the thread about nothing...

... sometimes.

And sometimes you gotta cut ties.
Weigh it personally, there’s really, simple general advice I can only give without true context. In tame situations, some people need just one person to believe in them. I’m not talking about lending money, that’s not believing in someone.

But if there’s a reason to believe in someone then lending the money is a now thing and then believing in them for valid reasons is the personal part.
 
My thing is
That I’m constantly trying to build my money up from saving investing and etc

I’m poor and I’m trying to get myself out of that situation


I don’t understand how I’m the person that they reach out two I’m talking about married individuals


It also becomes a cycle
It’s in the same ball park as someone having a title loan minus the high interest and the collection phone calls (because I’m not hassling you for it I just know how to respond next time )


If you don’t have it to pay back then your basically still in the hole

When my sister was borrowing money I didn’t even let it leave the cash app just do to the fact that your going to need it again

And I guess it’s different with my sister than with my brother
My brother has very manipulative traits and I peep it but I let it slide because of who he is
My sister is just awful with money
 
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I hate letting my brother and sister borrow money
I immediately take it as a loss

Don't loan money to ANYBODY, on a personal level, unless you can afford to never see it again, and don't expect to get it back. This is especially the case with family. I promise you that the effect, on the relationship, of them inevitably not paying you back is greater than any bad blood from you NOT "loaning" them money. Gotta learn to say no.
 
Since 2k25 is almost over, I dunno which celebs I was tired of seeing/hearing about between Trump, TSwift, Sydney Sweeney, Blake Lively, Kevin Hart, and Diddy.
 
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