the thread about nothing...

If it were me I would have a conversation along the lines of " Hey ...bla blah blah, let's stop this flirting thing, I do not feel comfortable and I really dig talking with you, but the flirting and all that bs we talk just feels awkward and childish" If she hits you with the "Oh you're misinterpreting stuff blah blah" trying to make look like a fool, just drop it she ain't worth it, I hate girls that pretend they don't do **** with their nun facade ... in Colombia we call them "Mojigatas".
It reminds me of a woman I work with, I'm working with her since 2015, this year, as we were laughing, her, 2 another ones and myself, she felt enough confident to remind me something, or to try to remind me something I have no memories :lol:

She told me back in 2008 I seemed interested by her, but then at the time she has told me she had a boyfriend so I gave up.

As it was quite possible because she's attractive, and because I didn't want to tell her she was misinterpreting as I think she's not, I said to her in front of her and the other ones something like :

" I have no memories about it, but I do believe you, it is possible, you're a beautiful lady " :lol:

When she told me more about this trial of mine from the past I understood and told her why I have forgotten, she was asking me if I have forgotten because I was trying to seduce a lot of women, and I said no, I said if I try to seduce you, and you gave me a no answer, it was painful, so there was no reason to me then to remember it :lol:

That's funny because since 2015 I thought she was familiar to me, and she took 6 years to tell me this :rofl:

I couldn't even pretend it was false as she's gorgeous to me

Glad I acted well at the time not insisting or something :lol:
 
That'd work too. She wouldn't try to act oblivious, I remember I did explicitly tell her on 2 occasions that if she kept going she'd drive my fantasies wild and she questioned if that was a bad thing. Now that I think about it, maybe she thinks she's helping my treatment or something (my hormone illness is why hormones come up so much).

She ain't helping **** if you're giving it so much thought my man.

Just stop it you got better things to worry atm I imagine.

There's still Covid around lol
 
Yes, thinking a lot of a real woman but never do anything with her is frustrating, because there is some hope of something, it is more sane about thinking of women that don't exist in our reality, because we know we would never get them :lol: or to think about no women, and if it happens, great. The more emotion we put in the purchase of some feelings or love, the more we are vulnerable to them. Always when you don't care about a woman you have some kind of success with her. If she knows you have a crush on her, she will play with your feelings.



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She ain't helping **** if you're giving it so much thought my man.

Just stop it you got better things to worry atm I imagine.

There's still Covid around lol
Those worries are exactly what she has been helping me out with a lot in our normal conversations, hence why I want to stay good friends with her. Whenever I want to get something off my chest, regardless of what it is, she's eager to listen and help.
 
Those worries are exactly what she has been helping me out with a lot in our normal conversations, hence why I want to stay good friends with her. Whenever I want to get something off my chest, regardless of what it is, she's eager to listen and help.

If this is the scenario you're in for a heartbreak in some sort. RIP to that heart lol
 
If this is the scenario you're in for a heartbreak in some sort. RIP to that heart lol
That already happened yesterday night :lol:
What's done is done, it's time to start scouting some of our mutual acquaintances. She's down to put in a good word for me and relay other women's thinking back to me.
 
Does anyone here know how to follow a member on OfferUp?
 
just noticed 24 hr fitness owes me a refund. logged on and saw i have a credit. apparently, i got charged for annual and one month fees last yr right when i canceled the membership
gyms opening back up, but i'm good >D
 
Standing conversations w/o anything in between u 2 can be so weird sometimes. Like "where sound I put my hands"?
 
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