I was moreso referring to them not thinking pro wrestling makes them "tough guys".
Most do, and rightfully so. People say every match is like putting your body through a car accident.
As far as the mental state of them, recently post-Benoit, it seems it's more regulated and controlled, but there are a lot of sad stories. You're generally successful in your post-wrestling career if you aren't an alcoholic or drug addict wrestling at 70 and doing mall signings that no one shows up to.
There's a difference between being a tough guy in the sense that one can take a lot of punishment and being a tough guy in the sense that you're literally in the top .001% of human beings walking the planet in terms of actually being able to fight.
These guys are killers and that's not hyperbole. Folks talk **** about Brock but wouldn't last 10 seconds against a Mark Hunt, Shane Carwin or a Frank Mir even if they were juiced to the gills.
It's a different kind of toughness. Johnny Knoxville is tough too I guess until he gets knocked out by Butterbean.
All those wrestlers were tough until they all got knocked out by Bart Gunn.
It's just different. If we're going to be honest, yes wrestling is difficult but that has a lot to do with the grind. The travel, the steroids, the lifestyle. I put that on the writers for wanting bigger and better instead of pushing diminutive technically sound guys. Daniel Bryan is an outlier, reality is freaky physiques sell in pro wrestling.
Benoit was a great technician but he wasn't a personality like Bryan. He had to start juicing to be seen as a legit Hw and well we saw what it did to him. The CTE didn't help either.
In a vacuum however, when it comes to the actual training and performing aspect. MMA and boxing require an entirely different kind of toughness. The guy across from you isn't pulling punches. He has a family to feed and he doesn't mind hospitalizing you to do that. It's actually madness the circumstances so many of these guys fight through to succeed.
Casual fans need not apply but those who actually watch boxing know the struggle of a journeyman fighter who leaves it all in the ring everytime they put on those gloves.
Modern day gladiators, like Rome, the ones who really live are the ones that win the crowd.