Would you have lost your cool?

[stillin729]

So I'm at Macy's buying some work clothes and I get to the register and the cashier is clearly a man dressed as a woman named Frances which was already weird enough.

He/She is ringing me up and asks me if I want to donate $6 to help the vets and I politely say no thank you and Frances replies "ok so you don't want to help the vets then" in a scolding tone and at the point I lost it and told him/her that they are very unprofessional especially since there is a good 3-4 people behind me watching this unfold. The manager hears it and comes over.

I ripped into them, I'm normally calm and collected as they come but I won't be shopping at Macy's anymore.

I donate money all the time not to mention I HATE the solicited donations, I donate on my own without the need to make it public.

Was I in the wrong?

 

[SHERLOCK87]

Another firm NO would have sufficed.

..maybe take an anger management course...?

 

[championboyz7]

You shoulda called dude by his real name. Francisco.

 

[al audi]

lol Macys be havin some good sales on the low.

just change locations dont fault the company as a whole lol.

 

[stillin729]

You weren't wrong but to "never shop at Macy's again" is over the top for one persons reactions

Ill shop there again just not anytime soon, that's my over reaction but I was heated and I rarely get to that point lol

 

[stillin729]

Another firm NO would have sufficed.

..maybe take an anger management course...?

Anger management course lol, I'm about as chill and laid back as they come

 

[sohoguy]

For one you shouldn't been shopping at a crap place to begin with cause all their brands there are trash. But what you did was cool cause that "It" had no right to say such slick remake cause you didn't want to donate

 

[shotsrangout]

You have problems if that made you flip.

 

[stillin729]

For one you shouldn't been shopping at a crap place to begin with cause all their brands there are trash. But what you did was cool cause that "It" had no right to say such slick remake cause you didn't want to donate

Macy's is hardly crap, copping work clothes like 80% is good money

It kept going and saying stuff under his breath which is when I lost it, like It was trying to make me look bad to people

You could tell the people around were like WTF is this thing doing to this guy

 

[stillin729]

You have problems if that made you flip.

If you say so

 

[joepac12]

I would have said something too.

 

[rell826]

I wouldn't have lost my cool, but I would have commented on its unprofessional behavior and said what I choose to spend my money on as a consumer is of no concern of yours. /conversation

You shouldn't have to be made to feel uncomfortable in order to donate money to a cause of which may not see the entire $6.
 

 

[smellyginger]

shoulda said you'd beat him like the man he is

srs tho a firm No would suffice

 

[daytona 5000]

Your emotional outburst shows you more feminine than the dude dressed up as a woman.

 

[finallyfamous]

You shoulda called dude by his real name. Francisco.

 

[bendover]

At least the conversation didn't go like this 

H: " I just moved around here. You're not gay are you?"

M: "No man don't fly that way" 

H: "Oh ok. You don't need a BJ or anything?"

M: 

 "Nah man I'm not gay"

 

[stillin729]

When I say lost my cool I wasn't yelling or anything, losing my cool to me is speaking up and not just ignoring it

 

[wayniac211]

Transference bruh. Works every time.

 

[oh you mad]

At least the conversation didn't go like this 

H: " I just moved around here. You're not gay are you?"

M: "No man don't fly that way" 

H: "Oh ok. You don't need a BJ or anything?"

M: 

 "Nah man I'm not gay"

Didn't this happen to NTer once?

 

[htg designs]

sounds like you went from 0 to 60 in 2 seconds flat. (another firm NO, with maybe a death stare would have been enough)

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[meek meals]

So I'm at Macy's buying some work clothes and I get to the register and the cashier is clearly a man dressed as a woman named Frances

Was most likely trying to flirt with you

Frances was trying to get in those pantses

 

[daytona 5000]

sounds like you went from 0 to 60 in 2 seconds flat. (another firm NO, with maybe a death stare would have been enough)

It sounds like dude had an issue with the employee from the start just because they presented themselves as the opposite sex.

 

[jrp44]

At least the conversation didn't go like this 


H: " I just moved around here. You're not gay are you?"


M: "No man don't fly that way" 


H: "Oh ok. You don't need a BJ or anything?"


M: 

 "Nah man I'm not gay"

Didn't this happen to NTer once?

Yeah like 15 hours ago

 

[stillin729]

It sounds like dude had an issue with the employee from the start just because they presented themselves as the opposite sex.

It sounds like assumptions to me, and anyone would clearly find a big *** dude dressed as a woman being the cashier at Macy's strange

 

[clyde the glide]

damn u let a dude dressed as a woman get to u that easily?