the thread about nothing...

[s0lefunk]

Anyone ever turn down a request to be a groomsman?

A friend, more like a friend of a friend, asked me to be in his wedding. Its a destination wedding. I agreed at first but after thinking some more I really don’t want to. He’s a cool guy and all but I’m really not trying to drop 2k to go to a wedding. Especially not for someone I don’t consider one of my boys. If it was local it wouldn’t be an issue.

 

[SC kid]

Where?

 

[LebronHasMoreFinalsMVPs]

I'd rather give 300 to a gypsy

 

[benzilla427]

Anyone ever turn down a request to be a groomsman?

A friend, more like a friend of a friend, asked me to be in his wedding. Its a destination wedding. I agreed at first but after thinking some more I really don’t want to. He’s a cool guy and all but I’m really not trying to drop 2k to go to a wedding. Especially not for someone I don’t consider one of my boys. If it was local it wouldn’t be an issue.

That sounds like a logical reason. Kinda wild that he's reaching to have you be a groomsman. Do you think you would've been invited to the wedding otherwise?

 

[Grine]

Anyone ever turn down a request to be a groomsman?

A friend, more like a friend of a friend, asked me to be in his wedding. Its a destination wedding. I agreed at first but after thinking some more I really don’t want to. He’s a cool guy and all but I’m really not trying to drop 2k to go to a wedding. Especially not for someone I don’t consider one of my boys. If it was local it wouldn’t be an issue.

Recently, I had to tell my cousin that I am not wanting to be a groomsman. Especially that his wedding is in Mexico. Not fair to some people having to cash out that kind of money for YOUR wedding day.

 

[parada45]

Mr Brother asked me to be a Groomsmen and it was pretty expensive

It was a local wedding too

If that's not ur boy you should have said no from the beginning

 

[had pants]

I'd rather give 300 to a gypsy

 

[niceshoes247]

If it was paid/free would u be a groomsmen ?

 

[jape]

Google maps got where's Waldo lol

waldo got jeans long sleeves and the skully on at the beach

 

[alchemist iq]

Since your not going just get him a decent wedding gift.

Your not obligated to say yes, but you can tell him in a nice way like "I have obligations here in the states that I need to take care, of....wish you a happy marry life....."

My Good friend got married back in his home country(Bangladesh) it was a impromptu arrange marriage ceremony, I would have gone but he himself didn't know he would have came back married. Kinda funny, cause me and another friend knew it might happen, but didn't know it will be for real.

 

[parada45]

My Brother turned down being a Godfather

He wasn't even cool with the Parents like that it was random

That's also a lifetime responsibility

 

[benzilla427]

Mr Brother asked me to be a Groomsmen and it was pretty expensive

It was a local wedding too

If that's not ur boy you should have said no from the beginning

He didn't make you best man?

And just curious, what was expensive about it? My cousin's fiance asked me to be a groomsman and the most expensive part is going to be our bachelor party trip to Colombia.

 

[Deleted member 107398]

I have a lot of regrets over little ****

 

[LebronHasMoreFinalsMVPs]

 

[parada45]

He didn't make you best man?

And just curious, what was expensive about it? My cousin's fiance asked me to be a groomsman and the most expensive part is going to be our bachelor party trip to Colombia.

Nah I wasn't

All the Groomsman paid for his bachelor trip to Vegas (Flight + Hotel+ All expenses) plus ur own

The Tux I had to wear was around $200

It was a big commitment too I had no idea

Attend a bunch of stuff before the wedding

I had to take a ton of pictures on the wedding day

It was fun tho

 

[benzilla427]

Nah I wasn't

All the Groomsman paid for his bachelor trip to Vegas (Flight + Hotel+ All expenses) plus ur own

That'll do it. We were gonna do Vegas but decided Colombia would probably be cheaper. Also the groom is paying for his own stuff.

 

[parada45]

Lucky

 

[hipstermike]

Anyone ever turn down a request to be a groomsman?

A friend, more like a friend of a friend, asked me to be in his wedding. Its a destination wedding. I agreed at first but after thinking some more I really don’t want to. He’s a cool guy and all but I’m really not trying to drop 2k to go to a wedding. Especially not for someone I don’t consider one of my boys. If it was local it wouldn’t be an issue.

Go ahead

shoot i dont want to even go to my bro in laws wedding, all he's doing is going to the justice of the peace, my wife is making a big deal out of it

why wouldnt dude just get married in Vegas?

 

[everysingletime]

I was the best man for my best friend's wedding
We did the bachelor party at Vegas
I paid for two vip tables, various other things and a groomsman's share of the room, and only half the party paid me back

I probably went 7000 in the hole that four day weekend

 

[bendover]

I was soooo sleepy this morning.
Had to roll out of bed. Went to starbucks and got some fancy coffee
Im wired again lol
My body is mad sensitive to caffeine

 

[6 Rings G.O.A.T.]

 

[Black Lotus]

My body is mad sensitive to caffeine

wish mine was

 

[everysingletime]

I was soooo sleepy this morning.
Had to roll out of bed. Went to starbucks and got some fancy coffee
Im wired again lol
My body is mad sensitive to caffeine

I'm much better off without caffeine.

My body gets addicted to it. And I crash very quickly.

Now that I've gone without it, my energy level is more even. I just have to make sure I get enough sleep.

 

[bendover]

i slept like 4 hours last night.
I for sure needed it lol

 

[Warmachine85]

Man dont talk about sleep baby sitter flaked on my yesterday and today. I get off at 4 am daughter was woke when i got home. Didnt go back to sleep until 6am. Got up at 8am and been up since then both days. Im straight zombie mode.