When do YOU make the next step?

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As far as relationships go, when do you make her your girl...when you don't wanna smash anyone else? When she forces you? 1 month 3 months?
 
damn...I asked a few shorties recently...it all depends...1-3months

being single for the majority of my life FTL?

"my ***** get the good girls, I just get to **** a *****" word to dom. K.
 
ive rushed it as soon as two weeks, and sometimes longer....last chick wasnt ready as soon i was....but i really wanted...i feel like im takin an L right now.
 
I'll only kiss a girl on my wedding day so it's really from the moment that we go on the first date...

Kidding!
 
Originally Posted by eight2one

ive rushed it as soon as two weeks, and sometimes longer....last chick wasnt ready as soon i was....but i really wanted...i feel like im takin an L right now.


hmm yeah I feel you, I don't want to rush things, but I don't know...this one SEEEMS different.
 
When it feels right. Like, I can't see myself settling into a relationship if I still think about other girls. I usually know it's the right moveif/when that girl is the girl I think about in the morning when I'm starting my day. See, the chick i think about at night could be any chick I'mattracted to. And the chicks I think about during my day are just distractions from things like school. But the chick I wake up thinkingabout is usually something more than just cute. It's gotta be a reason she's the first thing on my mind. That's the chick I imagine being a part ofmy day-to-day grinds so that's the chick that is GF material.
 
Thanks CB4 you right bro, its about where my mind is at, not how long I have known her.
 
^No prob folk. Make sure your feelings are true tho. If you're the easily infatuated type, be careful.
 
Originally Posted by CB94

^No prob folk. Make sure your feelings are true tho. If you're the easily infatuated type, be careful.


How I know if my feelings are true tho?
 
Originally Posted by kix4kix

Originally Posted by CB94

^No prob folk. Make sure your feelings are true tho. If you're the easily infatuated type, be careful.


How I know if my feelings are true tho?


You will know, someone cant just tell you that cause its how they know the feelings are true, its not gonna be the same.
 
Originally Posted by solematic j21

Originally Posted by kix4kix

Originally Posted by CB94

^No prob folk. Make sure your feelings are true tho. If you're the easily infatuated type, be careful.


How I know if my feelings are true tho?


You will know, someone cant just tell you that cause its how they know the feelings are true, its not gonna be the same.
QFT! Besides, it's just a relationship, it's not a marriage. If you feel you're ready, jump in. And if it's wrong for you, jumpout. It's pretty simple
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. Question, aren't you one of those people that didn't like Dearwinter219 and his soft, girly, sensitive ways in thatone thread?
 
Originally Posted by CB94

Originally Posted by solematic j21

Originally Posted by kix4kix

Originally Posted by CB94

^No prob folk. Make sure your feelings are true tho. If you're the easily infatuated type, be careful.


How I know if my feelings are true tho?


You will know, someone cant just tell you that cause its how they know the feelings are true, its not gonna be the same.
QFT! Besides, it's just a relationship, it's not a marriage. If you feel you're ready, jump in. And if it's wrong for you, jump out. It's pretty simple
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. Question, aren't you one of those people that didn't like Dearwinter219 and his soft, girly, sensitive ways in that one thread?


Who me? naw I am as sensitive as they come. I would never knock the next man for being feminine. Thanks for the advice though CB & Matic I appreciate it.
 
Originally Posted by CB94

When it feels right. Like, I can't see myself settling into a relationship if I still think about other girls. I usually know it's the right move if/when that girl is the girl I think about in the morning when I'm starting my day. See, the chick i think about at night could be any chick I'm attracted to. And the chicks I think about during my day are just distractions from things like school. But the chick I wake up thinking about is usually something more than just cute. It's gotta be a reason she's the first thing on my mind. That's the chick I imagine being a part of my day-to-day grinds so that's the chick that is GF material.


yeah thats a pretty logical way to look at it...
 
As far as relationships go, when do you make her your girl
my situation started very unconventionaly and we have our moments but its a beautiful thing at the end of the day. i had been talkin to this girlerry here and there for about two months. then we started talkin(textin)consistently about a week prior to when we made it official. The day the conversationtook place we were both pretty drunk. I jus remember her sayin "so i can say i have i boyfriend now?" I guess i said yea. To this day I dont rememberno parts of that conversation. Funny thing is we got to know each other after we "commited" instead of the other way around. And i can easily sayshes the best gf ive ever had
when you don't wanna smash anyone else?
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Originally Posted by Pmighty

As far as relationships go, when do you make her your girl
my situation started very unconventionaly and we have our moments but its a beautiful thing at the end of the day. i had been talkin to this girl erry here and there for about two months. then we started talkin(textin)consistently about a week prior to when we made it official. The day the conversation took place we were both pretty drunk. I jus remember her sayin "so i can say i have i boyfriend now?" I guess i said yea. To this day I dont remember no parts of that conversation. Funny thing is we got to know each other after we "commited" instead of the other way around. And i can easily say shes the best gf ive ever had
when you don't wanna smash anyone else?
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Ole Drake +#* dude
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Originally Posted by CB94

Originally Posted by Pmighty

As far as relationships go, when do you make her your girl
my situation started very unconventionaly and we have our moments but its a beautiful thing at the end of the day. i had been talkin to this girl erry here and there for about two months. then we started talkin(textin)consistently about a week prior to when we made it official. The day the conversation took place we were both pretty drunk. I jus remember her sayin "so i can say i have i boyfriend now?" I guess i said yea. To this day I dont remember no parts of that conversation. Funny thing is we got to know each other after we "commited" instead of the other way around. And i can easily say shes the best gf ive ever had
when you don't wanna smash anyone else?
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Ole Drake +#* dude
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it be like that sometimes fam
 
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But i agree with everything said here.

Me and my current girl were friends for a month before we even started to look at each other like that. Started hanging out, and within about three weeks itwas official.
 
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