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So....
I've been single for the past month and a half and I never really put myself out there to start dating. A week ago I go to the bowling alley with somefriends and I meet a girl there who they are friends with. We all go to Denny's afterward and to make a long story short she put her number in my phonewithout me knowing, she likes me, we went on two dates, she pours her heart out to me.... all within a week.
Meanwhile....
One of my friends that I went bowling with called me up on Friday and wanted me to do him a favor. He is going out on a date but his girl is bringing a friendand the friend doesn't want to be a third wheel so he tells her that he has a friend who might be decent enough for her to attract her attention. Soit's basically a blind double-date. I agreed to it and I met them at the Grove (my L.A. heads def. know this spot). I met them in the parking lot I saw twodifferent types of girls (I had not met his new girl yet so I didn't know which was my date): a short, mildly heavy-set girl with long hair, thick lips,and a big bust then there was the other girl who was tall, light-skinned, short but cute haircut, beautiful and smooth skin.
Naturally because of my friend's height I assumed that the tall girl was his girl friend and the other girl was my date, I figured he was playing a meanjoke on me and the girl I thought I was with. But it turned out that I was on the date with the taller girl. In short me and the girl hit it off, we love thesame type of music, we have similar tastes in fashion (with respect to our genders), and we really like each other. We eventually stay out late and we end up"gettin' it crackin'". She felt weird cuz she never had sex with someone on the first night that she met them, but she got over thateventually.
Now...
I went on a date with the girl from the bowling alley last night and I brought up having an open relationship and she didn't like that too much cuz shedoesn't want anyone else. Eventually she said she would just have to get used to it. Later last night/early this morning we "get it crackin'"too, lol.
So now I don't know what to do, I like both of the girls but I want an open relationship where I'm not tied down to anyone and I'm free to datewhoever I please. Between the two I feel like I have more of a connection with the tall girl (who is really only an inch or two taller than me) because of ourtastes in music and a bunch of other things we have in common. The problem is the other girl poured her heart out to me within the first week of usdating...... ugh this ain't as easy as I thought it would be. What to do???
I've been single for the past month and a half and I never really put myself out there to start dating. A week ago I go to the bowling alley with somefriends and I meet a girl there who they are friends with. We all go to Denny's afterward and to make a long story short she put her number in my phonewithout me knowing, she likes me, we went on two dates, she pours her heart out to me.... all within a week.
Meanwhile....
One of my friends that I went bowling with called me up on Friday and wanted me to do him a favor. He is going out on a date but his girl is bringing a friendand the friend doesn't want to be a third wheel so he tells her that he has a friend who might be decent enough for her to attract her attention. Soit's basically a blind double-date. I agreed to it and I met them at the Grove (my L.A. heads def. know this spot). I met them in the parking lot I saw twodifferent types of girls (I had not met his new girl yet so I didn't know which was my date): a short, mildly heavy-set girl with long hair, thick lips,and a big bust then there was the other girl who was tall, light-skinned, short but cute haircut, beautiful and smooth skin.
Naturally because of my friend's height I assumed that the tall girl was his girl friend and the other girl was my date, I figured he was playing a meanjoke on me and the girl I thought I was with. But it turned out that I was on the date with the taller girl. In short me and the girl hit it off, we love thesame type of music, we have similar tastes in fashion (with respect to our genders), and we really like each other. We eventually stay out late and we end up"gettin' it crackin'". She felt weird cuz she never had sex with someone on the first night that she met them, but she got over thateventually.
Now...
I went on a date with the girl from the bowling alley last night and I brought up having an open relationship and she didn't like that too much cuz shedoesn't want anyone else. Eventually she said she would just have to get used to it. Later last night/early this morning we "get it crackin'"too, lol.
So now I don't know what to do, I like both of the girls but I want an open relationship where I'm not tied down to anyone and I'm free to datewhoever I please. Between the two I feel like I have more of a connection with the tall girl (who is really only an inch or two taller than me) because of ourtastes in music and a bunch of other things we have in common. The problem is the other girl poured her heart out to me within the first week of usdating...... ugh this ain't as easy as I thought it would be. What to do???
