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Just saw a video that had Brandi Love’s car break down in NYC. She didn’t have money on her and had to give the Dominican mechanics an offer they couldn’t refuse
 

People really don't know how to advocate for themselves, at work, in a relationship, whatever.
"I want to go to the beach."
"Cool. Have fun."
"Wait, you're not going? I wanted us..."
"Cool. Have fun."

And then the other side of this equation: don't get serious with someone that you have very few similar interests with.
Having someone constantly pressure you to partake in things that aren't your interest, that's a self-imposed problem.
 
People really don't know how to advocate for themselves, at work, in a relationship, whatever.
"I want to go to the beach."
"Cool. Have fun."
"Wait, you're not going? I wanted us..."
"Cool. Have fun."

And then the other side of this equation: don't get serious with someone that you have very few similar interests with.
Having someone constantly pressure, you to partake in things that aren't your interest, that's a self-imposed problem.

it’s tough…part of being in relationship is the understanding that it comes with a sort of compromise/duty, that often involves a kind of begrudging participation in stuff that tho not personally enjoyable, there is a genuine pleasure in doing the thing that makes the other person happy (to which you’d hope the other person would have the awareness/care to recognize this & find that stuff that balances out the enjoyment quotient for both, such that it isn’t one sided)…

generally men & women have disparate interests so not sure folks having similar interests is that highly correlated with (romantic) relationships enduring or satisfaction with said relationship, i just think most men enter into relationships already knowing, (un)fortunately for some men, doing certain things almost exclusively for the happiness their ol’ lady comes with the woman…& this is often compounded by women generally not having this same reciprocal understanding (just the expectation) 😂 or not to the same extent at least
 
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