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20 he won't go to the military
20 is still relatively young, especially in today's age. I know 30 year olds like this. Not an excuse, but he's not an anomaly.
You should tell him he needs to start doing something and making moves to earn his keep. Help pay a little rent. Chores. Job corps. Something. Just sitting around doing nothing is unrealistic. Even getting a part time job at Amazon or something like that sounds like it would be a step in the right direction.
You could also consider sending him to some type of counselor, career specialist, or something a long those lines to get some professional feedback.
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