the thread about nothing...

got invited to watch the clippers and pistons game tomorrow but I work 10-10, someone call my job and say my granpa is not well.
 
Fam.

My girl out here giving me the silent treatment like she a damn toddler.
Adults close to 30 years old still do that?
 
Lol, What happened man?

Hit her up the other day. Didn't say good morning, didn't say hey. Just straight up said something along the lines of "Let me know what you're doing today, I wanna **** before you go away." She was leaving for a couple days. I was just having a rough/stressful weekend and got straight to the point. Apparently, she didn't like that.

Tried to explain why I said it in that manner but she wasn't hearing it.

EDIT: This is my girlfriend btw. Not a jump or a chick I just met.
 
Fam.

My girl out here giving me the silent treatment like she a damn toddler.
Adults close to 30 years old still do that?

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lols I forgot that I told my gf that I couldn't get coverage on weekends when she had a family party I didn't want to go to a few weeks back.
told her I'm trying to get coverage tomorrow for the game and now she's blowing up my phone lulz :emoji_speak_no_evil::emoji_shrug:
 
Hit her up the other day. Didn't say good morning, didn't say hey. Just straight up said something along the lines of "Let me know what you're doing today, I wanna **** before you go away." She was leaving for a couple days. I was just having a rough/stressful weekend and got straight to the point. Apparently, she didn't like that.

Tried to explain why I said it in that manner but she wasn't hearing it.

EDIT: This is my girlfriend btw. Not a jump or a chick I just met.

On the real...

Na man u put ur foot down and let her know what u really meant. U tryna smash and shes ur girl, she gotta take care of u in that way. If a girl cant please u after a stressfull time then move on is wht i believe.


If she cant help u or doesnt want to, why even bother with her anymore?
 
I see how it could be taken as disrespect and maybe I came off as too aggressive. But I was willing to own up to it and give context as to why I said it in that way.
I even threw her an apology text so she knows I'm not in denial.

My thing is, she had two ways to handle the situation: Sit down after a couple days and communicate with me OR completely shut down and run away from the issue.
On the real, if my girl sees me make a mistake, I wanna be able to talk about it and not worry about her getting me back by ignoring me.

If shutting down is her response, I'd rather just do my thing solo

*Steps off soapbox*
 
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