Would you quit talking to your homey in this situation???

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Your best friend of 13 years was out a club with you on yours girls b day and homey just wild out and went off the deep end. He has a known problem with alcohol. He was talking a whole lot of mess, disrespecting people, and got in a fight. Would you stop talking to him? 
 
best friend of 13 years! i would not stop talking to him. But I would bring it to his attention that what he was doing wasn't cool. If he has problems with alcohol I would try to help him any way I could.
 
Ya best friend of 13 years? Man I'm there for dude as long as he didn't try my girl or put hands on her, if you're really best friends you bring all this to his attention and help him through it all
 
nope, he was drunk fam...
best friend of 13 years! i would not stop talking to him. But I would bring it to his attention that what he was doing wasn't cool. If he has problems with alcohol I would try to help him any way I could.
Unless he tried banging your girl and put hands on her then naa...
Ya best friend of 13 years? Man I'm there for dude as long as he didn't try my girl or put hands on her, if you're really best friends you bring all this to his attention and help him through it all
all this.

just bring up his drinking problem when he's sober. i have two older brothers who are the same, i can't even go out with them without them being in any sort of drama and i had to check them and talk some reality into them. it didn't work but your homie might listen.
 
Unless he tried to eat your girls butt or your butt then you're good.
 
If he is really your homey it'd take more than a drunk night of **** talkin and fightin to stop talking to him

I'd talk to him about it though, like the poster above said, let him know it's not cool with you for him to start wildin out like that when you go out
 
No, you just do your best to keepan eye on him and make sure he gets in. talk to him about it in the morning. But don't just shut him down
 
Depends how sensitive your group is...

depends how he normally is...
 

If he went all out being legit mean (like making fun of dead relatives or something like that) or just lulzy things like "damn Id hit that like this *then does humping motion... or he just humps her leg, or whips it out. Somethings are ok others are not. 

usually dudes get clowned for their mistakes but somethings are unforgivable...

depends
 
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Just a fyi but im the drunk friend. 
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 I work with my boy and the past few weeks he hasnt talked to me or looked in my direction. We work together and dude hooked me up with a good job and im forever thankful. We even had a meeting together this week and he didnt look my way the whole time. Hes hella butt hurt. Hes been with me through thick and thin and was by my side both times I got locked up but I think this pushed him over the edge. My other boy ive known for 20 years said i wasnt acting too crazy and cant believe dudes acting like this. I think his lady might have something to do with this.
 
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Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. And the plot thickens. What did you really do op?
You sound like a female...btw.
 
His girl probs doesn't like you and she's finally found a chance to put a dagger into your friendship.
 
How do I sound like a female? I gave dude a whats up nod at work and he just looked the other way. Im not trippin over it but my boy said he cant believe hes acting like this and he cant believe hes acting like this and told me to approach him. I cant though cus I dont even know what I did wrong. Im just assuming i effed up but my boy said I wasnt out of hand.
 
Man don't sweat em. He wants to act like a B its on him. Your boy said you didn't go overboard , hell get over it eventually.
 
His girl probs doesn't like you and she's finally found a chance to put a dagger into your friendship.
That's what it sounds like to me.. either your boy is being controlled by vagina, or he is literally a vagina himself for acting that way.
 
Never had a issue like that with my boys, cats get drunk but it ain't no thing. One time a certain me, my boys and certain Nter went to Vancouver to party. This Nter gets drunk and someway somehow he ends up punching our homeboy in the face. Ruined the whole night. At that moment we're pissed, but by the next day its all love. I hope to god he reads this thread :lol
 
Honestly OP, if I was in your shoes id just catch him when he goes on break. Situation dont even seem that bad. If bruh stops talking to you over something like that y'all wasn't as tight as you might think.
 
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