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what would NT do
- Thread in 'General' Thread starter Started by legreyfoxx,
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Leave that girl at home. Why she have to come wit' you?
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Leave that girl at home. Why she have to come wit' you?
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Gill Baka Esq. LLC.
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Yea man the way I look at it why do you need to invite your girl to hangout with your boys? It doesn't really make sense to me. It causes them to feel like they can't be themselves because they have a lady present and therefore not enjoy the experience better.
If you just bail like that without giving them a reason then of course they would feel a little mistreated especially if you call them your boys.
Maybe you need to reevaluate the friends you keep. If them acting like this isn't your style then move on.
If you just bail like that without giving them a reason then of course they would feel a little mistreated especially if you call them your boys.
Maybe you need to reevaluate the friends you keep. If them acting like this isn't your style then move on.
Gill Baka Esq. LLC.
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Yea man the way I look at it why do you need to invite your girl to hangout with your boys? It doesn't really make sense to me. It causes them to feel like they can't be themselves because they have a lady present and therefore not enjoy the experience better.
If you just bail like that without giving them a reason then of course they would feel a little mistreated especially if you call them your boys.
Maybe you need to reevaluate the friends you keep. If them acting like this isn't your style then move on.
If you just bail like that without giving them a reason then of course they would feel a little mistreated especially if you call them your boys.
Maybe you need to reevaluate the friends you keep. If them acting like this isn't your style then move on.
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My Girl is my bestfriend, so bringing her around my other friends is cool with me...and they respect it as well. Im not saying I cling her onto me every time im with my boys....But i'd never say "nah, baby...you cant go...boys only"
....Like I said, the only time I say she cant go is when Im hoopin with my boys because she gets restless and complains that she wants to leave DEAD in the middle of a game...
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My Girl is my bestfriend, so bringing her around my other friends is cool with me...and they respect it as well. Im not saying I cling her onto me every time im with my boys....But i'd never say "nah, baby...you cant go...boys only"
....Like I said, the only time I say she cant go is when Im hoopin with my boys because she gets restless and complains that she wants to leave DEAD in the middle of a game...
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Originally Posted by sole vintage
bunch of lames
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Originally Posted by sole vintage
bunch of lames
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Well read what you wrote.. They wanted a dudes day out... you decided to bring your chick.. unless ur chick has a penis.. that doesn't constitute dudes day out... How they react after that is whatever... but l think ur boys are right... Leave your chick behind sometimes.
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Well read what you wrote.. They wanted a dudes day out... you decided to bring your chick.. unless ur chick has a penis.. that doesn't constitute dudes day out... How they react after that is whatever... but l think ur boys are right... Leave your chick behind sometimes.
Gill Baka Esq. LLC.
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well if you girl is your bestfriend then props on finding a good lady, but like I said some of the homie's who might not have girls might take offense to you bringing them around because subconsciously it reminds them that they don't have what you have as well as feeling like they need to act differently.
You have to look at it from their perspective and see if compromises can be made ONLY if your cool making those changes. I say this because you really can't change other people like your friends so it all lies with what you want to do and whatever is the best projected outcome.
You have to look at it from their perspective and see if compromises can be made ONLY if your cool making those changes. I say this because you really can't change other people like your friends so it all lies with what you want to do and whatever is the best projected outcome.
Gill Baka Esq. LLC.
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well if you girl is your bestfriend then props on finding a good lady, but like I said some of the homie's who might not have girls might take offense to you bringing them around because subconsciously it reminds them that they don't have what you have as well as feeling like they need to act differently.
You have to look at it from their perspective and see if compromises can be made ONLY if your cool making those changes. I say this because you really can't change other people like your friends so it all lies with what you want to do and whatever is the best projected outcome.
You have to look at it from their perspective and see if compromises can be made ONLY if your cool making those changes. I say this because you really can't change other people like your friends so it all lies with what you want to do and whatever is the best projected outcome.
whyhellothere
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i thought dudes day out meant no chicks?
whyhellothere
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i thought dudes day out meant no chicks?
streetpharmacist
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ehhh i can see that he's overreacting but sometimes you just gotta have a guys day to talk about stuff where you wouldn't want women around
streetpharmacist
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ehhh i can see that he's overreacting but sometimes you just gotta have a guys day to talk about stuff where you wouldn't want women around
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OP is whipped.
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OP is whipped.
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dudes a lame, he shoulda just told ur girl bring a friend if anything.
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dudes a lame, he shoulda just told ur girl bring a friend if anything.
cedric ceballos 1995 lakers
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they wanna give you that prison shower love and make it a boys night out.
don't go
don't go
cedric ceballos 1995 lakers
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they wanna give you that prison shower love and make it a boys night out.
don't go
don't go
