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This is true. My mom made sure to pay extra attention to make sure I put women on a pedestal.I'd be lying if I said I didn't see it...but it depends how important you think gender roles are, what they are, and if people NEED to be held to whatever they are.
Its no surprise to anyone that boys raised by their mothers and without some male figure tend to start behind when learning about how to interact with women etc.
Interesting comment.Dead beat dads is the cause of dudes becoming less manly? Don't really follow, but I'd love to hear some comments. I live in a household where my mom is more of the man than my dad is and me and my bro are pretty manly.
Interesting question. I for one think it may explain the downfall of many athletes growing up without a male role model. Take a look at Magic Johnson and Micheal Jordan. Both had strong fathers in their lives, then take a look at someone like Allen Iverson.What about all the pro athlete's raised by their mothers/grandmothers?
Major extrapolation. I think you have to account for the fact that when you grow up without certain things regardless, having fame and money is going to change you regardless. Not having adequate family support just exacerbates that.Interesting question. I for one think it may explain the downfall of many athletes growing up without a male role model. Take a look at Magic Johnson and Micheal Jordan. Both had strong fathers in their lives, then take a look at someone like Allen Iverson.What about all the pro athlete's raised by their mothers/grandmothers?
What about all the pro athlete's raised by their mothers/grandmothers?
Oh there is no doubt about that.Major extrapolation. I think you have to account for the fact that when you grow up without certain things regardless, having fame and money is going to change you regardless. Not having adequate family support just exacerbates that.
I don't think you're wrong, I just don't think the correlation is as solid. There are still some major screw-ups who grew up in decent homes.
I'll define how my mother's characteristics that I relate to what I feel a man should be. She has a extreme take charge mentality in which she basically takes responsiblity for almost everything. She has a caring but she has a strong straight forward mindset. In other words, my mom has a single mother mindset even though my father is still around and lives in the house. My pops just be working and chillin and whatever my mom says goes lol.Interesting comment.
So, do you think that you imitate your mother's demeanor, moreso than that of your father's? Also, how do you define manly? Confrontational, or observant?
So from what I gather, your idea of masculinity means being a boss, correct?I'll define how my mother's characteristics that I relate to what I feel a man should be. She has a extreme take charge mentality in which she basically takes responsiblity for almost everything. She has a caring but she has a strong straight forward mindset. In other words, my mom has a single mother mindset even though my father is still around and lives in the house. My pops just be working and chillin and whatever my mom says goes lol.
There is more to his lazyness but I dont wanna expand on my pops. But yes, I do attribute being a leader as manly and masculine. Who wants to be scottie pippen? I rather be Mike.So from what I gather, your idea of masculinity means being a boss, correct?
If so, that's cool. But there is a definitive masculine trait in being cool like your pops, no worries, no drama. I'm sure that you know that though.
Ahhh, but some would say that Scottie showed great security by accepting his role, which is incredibly masculine. I understand what you are saying though, being able to lead is a wonderful trait. However, one must learn how to lead. Jordan didn't bust out the gate being Jordan. At one point, he had to be Scottie Pippen as well, word to James Worthy.There is more to his lazyness but I dont wanna expand on my pops. But yes, I do attribute being a leader as manly and masculine. Who wants to be scottie pippen? I rather be Mike.
By Nt's logic it also leads to skinny jeans and extreme metrosexual behavior.I mean, not having father figures can steer young men towards other stuff like street life, but the emasculation can happy in any household.
By Nt's logic it also leads to skinny jeans and extreme metrosexual behavior.
Ahhh, but some would say that Scottie showed great security by accepting his role, which is incredibly masculine. I understand what you are saying though, being able to lead is a wonderful trait. However, one must learn how to lead. Jordan didn't bust out the gate being Jordan. At one point, he had to be Scottie Pippen as well, word to James Worthy.
That victim thing can be pretty transparent, right?Op I swear that's my mindframe..women think I'm way too hard on them..I just see thru the bs