*** The Official Love,Sex & Relationships Thread Vol. 4 Play ***

[face82]

Forget all this "I have a girl problem" stuff, what going on with the NT relationships?
How's is yours going? Good, bad? Need advice? Tried anything new lately with your s.o.?
Feel free to share tips, advice.....




So far mines have been aight. Lately my girl says I don't take my time anymore, not enough fourplay, like I do a little here and there and try to get toit. I don't see her everyday anymore so when I do see her I be happy as a mutha and be ready to get down. But this weekend I think I put on. She said itwas perfect...I'm one impatient bastard but sometimes a brother just wana skip all that. Feel me?

Other than that things have been goin pretty smooth. I've been trying to be more of a phone person since I only see her a few times a week now, I hate thetelephone, textin I love.

 

[nawth21]

T minus 2 months until the wedding. So far, so good.


day to day life kind of sucks because our schedules are so different and our days off rarely coincide. temporary situation though.

 

[jawnyquest]

everything is everything

 

[million dollar stacks]

^ Ok Lauren Hill

but...

Other than that things have been goin pretty smooth. I've been trying to be more of a phone person since I only see her a few times a week now, I hate the telephone, textin I love.
Co-sign I hate talking on the phone. I'd rather a female just text me

I'm working on it though.

 

[face82]

Wow Marriage! I'm scared as hell to ever get married. I just can't see myself doing it. I've been with mines for bout 4 years now but it just seemslike when you put that title on it...%*@ starts falling apart.

 

[retrospect90]

is so so. I just hate how sometimes we are really into each other, but then other times we are like we need a brake from the relationship. Is that a sign?

 

[crossisom]

Originally Posted by Face82


So far mines have been aight. Lately my girl says I don't take my time anymore, not enough fourplay, like I do a little here and there and try to get to it. I don't see her everyday anymore so when I do see her I be happy as a mutha and be ready to get down. But this weekend I think I put on. She said it was perfect...I'm one impatient bastard but sometimes a brother just wana skip all that. Feel me?

It's better to just go ahead and take time. She might be thinking you just wanna ____ and might start questioning the status of yourrelationship; especially if you like texting and don't really like talking on the phone.

 

[feelmode]

The only complaint from my lady is that im not down as often as she is. In fact she be cursing at NT for keeping me on here when she is trying to take my a**to bed

Face, i feel you on the not seeing your girl comment, i usually travel a lot and am out of state, so when i be coming back from not seeing her in a week or two

u already know

 

[lurkin2long]

i dont wanna talk about it right now.

 

[sorkoram]

About time this thread was made, good look Face

Eh mine ended because I was an idiot and broke it off for NO good reason

Trying to pick up the pieces but I don't think its working

 

[face82]

Originally Posted by CROSSISOM

Face82 wrote:

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So far mines have been aight. Lately my girl says I don't take my time anymore, not enough fourplay, like I do a little here and there and try to get to it. I don't see her everyday anymore so when I do see her I be happy as a mutha and be ready to get down. But this weekend I think I put on. She said it was perfect...I'm one impatient bastard but sometimes a brother just wana skip all that. Feel me?

It's better to just go ahead and take time. She might be thinking you just wanna ____ and might start questioning the status of your relationship; especially if you like texting and don't really like talking on the phone.



Yea I need to slow down. As far as the phone thing...we just used to living 2gether and we saw eachother everyday so this phone thing is kinda new again. Welltext all day while she at work and when she home we talk...

 

[nawth21]

I'm excited to get married, never was really into the idea before. The title makes it "official" but we're already living like we are marriedso I hope that cuts down on the stress. They say the first year is the hardest, but I wonder if that includes moving in together and stuff. I can see thatcausing problems. But all in all it should be fun.


and I hate the phone. with everyone. Always have, always will. We're good at texts and emails

Even when we first started dating, I straight up said I hate talking on thephone. But we moved in together relatively fast

 

[grizzlyboy]

Damn Face, Didn't yall move into that nice crib together? Everything alright dog?

But mine is in Florida right now. Sucks. I been trying to cheat, but I have a rule that she must be badder than my chick.
Life is good. Its hard though. Together 3 years, 4 in march and back and forth this past year I been in Atlanta.

When we see each other we get a good quick one in, then we smooth it out for the rest of the weekend.
You have to be honest with each other when it comes to sex.

 

[jaguar51]

Co-sign I hate talking on the phone. I'd rather a female just text me

I'm working on it though.

Ummmm, can a dude explain this to me?

Do you have moretime to think about what you're going to say or is it just convenience? A female mind would like to know...

 

[rico7jt]

ALL GOOD ....

 

[da xplicit one]

Mine is good. 2.5 years next week, and right now I haven't seen my girl in OVER 3 months (avg is about 2.5 months, longest prior to today is 3 months),and I FINALLY will see her for Christmas

, which is 4 months sinceI've seen her

. 2 weeks straight with the girl FTW.

Originally Posted by Jaguar51

Co-sign I hate talking on the phone. I'd rather a female just text me

I'm working on it though.

Ummmm, can a dude explain this to me?

Do you have more time to think about what you're going to say or is it just convenience? A female mind would like to know...


This is most likely just me, but before I had a girl, I would get nervous mainly from awkward silences and that she would think I'm boring,because I wouldn't know what to talk about.

But I think these days with technology, everyone loves texting and typing things online and is more comfortable. There's really no awkward silences on AIM

.

 

[crossisom]

Originally Posted by Jaguar51

Co-sign I hate talking on the phone. I'd rather a female just text me

I'm working on it though.

Ummmm, can a dude explain this to me?

Do you have more time to think about what you're going to say or is it just convenience? A female mind would like to know...


Males like to be straight and to the point, not have long converstaions, and all that jazz. With text messaging, you do get more time to thinkabout what you're going to say plus when you want to get off the phone, you don't have to let them know.

lurkin2long wrote:

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i dont wanna talk about it right now.
Very insightful.

 

[feelmode]

Originally Posted by Jaguar51

Co-sign I hate talking on the phone. I'd rather a female just text me

I'm working on it though.

Ummmm, can a dude explain this to me?

Do you have more time to think about what you're going to say or is it just convenience? A female mind would like to know...




I dont know about these guys but if you are my girl, and we talk ALL THE TIME, then really, the need to be on the phone is almost pointless, especially if ialready talked to you today.


Her: what you doing?
Me: uhh, same thing i was doing when i spoke to you an hour ago

 

[primavera vills]

My relationship is all good....mostly. Except my girl's bad @%* daughter, but she's gettin' the idea that her ways don't fly with me....otherthan that, everything is marvelous.



I'll be here to give advice to anybody in need.

 

[face82]

Originally Posted by Grizzlyboy

Damn Face, Didn't yall move into that nice crib together? Everything alright dog?

Yea...she got this new job waaaaayyyy on the other side of town, so most days during the week she stays at her moms. Sucks

 

[jfresh7]

Being single.. FTW!

 

[ericberry14]

Originally Posted by Da XpLiCiT OnE

Mine is good. 2.5 years next week, and right now I haven't seen my girl in OVER 3 months (avg is about 2.5 months, longest prior to today is 3 months), and I FINALLY will see her for Christmas

, which is 4 months since I've seen her

. 2 weeks straight with the girl FTW.

iono how u manage to do that. i could never do a long distance relationship in any way shape or form.


BTW. Did you ever end up having sex with your girl?

 

[gabbyflo]

Well, between my school schedule and my boyfriend's work schedule, it seems like lately we hardly get to see each other. It gets a little frustrating,but I'll be going on break soon, so hopefully that will change. Other than that, everything has been pretty good. His birthday is coming up and I'mtrying to plan something special for him...I just don't know what

.

 

[feelmode]

Originally Posted by gabbyflo


His birthday is coming up and I'm trying to plan something special for him...I just don't know what

.

 

[gabbyflo]

Originally Posted by FeelMode

Originally Posted by gabbyflo


His birthday is coming up and I'm trying to plan something special for him...I just don't know what

.

Hmmm...