Originally Posted by
23ska909red02
Drop the victim mentality.
Now before you get defensive on me, hear me out.
You've worked on your game a ton; awesome. Shot in dimly lit gyms to improve your shot (word to Ray Allen), done suicides with ankle weights till your thighs hated you; the hard work has clearly paid off for you, because obviously, your game is right.
You're trying to make connections; wonderful.
But the attitude isn't there yet. Get your mind right. Thinking things like "Oh well. I guess I'm not being paid to play basketball because I don't have an agent or I go to open runs and people think that I'm just another chucker like Iversen or Ben Gordon, or I'm too short, or people expect a different skill set from me."
Start thinking things like "The reason I'm not being paid to play basketball yet is simply because it hasn't happened. YET."
Why does it matter what's going on in your head? Why does it matter how you present yourself? People looking for talent, all they care about is basketball, right? Wrong.
I don't have deep basketball connections or anything like that, but I know 3 people who have been paid to play ball. And of course, the only thing I can see about you is your videos, but from what I've seen, you are better than the 3 people I've known. Two of them played at a small university in middle America (less than 500 students total), and the other one played one year at a community college in California.
But all 3 of them had a different attitude regarding why they weren't being paid to play ball. As long as I knew them, they OWNED the reason why they haven't cracked some league yet. When people talked to them, it wasn't "Oh well, I guess people just…" blah, blah, blah. No, when people asked "Bro, how are you not playing overseas?", it was responses like "Just hasn't happened yet.
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I can speak so much more on this, but in short, I'm just trying to say that this victim mentality I'm picking up just from seeing you post gives off this vibe that your success or failure is determined by the planets lining up correctly or some other fortunate circumstance. And I think that is something that has contributed to you being held back so far.