the thread about nothing...

Yeah man, it was tough on me even though I moved on. To be honest, I feel guilty that I’m still here and they’re not. Like “will every girl I like meet the same fate?” I’d rather not get too emotionally attached to women from now on. That’s why I’m so light and breezy when it comes to relationships and refuse to get married or have kids. 38 now with zero plans for a family.

Damn bro you let the fear of cancer stop you from starting a family or living your life.
 
Damn bro you let the fear of cancer stop you from starting a family or living your life.
I am in the same boat, even though my experiences and reasoning are different. Having children is a decision that cannot be undone. It's not like buying a pair of shoes and later deciding I do not want them anymore. However, I do like children and treat other's as if they are my own.
 
Damn bro you let the fear of cancer stop you from starting a family or living your life.

There are other reasons why but this certainly didn’t help my outlook on future family plans. I don’t think I have the patience to be a husband in this era we’re in. The divorce rate is sky high, couples are constantly cheating on one another regularly, child support is a motherfu....Besides, I enjoy my bachelor status. I like having options and not being tied down. I have two nephews who I have helped raise when the baby daddy called it quits after just one year. I’m practically a dad to them and they respect me more than their own biological father. The best part is I get to go home once I’ve had enough :lol:
 
There are other reasons why but this certainly didn’t help my outlook on future family plans. I don’t think I have the patience to be a husband in this era we’re in. The divorce rate is sky high, couples are constantly cheating on one another regularly, child support is a motherfu....Besides, I enjoy my bachelor status. I like having options and not being tied down. I have two nephews who I have helped raise when the baby daddy called it quits after just one year. I’m practically a dad to them and they respect me more than their own biological father. The best part is I get to go home once I’ve had enough :lol:


I knew there had to be more to it. Kind of silly to live in fear of cancer. Most ppl who find they have cancer start trying to do things before they die. If you get my drift
 
I am in the same boat, even though my experiences and reasoning are different. Having children is a decision that cannot be undone. It's not like buying a pair of shoes and later deciding I do not want them anymore. However, I do like children and treat other's as if they are my own.

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I am in the same boat, even though my experiences and reasoning are different. Having children is a decision that cannot be undone. It's not like buying a pair of shoes and later deciding I do not want them anymore. However, I do like children and treat other's as if they are my own.

Trust i know i got 3 boys. But i dont live my life in fear
 
I knew there had to be more to it.

There always is, it’s never black and white. My parents are not together anymore and even 20 years of separation hasn’t made them anymore civil towards each other. So many holidays, birthdays and special occasions have been ruined because of their pettiness. It’s affected me and my brother and sister still to this day, it’s ongoing. Add that I don’t know any friends who are still married. My buddies are divorced and paying child support while they’re ******* around with other currently married women :lol::smh: It’s just too much and would rather watch from the sideline, learn from their mistakes.
 
There always is, it’s never black and white. My parents are not together anymore and even 20 years of separation hasn’t made them anymore civil towards each other. So many holidays, birthdays and special occasions have been ruined because of their pettiness. It’s affected me and my brother and sister still to this day, it’s ongoing. Add that I don’t know any friends who are still married. My buddies are divorced and paying child support while they’re ****ing around with other currently married women :lol::smh: It’s just too much and would rather watch from the sideline, learn from their mistakes.

How long were they married?

And i feel ya. I made my fair amount of mistakes myself and have friends who got divorced after a year too:lol:
 
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How long were they married?

And i feel ya. I made my fair amount of mistakes myself and have friends whi got divirced after a year too:lol:

22 years of marriage. I’ve seen my mother catch beatings for the smallest things. My dad would take off for days whenever he picked a fight only to find out he spent it with another woman. They were always fighting and I had to step in at 14 to toss him across the room and let him know things were going to change. There were no more beatings but it didn’t slow the arguments. I was happy they separated because I knew I’d finally have some peace. Then the tug of war began over who could and couldn’t visit.

Yeah man, I understand people will make mistakes but it seems like everyone makes the same ones over and over. If I know the odds are I’ll get burned, then why do it? I feel like I can learn that lesson without having to experience it first hand, you know? I don’t know, maybe I’m being too cautious but I’d hate to give any seed of mine a crappy head start in life. Like the other guy said earlier...can’t take kids back.
 
Gonna finally check out the Bodega in LA, and hit up Dover again. Dover is such a dope store.
 
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Chick I met last week, let me do every thing to her I mean lickin toes to booty. Fingers in her booty, 69 Every thing. Cuddling, spent the night had breakfast etc. ***** been distant ever since smh she put it on a playa
 
Never heard of them...

Just checked out the site.

What in the complete karmaloop is this ****?

Traaaaash.

What rock do you live under? I don't even have an instagram account and I cannot go a day without seeing a reference to it somewhere.
 
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