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big j 33
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Hellhole. I like some parts of Georgia, like Savannah. But Atlanta does absolutely nothing for me.
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Ok, this situation happened from mid 2003 2004. Just to give y'all a little background... I was doing a summer science program and happened to befriend this particular female. At the time I met her, we were friends and just cool and I didn't think of her beyond that because she maintained she had a boyfriend. Don't know how we started talking but we just did. We even went home the same way so we talked basically every day.
Cliffs:
-Beh meets friend
-friend does some stuff to change beh's mind
-beh gets confused
-beh tells friend kick rocks b
We would talk every day and became cool really fast. Ironically, I would up telling her how I was feeling another female in the group and was telling her how nervous I was to approach her. She encouraged me to just go for it give the situation (another story for another day). I kicked it to the other girl, didn't work out, oh well. The summer program ended and me and Shauna (my friend) exchanged numbers to keep talking beyond the program (we went to different colleges, but still lived in Brooklyn). For the rest of the summer we chatted a bit, even talked on the phone until 3-4am at times. Then we got busy when the semester started and still checked in every now and again. Then came winter break...my mom and brother happened to go away for the weekend on a ski trip so I had the crib to myself. I told my friend that I wanted to hang out since I was going to be alone that weekend and would be bored. She suggests we go to the movies. Cool, harmless. The plan was to go on a Saturday afternoon, and we'd have the day to chill then I come home at night and be cool. That's not what happened. Saturday rolls around, it's 12 or so and she calls me, she said she had something to do with her mom but it wouldn't take long, I told her to take her time, no worries. 3 o'clock, 4 o'clock, 5 o'clock rolls by, no call. 6 o'clock she calls and says she'll be done soon, at this point I'm like w t f, but it's whatever. In the back of my mind, I thought something was up, but still brushed it off. We have since made plans to go to the 9:00pm show of The Butterfly Effect.
8 o'clock, 9 o'clock rolls by. No call. A little after 9 she calls and tells me she's on her way. I tell her we're going to miss the movie, she insists on coming over and says don't worry. She gets to the crib at 9:45. I'm like
then 
, but remembered she had a man and I respected that. This is where it gets...strange. We chill in the crib and see there is an 11:30pm show, so we wait around for a bit. We chill on the couch and watch Chappelle's show for a bit (side note: the bugged out part I realized later, the Rick James episode was on and it came on twice before and I never paid attention to it. I barely noticed it that night because obviously I had other things on my mind). While in the living room she's sitting on the arm of the couch bending over in front of me, giving me that mass effect, and it was fat too 
. At this point, my head gets really warm. I start thinking about a really sexual situation and went to the bathroom to put cold water on my face. I went back and forth about 3 times, going back and forth internally asking myself if I should just dead the movie and go for it, or just go out. We go to the movies. Watch the movie, then we leave. It's like 2:15ish in the morning. We grab something from McDonald's and leave.
At this point,I figured it was late and we could take the bus but she would keep going since she takes the same bus to her house. [Charlie Murphy voice] Wrong, Wrong [Charlie Murphy voice]. She comes back to the crib and we eat out food and we talk. Mind you, it's around 3am at this point. Things linger a bit, but nothing suggestive of anything extra-until we get to the bus stop (y'all think I was putting her *** in a cab huh? Wrong again, she wasn't my girl). I stood with her waiting for the bus, and it was brick *** cold that night too, maybe 15 degrees and windy. While waiting, she puts her arms around me and we just stood there hugging-like a couple. It just happened. In my mind, I'm like "she has a boyfriend, w t f is going on?", but I didn't fight it. My first instinct was to tell her let's go back in the crib, let me pipe, and she can go home in the morning. But that battle happened again. My thought process was, if she wanted me to smash, she'd have to say it, I wasn't about to play a guessing game. She says nothing, I let her get on the bus.
A few weeks later, she comes over to chill on a Saturday again, this time my mom is home and we kick it. I tell her about my neighbor and how I have a crush on her. She listens to the story and thinks nothing of it, until we go out to the store and on the way back, we see my neighbor. After seeing my neighbor, her whole attitude changed. She got quiet didn't say much and seemed sad. She never said why her mood changed so drastically but it was obvious. She went home after that day, cool. Fast forward a few weeks later, I'm on AIM, window pops up, it's her. She tells me she's nervous about her interview for this program she applied to that puts her on a track into the med school where we did the summer science program and how she got her outfit for it. Right after she says that, she mentions "and I look sexy in it too". Forreal, I did the jaguars fan gif (before it was a gif). That comment came out of left field, but once again in my head I'm thinking she likes me and wants me to make a move. So, I decided to test her dedication. I hopped into douche mode for a sec and I asked her to come to the crib and model the clothes so I can see her (I expected her to say hell no, what for?), she got all too happy. She said she had to get her shoes that day and would come to my house and model the clothes for me.
The day she said she would come, there was a nasty snowstorm. I fully expected her to cancel because of the weather, but nope, not her. She came to the crib, with not one, but two outfits to show me. I saw them, said they were nice but couldn't do much, moms was in the crib. At this point, I figured if she does all that something might be there and that "boyfriend" is some BS. She comes to the crib the next weekend, and we kick it. I decided to tell her that I started feeling her since we have been talking. I told her that yeah, I saw her as a friend and due to things that happened, I started feeling something more. She tells me, I like you and everything, but you know I have a boyfriend etc. In my mind, I'm like where was his *** when we were on the phone until 3am, where was he when you were at my house at 3am and hugged up? I got tight. My mom asked me to go to the store for her. We walked to the store and when we came back, I was so pissed at her, I didn't even sit at the kitchen table with her. I went to my room, took off my clothes and started watching tv and basically ignored her. She sat at that table alone for 2 hours before she decided to leave. After that, I told her it was best that we just not be friends anymore. She wanted to know why, but I told her I didn't want to get into the "why" of it. She kept asking I kept declining until I got tired of her asking why and hung up on her. She called about 3 more times and I didn't answer. I eventually told her on AIM why and it just kind of faded after that. So, LOT, what do you make of it? Would it be worthy of a girl problems/TAY post today?
8 o'clock, 9 o'clock rolls by. No call. A little after 9 she calls and tells me she's on her way. I tell her we're going to miss the movie, she insists on coming over and says don't worry. She gets to the crib at 9:45. I'm like
then , but remembered she had a man and I respected that. This is where it gets...strange. We chill in the crib and see there is an 11:30pm show, so we wait around for a bit. We chill on the couch and watch Chappelle's show for a bit (side note: the bugged out part I realized later, the Rick James episode was on and it came on twice before and I never paid attention to it. I barely noticed it that night because obviously I had other things on my mind). While in the living room she's sitting on the arm of the couch bending over in front of me, giving me that mass effect, and it was fat too . At this point, my head gets really warm. I start thinking about a really sexual situation and went to the bathroom to put cold water on my face. I went back and forth about 3 times, going back and forth internally asking myself if I should just dead the movie and go for it, or just go out. We go to the movies. Watch the movie, then we leave. It's like 2:15ish in the morning. We grab something from McDonald's and leave. At this point,I figured it was late and we could take the bus but she would keep going since she takes the same bus to her house. [Charlie Murphy voice] Wrong, Wrong [Charlie Murphy voice]. She comes back to the crib and we eat out food and we talk. Mind you, it's around 3am at this point. Things linger a bit, but nothing suggestive of anything extra-until we get to the bus stop (y'all think I was putting her *** in a cab huh? Wrong again, she wasn't my girl). I stood with her waiting for the bus, and it was brick *** cold that night too, maybe 15 degrees and windy. While waiting, she puts her arms around me and we just stood there hugging-like a couple. It just happened. In my mind, I'm like "she has a boyfriend, w t f is going on?", but I didn't fight it. My first instinct was to tell her let's go back in the crib, let me pipe, and she can go home in the morning. But that battle happened again. My thought process was, if she wanted me to smash, she'd have to say it, I wasn't about to play a guessing game. She says nothing, I let her get on the bus.
A few weeks later, she comes over to chill on a Saturday again, this time my mom is home and we kick it. I tell her about my neighbor and how I have a crush on her. She listens to the story and thinks nothing of it, until we go out to the store and on the way back, we see my neighbor. After seeing my neighbor, her whole attitude changed. She got quiet didn't say much and seemed sad. She never said why her mood changed so drastically but it was obvious. She went home after that day, cool. Fast forward a few weeks later, I'm on AIM, window pops up, it's her. She tells me she's nervous about her interview for this program she applied to that puts her on a track into the med school where we did the summer science program and how she got her outfit for it. Right after she says that, she mentions "and I look sexy in it too". Forreal, I did the jaguars fan gif (before it was a gif
). That comment came out of left field, but once again in my head I'm thinking she likes me and wants me to make a move. So, I decided to test her dedication. I hopped into douche mode for a sec and I asked her to come to the crib and model the clothes so I can see her (I expected her to say hell no, what for?), she got all too happy. She said she had to get her shoes that day and would come to my house and model the clothes for me. The day she said she would come, there was a nasty snowstorm. I fully expected her to cancel because of the weather, but nope, not her. She came to the crib, with not one, but two outfits to show me. I saw them, said they were nice but couldn't do much, moms was in the crib. At this point, I figured if she does all that something might be there and that "boyfriend" is some BS. She comes to the crib the next weekend, and we kick it. I decided to tell her that I started feeling her since we have been talking. I told her that yeah, I saw her as a friend and due to things that happened, I started feeling something more. She tells me, I like you and everything, but you know I have a boyfriend etc. In my mind, I'm like where was his *** when we were on the phone until 3am, where was he when you were at my house at 3am and hugged up? I got tight. My mom asked me to go to the store for her. We walked to the store and when we came back, I was so pissed at her, I didn't even sit at the kitchen table with her. I went to my room, took off my clothes and started watching tv and basically ignored her. She sat at that table alone for 2 hours before she decided to leave. After that, I told her it was best that we just not be friends anymore. She wanted to know why, but I told her I didn't want to get into the "why" of it. She kept asking I kept declining until I got tired of her asking why and hung up on her. She called about 3 more times and I didn't answer. I eventually told her on AIM why and it just kind of faded after that. So, LOT, what do you make of it? Would it be worthy of a girl problems/TAY post today?
Cliffs:
-Beh meets friend
-friend does some stuff to change beh's mind
-beh gets confused
-beh tells friend kick rocks b
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That is a novel, thanks for the cliffs
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Nice cliffs
big j 33
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Don't be afraid to hit that enter key and space out that wall of text.
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big j has been on a roll lately.
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looks like some sort of natural disaster went down...
wut
He brings the lulz.
big j has been on a roll lately.
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He brings the lulz.
big j has been on a roll lately.
just kidding guise, just kidding
I would have went for it that first time and skipped the movies Beh
Saved you the trouble the 2nd time around
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I'll be sure to do it when I'm watching game si....nevermind
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As for the situation, I don't know. I second guessed myself for a long while after that. Crazy thing is, that wasn't the first time something like that happened to me. I wasn't sure, I should have said F her bf and kept it moving
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