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Need some feedback here. All is welcomed.

My friends and I put on these monthly gatherings. Last month, we went skeet shooting and went to a cigar bar. This month, we decided to host an ‘Ugly Christmas Sweater’ dinner party for our families.

The guy who’s hosting the party volunteered to do so. It’s next week. As told from one of the other guys this morning, the host has had some issue with telling me since our last meetup that kids won’t be allowed at his house.

I respect it—BUT—besides the host, I’m the only one in the group that has kids and my daughter is 4. Is it wrong to feel disrespected bc he couldn’t tell me himself? I almost feel like not coming at all bc he couldn’t tell me himself and we’ve had this planned for weeks now.
 
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what yall getting yall girl for Christmas the ones who are in a relationship??
 
est1989 said:
Need some feedback here. All is welcomed.

My friends and I put on these monthly gatherings. Last month, we went skeet shooting and went to a cigar bar. This month, we decided to host an ‘Ugly Christmas Sweater’ dinner party for our families.

The guy who’s hosting the party volunteered to do so. It’s next week. As told from one of the other guys this morning, the host has had some issue with telling me since our last meetup that kids won’t be allowed at his house.

I respect it—BUT—besides the host, I’m the only one in the group that has kids and my daughter is 4. Is it wrong to feel disrespected bc he couldn’t tell me himself? I almost feel like not coming at all bc he couldn’t tell me himself and we’ve had this planned for weeks now.
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I would just pull him to the side and talk to him. I dont see why he couldn't speak man to man about something so simple...
 
est1989 said:
Need some feedback here. All is welcomed.

My friends and I put on these monthly gatherings. Last month, we went skeet shooting and went to a cigar bar. This month, we decided to host an ‘Ugly Christmas Sweater’ dinner party for our families.

The guy who’s hosting the party volunteered to do so. It’s next week. As told from one of the other guys this morning, the host has had some issue with telling me since our last meetup that kids won’t be allowed at his house.

I respect it—BUT—besides the host, I’m the only one in the group that has kids and my daughter is 4. Is it wrong to feel disrespected bc he couldn’t tell me himself? I almost feel like not coming at all bc he couldn’t tell me himself and we’ve had this planned for weeks now.
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Don't go
 
est1989 said:
Need some feedback here. All is welcomed.

My friends and I put on these monthly gatherings. Last month, we went skeet shooting and went to a cigar bar. This month, we decided to host an ‘Ugly Christmas Sweater’ dinner party for our families.

The guy who’s hosting the party volunteered to do so. It’s next week. As told from one of the other guys this morning, the host has had some issue with telling me since our last meetup that kids won’t be allowed at his house.

I respect it—BUT—besides the host, I’m the only one in the group that has kids and my daughter is 4. Is it wrong to feel disrespected bc he couldn’t tell me himself? I almost feel like not coming at all bc he couldn’t tell me himself and we’ve had this planned for weeks now.
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"I respect it"

It's his house.

Also it's your daughter


Go or stay home but don't make a possible issue into a larger one.
 
Why would u wanna take ur 4 year old to a adult party ? Who are u to decide what goes at his pad? Find a babysitter or go Applebee’s
 
Yeah, it’s just the way in which I was told that put me off. He couldn’t tell me himself. Plus, his kids aren’t “kids” bc they’re grown and out of the house. So I feel like it’s really my daughter he has an issue with.

Like...we’re better than that, right?

...right?
 
niceshoes247 said:
Why would u wanna take ur 4 year old to a adult party ? Who are u to decide what goes at his pad? Find a babysitter or go Applebee’s
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It’s not an adult party. It was organized for our families to meet and wear ugly Christmas sweaters and be merry. That’s it.
 
got a new Phillips smart 4K 55 for the living room..big improvement from what I had before..the tv talks to u tho..if u lower the volume it says volume down or whatever u do it will announce what u are doing..turned that off instantly..gonna finally order Netflix and start watching season 3 of narcos..I also can't wait to see the other shows..I bet they are good..the only Netflix show I seen was narcos
 
est1989 said:
Need some feedback here. All is welcomed.

My friends and I put on these monthly gatherings. Last month, we went skeet shooting and went to a cigar bar. This month, we decided to host an ‘Ugly Christmas Sweater’ dinner party for our families.

The guy who’s hosting the party volunteered to do so. It’s next week. As told from one of the other guys this morning, the host has had some issue with telling me since our last meetup that kids won’t be allowed at his house.

I respect it—BUT—besides the host, I’m the only one in the group that has kids and my daughter is 4. Is it wrong to feel disrespected bc he couldn’t tell me himself? I almost feel like not coming at all bc he couldn’t tell me himself and we’ve had this planned for weeks now.
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Why does he not want your kid there? I understand if its a guys night and you want to let loose and have drinks head out or talk freely about things a 4 year old need not hear. But its a dinner party for families? Like sounds like there is no real reason for a kid to not be there.

Id hit him up casually and ask. Sounds like there could be handled easily. Like if you don't want to find a sitter...then don't go...if his reason is some how valid in your eyes then find a sitter and go.
 
est1989 said:
It’s not an adult party. It was organized for our families to meet and wear ugly Christmas sweaters and be merry. That’s it.
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I think your over thinking this. Thier is time and place everything. Just respect man house. If he couldn't tell it for face maybe he has coward like tendieces. (I don't trust cowards) find another to celebrate Christmas with your daughter.
 
est1989 said:
Need some feedback here. All is welcomed.

My friends and I put on these monthly gatherings. Last month, we went skeet shooting and went to a cigar bar. This month, we decided to host an ‘Ugly Christmas Sweater’ dinner party for our families.

The guy who’s hosting the party volunteered to do so. It’s next week. As told from one of the other guys this morning, the host has had some issue with telling me since our last meetup that kids won’t be allowed at his house.

I respect it—BUT—besides the host, I’m the only one in the group that has kids and my daughter is 4. Is it wrong to feel disrespected bc he couldn’t tell me himself? I almost feel like not coming at all bc he couldn’t tell me himself and we’ve had this planned for weeks now.
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Yeah, I would be pretty disappointed. They should have considered the fact you're the only one in your group that has a kid.

And like you said, a dinner party for our families. I don't understand the issue about having your kid over.

I'd probably speak to him to clear the air, but I wouldn't attend if he's so uptight about having your kid come with you to the dinner.

You tell me it's a dinner for our families, but there are exceptions? Nah. I'll pass.
 
Made coffee this morning. Definitely helping me stay awake with only 3 hours of sleep.
 
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