the thread about nothing...

[had pants]

 

[clyde the glide]

100% agreed. The slight problem with that though is that I’m a close friend of her and we tend to hang out regularly. I’d rather not cause a hassle for her but I’m also not going to let some insecure loser dictate whether I can hang out with his girl.

She made it clear to me that she likewise has no intention to stop hanging out with me etc so at least it sounds like she’s prepared to deal with the potential mess. I have nothing left to say to some bum who’d snake me like that.

If anything, the guy probably felt like that for a while now. I doubt some silly picture was the breaking point. Sometimes when I hang out with her it’s just the two of us but that’s something he was long aware of before they started dating. It would look a lot more suspicious if I suddenly stopped as soon as she got into a relationship.
If you can’t deal with platonic male friendships, quit crying and go date someone else.

This the same female friend you've been posting about for years?

 

[ryda421]

Yea, you gotta know better man.

I would always assume the worst in a situation like that. I wouldn't even want it to be known that she was even coming @ me asking for some simple stuff like that.



Nah, you should fall back because she is in a relationship.

If she is really your friend, fall back and let her be with her dude.

If they don't work out, then you can resume the closeness yall had before.

But while they are together, it makes the most sense for you to fall back.

it is Europe, it is a different culture. you can read all the books you want but unless you are living there, you would not actually know the experience.

 

[6 Rings G.O.A.T.]

 

[ryda421]

Wednesday evening over here B

 

[6 Rings G.O.A.T.]

 

[DCAllAfrican]

it is Europe, it is a different culture. you can read all the books you want but unless you are living there, you would not actually know the experience.

Male jealousy is universal.

Dude has a problem with @columbia dealing with his woman, so it's best practice to fall back.

I don't need to live in the culture to understand how to stay safe.

If you disagree, cool.

 

[willypete]

Legit thought it was code word for something else. The type of stuff yall favorite OF girls are into.

First time I saw Dubai chocolate being asked for on Twitter, I too was also scared of what these women were asking for.

Turns out it’s just a different type of chocolate treat, still a wild name with all the allegations coming from Dubai

 

[calibeebee]

 

[tr1ll]

The robber took $200 from the kid

This is the **** we was all scared of when we were little. Luckily, I guess, dare I say, dudes were "realer" then.

 

[cragmatic]

The tv episodes with the dummy were terrifying as a kid.

Remember Are You Afraid of the dark?

Do they have any shows like that for kids these days?

 

[tr1ll]

First time I saw Dubai chocolate being asked for on Twitter, I too was also scared of what these women were asking for.

Turns out it’s just a different type of chocolate treat, still a wild name with all the allegations coming from Dubai

Bro...

Time to take a break from the internet.

Ngl...I thought they were edibles at first, tho.

 

[willypete]

Bro...

Time to take a break from the internet.

Ngl...I thought they were edibles at first, tho.

What made it worse is that this was around when I think either Saweetie or somebody else was making it known they get the Dubai specials for the bag

 

[tr1ll]

Unpopular opinion: I dont think that Dubia **** was real. No pun intended.

 

[willypete]

It’s definitely real. I still remember when we had the March Madness threads for the womenz and people were posting the receipts in those.

Men and women were taking those trips for the bag. Might not have been 6-7 figures but definitely enough to change a lifestyle

 

[darthska]

Dude has a problem with @columbia dealing with his woman, so it's best practice to fall back.

**** aaaalllll 'at.

"She was 'my' friend before she was 'your' woman, and she's her own person, not 'your' anything. If she still wants to hang out with me, that's up to her, not you."

All these hard lessons we want to throw at kids and be old school tough on 8-year-olds in classrooms, but we're going to pander to a grown man's immature jealousy?

Collectively, we gotta stop that.
Men, collectively, will be better for it.

 

[tr1ll]

**** aaaalllll 'at.

"She was 'my' friend before she was 'your' woman, and she's her own person, not 'your' anything. If she still wants to hang out with me, that's up to her, not you."

All these hard lessons we want to throw at kids and be old school tough on 8-year-olds in classrooms, but we're going to pander to a grown man's immature jealousy?

Collectively, we gotta stop that.
Men, collectively, will be better for it.

I feel like jealousy doubles as an emotion and a character trait. All of us feel jealousy to some degree even if it’s fleeting, but it’s a part of some people’s personality. Like there’s no lesson to teach to stop some folks from being jealous.

 

[DCAllAfrican]

**** aaaalllll 'at.

"She was 'my' friend before she was 'your' woman, and she's her own person, not 'your' anything. If she still wants to hang out with me, that's up to her, not you."

All these hard lessons we want to throw at kids and be old school tough on 8-year-olds in classrooms, but we're going to pander to a grown man's immature jealousy?

Collectively, we gotta stop that.
Men, collectively, will be better for it.

Keep playing with folks if you want.

If a dude gives the impression that he wants you to stop messing with his girl, I don't care if yall went to Elementary school together, it's best if you fall back for your OWN safety.

Not sure what kind of advice you are attempting to give but now ain't the time.

If Belgium was your nephew or any male that you cared about you would tell him to leave the girl alone because she has an unpredictable dude.

I really don't even know what the back and forth is about.

 

[darthska]

If a dude gives the impression that he wants you to stop messing with his girl, I don't care if yall went to Elementary school together, it's best if you fall back for your OWN safety.

"She's my property. Back off from my property. I decide who she hangs out with, and I'm deciding that it's not you."
Nope. He needs to grow up, but whether he does or not is not my problem. I'll support my friends' independence & autonomy long before I pander to his possessive immaturity.
"I want you to stop hanging out with her."
"Noted. So anyways..."
And I'm not giving any advice.
This is a discussion board.
I'm discussing.

 

[Belgium]

This the same female friend you've been posting about for years?

Nah nah different one. Also from the same former workplace though.
If that other one had a partner and had some issues I'd definitely understand

 

[DCAllAfrican]

"She's my property. Back off from my property. I decide who she hangs out with, and I'm deciding that it's not you."
Nope. He needs to grow up, but whether he does or not is not my problem. I'll support my friends' independence & autonomy long before I pander to his possessive immaturity.
"I want you to stop hanging out with her."
"Noted. So anyways..."
And I'm not giving any advice.
This is a discussion board.
I'm discussing.

You ain't trying to have a conversation rooted in reality.

I tap out.

 

[darthska]

I feel like jealousy doubles as an emotion and a character trait.

Correct.

Like there’s no lesson to teach to stop some folks from being jealous.

Incorrect.
People get away with what they know they can.
In this case, as long as a dude knows he'll keep getting away with immature possessiveness, he'll keep being immaturely possessive.
Once he starts seeing that people won't put up with it, he'll figure out whether he wants to be bitter or better.

 

[darthska]

The 'reality' that a guy dictates their woman's life needs to be corrected every time it comes up.
Reality: Women in relationships with men still run their own ****.

 

[Belgium]

Keep playing with folks if you want.

If a dude gives the impression that he wants you to stop messing with his girl, I don't care if yall went to Elementary school together, it's best if you fall back for your OWN safety.

Not sure what kind of advice you are attempting to give but now ain't the time.

If Belgium was your nephew or any male that you cared about you would tell him to leave the girl alone because she has an unpredictable dude.

I really don't even know what the back and forth is about.

If I wasn't a longtime friend, sure. He doesn't seem like the type of guy to get violent or anything but I guess that's always a possibility.
If anything, I could lower my contact with her for a while until she eventually dumps him. She said she got pretty heated to him about trying to control her friendships so unless he changes course, it's probably over for him soon anyway. Doesn't necessarily stop him from blaming me though unless he can see what he did wrong.

 

[darthska]

She said she got pretty heated to him about trying to control her friendships so unless he changes course, it's probably over for him soon anyway.

Good for her.
For his sake, I hope he grows up.