheck & can’t absorb a modest unexpected expense. people
should be taking care of their health but most folk in this country are considered overweight (even with criticism of bmi in consideration, a good percentage of the overweight are considered obese) and sure folk
should know how to operate with the opposite sex by the time they have made it into maturity but the reality a lot grown *** people are blaming others for what they lack in awareness in that regard…
we are rationalizing creatures so, to an extent, (over)analyzing is kinda what we do
(maybe quite literally this whole thread), no doubt folk have made assumptions about me just from commenting on this topic, but as noted previously the world has actually become much more complex than our basic principles & our underlying biology that informs those principles & this is a fact…perhaps this why you have single childless women pushing 40 talking about freezing eggs or dudes not knowing what is expected of them as men…
acknowledging the world as it is rather than how it should be,
should be easygoings however path to that acknowledgment is often murky today
