When harassment goes too far....

[doublejs07]

I'm not talking about sharing laughs w. your significant other after hearing a story of someone trying to holler at them earlier in the day.  I get a phone call this morning from my girl around 6:50.  She's real distraught.  She told me that she stopped on the way to the grocery store before going to work.  On her way out, some dude followed her to her car...was yelling all sorts of gibberish and rubbing his !!@# the whole time.  She got out of there as quickly as she could and called the police.  It's a terrible feeling as the other person in the relationship knowing that there was nothing you can/could do because you weren't there.  I was FUMING after hearing what she told me.  I'm sure some of yall can relate...I feel bad for you females out there cause of a lot of the !!@# you gotta put up with. 

 

[doublejs07]

I'm not talking about sharing laughs w. your significant other after hearing a story of someone trying to holler at them earlier in the day.  I get a phone call this morning from my girl around 6:50.  She's real distraught.  She told me that she stopped on the way to the grocery store before going to work.  On her way out, some dude followed her to her car...was yelling all sorts of gibberish and rubbing his !!@# the whole time.  She got out of there as quickly as she could and called the police.  It's a terrible feeling as the other person in the relationship knowing that there was nothing you can/could do because you weren't there.  I was FUMING after hearing what she told me.  I'm sure some of yall can relate...I feel bad for you females out there cause of a lot of the !!@# you gotta put up with. 

 

[thunderchunk69]

sucks but

just be happy it was some random crazy guy, not an infatuated(sp?) stalker with her addy

Originally Posted by DoubleJs07

I feel bad for you females out there cause of a lot of the !!@# you gotta put up with. 

felt like this for about 1 or 2 years
then a female friend went looking for her ex that beat 2 miscarriages out of her 

 

[thunderchunk69]

sucks but

just be happy it was some random crazy guy, not an infatuated(sp?) stalker with her addy

Originally Posted by DoubleJs07

I feel bad for you females out there cause of a lot of the !!@# you gotta put up with. 

felt like this for about 1 or 2 years
then a female friend went looking for her ex that beat 2 miscarriages out of her 

 

[mojodmonky1]

damn, sorry to hear dude.

i'm all about letting "some" things play out for the sake of lulz (even if its at my girl's expense) but stuff like that is way over the line.

one example:
was at the club one time with the wife and a couple of her friends (when we had just been dating for a few months). We are on the dance floor and I see this little kinda nerdy asian kid slowly kinda make his way over to where we were at. He pulls a deft ninja move and kinda gets behind my girl and starts to freak dance her from behind (she was completely unaware). There were 4 of us kinda dancing next to each other, The girls next to each other, and the me and the other dude across from them. About 10-15 seconds in me and my girl's friend (a dude) absolutely lose it and just start bustin up, we can't hold it in anymore. My wife is like %%@? and then turns around and sees dude that was freak dancing her. Obviously she is disgusted and annoyed and comes at me like WHY DIDNT YOU SAY OR DO ANYTHING? I said sorry, dude was harmless and it was funny as hell. If he had actually touched/grinded on you, it woulda been a different story, but dudes lowkey stalker move was hilarious. She stayed pissed for a bit, but eventually got over it. Over time she came to realize that I will do a lot of stupid things, many times even at my own expense (ex. going on the Judge Judy show), for a good laugh and as my gf/wife she's sometimes gonna get caught in the crosshairs.

 

[mojodmonky1]

damn, sorry to hear dude.

i'm all about letting "some" things play out for the sake of lulz (even if its at my girl's expense) but stuff like that is way over the line.

one example:
was at the club one time with the wife and a couple of her friends (when we had just been dating for a few months). We are on the dance floor and I see this little kinda nerdy asian kid slowly kinda make his way over to where we were at. He pulls a deft ninja move and kinda gets behind my girl and starts to freak dance her from behind (she was completely unaware). There were 4 of us kinda dancing next to each other, The girls next to each other, and the me and the other dude across from them. About 10-15 seconds in me and my girl's friend (a dude) absolutely lose it and just start bustin up, we can't hold it in anymore. My wife is like %%@? and then turns around and sees dude that was freak dancing her. Obviously she is disgusted and annoyed and comes at me like WHY DIDNT YOU SAY OR DO ANYTHING? I said sorry, dude was harmless and it was funny as hell. If he had actually touched/grinded on you, it woulda been a different story, but dudes lowkey stalker move was hilarious. She stayed pissed for a bit, but eventually got over it. Over time she came to realize that I will do a lot of stupid things, many times even at my own expense (ex. going on the Judge Judy show), for a good laugh and as my gf/wife she's sometimes gonna get caught in the crosshairs.

 

[miamin2]

smh. glad it wasnt worse but theres some real pathetic individuals out there who try to pull this stuff. I mean what do really think is gonna happen, like are they supposed to be all turned on by that?

 

[angryostrich]

 

[miamin2]

smh. glad it wasnt worse but theres some real pathetic individuals out there who try to pull this stuff. I mean what do really think is gonna happen, like are they supposed to be all turned on by that?

 

[angryostrich]

 

[hombrelobo]

SMH. Sorry to hear that your girl had to go through that. Some people are disgusting.

 

[hombrelobo]

SMH. Sorry to hear that your girl had to go through that. Some people are disgusting.

 

[doublejs07]

Originally Posted by miamin2

smh. glad it wasnt worse but theres some real pathetic individuals out there who try to pull this stuff. I mean what do really think is gonna happen, like are they supposed to be all turned on by that?

That's what I'm saying!!!  I think all of us at one point or another have hollered at girls...but NEVER crossed that line to where it becomes some sort of criminal offense (giving NT the EXTREME benefit of the doubt

).

Son I feel you. The actual act gets you upset, but the fact that it didnt happen in front of you and realistically you cant do anything about it at this point makes you rage even more.


It's a helpless feeling.  And it sucks. 

 

[doublejs07]

Originally Posted by miamin2

smh. glad it wasnt worse but theres some real pathetic individuals out there who try to pull this stuff. I mean what do really think is gonna happen, like are they supposed to be all turned on by that?

That's what I'm saying!!!  I think all of us at one point or another have hollered at girls...but NEVER crossed that line to where it becomes some sort of criminal offense (giving NT the EXTREME benefit of the doubt

).

Son I feel you. The actual act gets you upset, but the fact that it didnt happen in front of you and realistically you cant do anything about it at this point makes you rage even more.


It's a helpless feeling.  And it sucks. 

 

[GTA 809]

Son I feel you. The actual act gets you upset, but the fact that it didnt happen in front of you and realistically you cant do anything about it at this point makes you rage even more.

 

[GTA 809]

Son I feel you. The actual act gets you upset, but the fact that it didnt happen in front of you and realistically you cant do anything about it at this point makes you rage even more.

 

[james earl zones]

Originally Posted by ThunderChunk69

I've heard of girls being stalked

just be happy it was some random crazy guy, not an infatuated(sp?) stalker

This. Get your girl some mace too. I take mine to the gun range with me, she loves it. All she wants for her birthday is a baby glock and Starbucks gift cards.

 

[james earl zones]

Originally Posted by ThunderChunk69

I've heard of girls being stalked

just be happy it was some random crazy guy, not an infatuated(sp?) stalker

This. Get your girl some mace too. I take mine to the gun range with me, she loves it. All she wants for her birthday is a baby glock and Starbucks gift cards.

 

[hugo]

feel you dude. once when my gf was working in the mall some dude grabbed her boob. i was ready to chop em up with a machete when she told me

 

[hugo]

feel you dude. once when my gf was working in the mall some dude grabbed her boob. i was ready to chop em up with a machete when she told me

 

[ham city]

Originally Posted by Angryostrich

 

[ham city]

Originally Posted by Angryostrich

 

[damnitzdom]

Originally Posted by James Earl Zones

Originally Posted by ThunderChunk69

I've heard of girls being stalked

just be happy it was some random crazy guy, not an infatuated(sp?) stalker

This. Get your girl some mace too. I take mine to the gun range with me, she loves it. All she wants for her birthday is a baby glock and Starbucks gift cards.

She's a keeper

 

[damnitzdom]

Originally Posted by James Earl Zones

Originally Posted by ThunderChunk69

I've heard of girls being stalked

just be happy it was some random crazy guy, not an infatuated(sp?) stalker

This. Get your girl some mace too. I take mine to the gun range with me, she loves it. All she wants for her birthday is a baby glock and Starbucks gift cards.

She's a keeper

 

[handsome mojo]

Originally Posted by Mojodmonky1

damn, sorry to hear dude.

i'm all about letting "some" things play out for the sake of lulz (even if its at my girl's expense) but stuff like that is way over the line.

one example:
was at the club one time with the wife and a couple of her friends (when we had just been dating for a few months). We are on the dance floor and I see this little kinda nerdy asian kid slowly kinda make his way over to where we were at. He pulls a deft ninja move and kinda gets behind my girl and starts to freak dance her from behind (she was completely unaware). There were 4 of us kinda dancing next to each other, The girls next to each other, and the me and the other dude across from them. About 10-15 seconds in me and my girl's friend (a dude) absolutely lose it and just start bustin up, we can't hold it in anymore. My wife is like %%@? and then turns around and sees dude that was freak dancing her. Obviously she is disgusted and annoyed and comes at me like WHY DIDNT YOU SAY OR DO ANYTHING? I said sorry, dude was harmless and it was funny as hell. If he had actually touched/grinded on you, it woulda been a different story, but dudes lowkey stalker move was hilarious. She stayed pissed for a bit, but eventually got over it. Over time she came to realize that I will do a lot of stupid things, many times even at my own expense (ex. going on the Judge Judy show), for a good laugh and as my gf/wife she's sometimes gonna get caught in the crosshairs.