With a female, where do you draw the line at being nice and being honest?

[appalachian58]

I go to school in NC but I live in Atlanta and I'm home for the summer. A girl from school who I'm not even real cool with wants to come down and chill but I don't want to. I keep trying to make excuses but idk if I should just tell her straight up "I don't wanna see you." 
So the question is, where do you draw the line? Should I keep up the excuses or just be real wit her?

 

[appalachian58]

I go to school in NC but I live in Atlanta and I'm home for the summer. A girl from school who I'm not even real cool with wants to come down and chill but I don't want to. I keep trying to make excuses but idk if I should just tell her straight up "I don't wanna see you." 
So the question is, where do you draw the line? Should I keep up the excuses or just be real wit her?

 

[whyhellothere]

Originally Posted by Appalachian58

just tell her straight up "I don't wanna see you." 

/thread

 

[quincy powell]

I'm always honest with these women. She wouldn't care that she hurt your feelings keep it a 100.

 

[quincy powell]

I'm always honest with these women. She wouldn't care that she hurt your feelings keep it a 100.

 

[whyhellothere]

Originally Posted by Appalachian58

just tell her straight up "I don't wanna see you." 

/thread

 

[speakup23]

Just say you dont really want to

Originally Posted by Quincy Powell

I'm always honest with these women. She wouldn't care that she hurt your feelings keep it a 100.

 

[speakup23]

Just say you dont really want to

Originally Posted by Quincy Powell

I'm always honest with these women. She wouldn't care that she hurt your feelings keep it a 100.

 

[oidreez]

why dont you want to?

 

[oidreez]

why dont you want to?

 

[ricerocket1]

if your honest from the get go, you don't have to be nice.

what's up with the all girls related thread lately.

 

[ricerocket1]

if your honest from the get go, you don't have to be nice.

what's up with the all girls related thread lately.

 

[orfiyus]

Originally Posted by Quincy Powell

I'm always honest with these women. She wouldn't care that she hurt your feelings keep it a 100.

This.  And if shes not tryna hear it then just stop responding to her messages all together.  She ll get the hint (unless shes a Stage 5 Clinger). 

 

[orfiyus]

Originally Posted by Quincy Powell

I'm always honest with these women. She wouldn't care that she hurt your feelings keep it a 100.

This.  And if shes not tryna hear it then just stop responding to her messages all together.  She ll get the hint (unless shes a Stage 5 Clinger). 

 

[|A-Man|]

The line is drawn between me wanting to smash and not wanting to smash. Also, not smashing and already smashed.

 

[|A-Man|]

The line is drawn between me wanting to smash and not wanting to smash. Also, not smashing and already smashed.

 

[deuce king]

Is the girl not attractive to you??

 

[deuce king]

Is the girl not attractive to you??

 

[haiti5]

tell her you have a gf and it just wouldnt look right with her around..boom bam done!

 

[haiti5]

tell her you have a gf and it just wouldnt look right with her around..boom bam done!

 

[j4ck]

Originally Posted by whyhellothere

Originally Posted by Appalachian58

just tell her straight up "I don't wanna see you." 

/thread

 

[j4ck]

Originally Posted by whyhellothere

Originally Posted by Appalachian58

just tell her straight up "I don't wanna see you." 

/thread

 

[loveofthegame916]

Originally Posted by Appalachian58

I go to school in NC but I live in Atlanta and I'm home for the summer. A girl from school who I'm not even real cool with wants to come down and chill but I don't want to. I keep trying to make excuses but idk if I should just tell her straight up "I don't wanna see you." 
So the question is, where do you draw the line? Should I keep up the excuses or just be real wit her?

Well its too late to spare her feelings on the count that you lied to avoid seeing her. So either you keep making excuses, she gets the point and gets her feelings hurt

or

You tell her straight up, she sees that you're a liar, she feels the rejection and move on.

Either way you lose.

 

[loveofthegame916]

Originally Posted by Appalachian58

I go to school in NC but I live in Atlanta and I'm home for the summer. A girl from school who I'm not even real cool with wants to come down and chill but I don't want to. I keep trying to make excuses but idk if I should just tell her straight up "I don't wanna see you." 
So the question is, where do you draw the line? Should I keep up the excuses or just be real wit her?

Well its too late to spare her feelings on the count that you lied to avoid seeing her. So either you keep making excuses, she gets the point and gets her feelings hurt

or

You tell her straight up, she sees that you're a liar, she feels the rejection and move on.

Either way you lose.

 

[scshift]

Dude tell her flat out. These girls don't hold their mouths back for anyone so don't hold yours back for them