No that's not what I was meaning and I wasn't saying "you" as you personally but in general. I mean being in couple is losing our freedom. That's what I was meaning.
And about fighting possibilities, or in a more general way, life, acting a certain way causes certain consequences. Which means you can't avoid anything wrong to happen, but you can provoke it.
So, question is : why provoking things that could be avoided ? If dressed a certain way provokes problems, why not being dressed another one ? Like for gangs, if you're not into gangs, why being dressed with their colors ? In order to be killed for nothing ?
EDIT : Another example, rolex, gold chains, in risky zones : why ? There' a world between buying brand sports clothes and being dressed this way.
EDIT 2 : Another point, obviously a not seductive woman could cheat any men, but a seductive woman, narcissistic and all...