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My brother just got home from doing 30 years

And he hasn’t called his daughter since he been home
Dude talking about it’s goi g to take some time to work on their relationship

Mind you last week he was on my phone talking about he can’t wait to get home to focus on their relationship


Now he’s talking about when he was locked up his daughter didn’t make a effort to build a relationship then so why is she trying to build one now
Which pissed me the **** off he sound like he’s talking about a ex girlfriend and not his child

Ol let me get my lick back *** *****

Came out of prison on some lame ****
Lock his *** back up
 
My brother just got home from doing 30 years

And he hasn’t called his daughter since he been home
Dude talking about it’s goi g to take some time to work on their relationship

Mind you last week he was on my phone talking about he can’t wait to get home to focus on their relationship


Now he’s talking about when he was locked up his daughter didn’t make a effort to build a relationship then so why is she trying to build one now
Which pissed me the **** off he sound like he’s talking about a ex girlfriend and not his child

Ol let me get my lick back *** *****

Came out of prison on some lame ****
Lock his *** back up

😮‍💨 that sounds crazy…🤔 but the reality of actually being out from behind them bars after three decades…i couldn’t imagine what that would be like except to think that it would be difficult & there be a lot of complex & conflicted emotions about how his life has played out this far; so on some level you have give him some grace & let him talk himself through it or by asking questions to examine why he feels differently now that he is ahhtside…

ona waaaaay lighter note:

 
My brother just got home from doing 30 years

And he hasn’t called his daughter since he been home
Dude talking about it’s goi g to take some time to work on their relationship

Mind you last week he was on my phone talking about he can’t wait to get home to focus on their relationship


Now he’s talking about when he was locked up his daughter didn’t make a effort to build a relationship then so why is she trying to build one now
Which pissed me the **** off he sound like he’s talking about a ex girlfriend and not his child

Ol let me get my lick back *** *****

Came out of prison on some lame ****
Lock his *** back up
He's afraid.
Afraid of his daughter rejecting his efforts?
Afraid of his daughter (and others) judging him for his bid?
Afraid of something else?
Fear makes us believe things that make us not even try sometimes.
If she (daughter) wants to reconnect and he (brother) wants to reconnect, try to talk them through it.
 
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