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Back story: My best friend and I live in DC. We talk from the time we go to work to the time we go to sleep, everyday. We've been friends since like 2003.
Three weeks ago, my best friend was trying to figure out what to do for her birthday. Her other friend goes "Let's go to NY". Of course, she invites me to go. Two weeks ago I asked, "so how are we getting to NY?". She goes "I don't know, let me ask Nikki (her friend)". I go "cool". Saturday I ask again, "so how we gettin to NY"? She goes "I bought my ticket on Wednesday. Me and Nikki are both getting there at 12. We leave on Sunday at 1". I'm like "Uh when were you gonna tell me that". She's says "I forgot".
I tell her I think what she did was foul. We coming from the same exact place, going to the same exact place, staying in the exact same apartment in NY. And I could see if I didn't ask how WE were getting there, but I asked twice. She says it was Nikki's plan so she didn't really consider me when making the plans. While I understand that 1. we're supposed to be best friends. 2. she invited me. It's not like I just jumped up and said "I wanna go too". I think I could have lived with "I just forgot" better than "I didn't feel I had to consider you".
So what say ye NT? Was she foul or am I taking this the wrong way?
btw, I can't post pics, but she resembles Parminder Nagra. She was the Indian doctor on ER.
Three weeks ago, my best friend was trying to figure out what to do for her birthday. Her other friend goes "Let's go to NY". Of course, she invites me to go. Two weeks ago I asked, "so how are we getting to NY?". She goes "I don't know, let me ask Nikki (her friend)". I go "cool". Saturday I ask again, "so how we gettin to NY"? She goes "I bought my ticket on Wednesday. Me and Nikki are both getting there at 12. We leave on Sunday at 1". I'm like "Uh when were you gonna tell me that". She's says "I forgot".
I tell her I think what she did was foul. We coming from the same exact place, going to the same exact place, staying in the exact same apartment in NY. And I could see if I didn't ask how WE were getting there, but I asked twice. She says it was Nikki's plan so she didn't really consider me when making the plans. While I understand that 1. we're supposed to be best friends. 2. she invited me. It's not like I just jumped up and said "I wanna go too". I think I could have lived with "I just forgot" better than "I didn't feel I had to consider you".
So what say ye NT? Was she foul or am I taking this the wrong way?
btw, I can't post pics, but she resembles Parminder Nagra. She was the Indian doctor on ER.
