Yo NT i have a dilemma help me out here.

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Ok so here is the story

My chick who been with me for 2 years, everyone knows we together. However, we never made it official since she left her boyfriend at the time of 3 years forme and i am the type to fool around alot. In the beginning it was kinda rusty but as time goes by we reinforce our relationship.

She the passionate type, im a bit oblivious. Kinda just go with the flow. She watches too many drama series and is a psychology major too. Bottom line is sheis very petty, holding grudges every chance she can, to me leaving her shopping alont while im sleeping at home to hopping on NT instead of cuddling after thedeed.
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. I am to blame too since i never really keep my distance withother female friends and have a tendency to lead them on for the hell of it. But God knows i come home to her.

So we went our seperate ways about 2 months ago, over the fact that i promised her i would make her my official girlfriend between my bday and her bday. Bothpassed, nothing. On top of that in an argument i told her to go suck a D.

Next day she grabbed a random dude, someone who is a friend of her bestfriend. Started going out drinking neglecting her health and family.

She went around telling my ppl and family how she is confused, and tired of leading homeboy on. She is disgusted cuz dude's white
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. She has no feeling but she has a responsibility to not hurt such a nice guy.But in front of me she says its a progressing relationship, and insists that we 3 go out for a meal to talk (???
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). Quite frankly, she is a bit embarassed about dude since, well,let's just say i'd be embarassed now too if i was to tell ppl she was my ex-chick and they see who she's messing with after me.

She blew up when i told her to keep it safe, since we never did with each other, talking about how shes a Catholic and she's been with me for 2 yearsain't no way shes sleeping with dude. Especially when he is white and she would feel like a breezy
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I see her once in awhile. Sometimes shes all up on me, as passionate as she was before. Sometimes she gave me the cold shoulder, talking about how she must notdo a dude wrong again. One minute she says she loves me still and wants to forget everything that happened to start anew, but would need time. The next shetells me to move on and all she got is leftover feelings. She likes to complicate things and applies what she studies in her psychology class.

And now she is pushing me and everyone she loves and care about her away (my family, our friends, me). They grew sick and tired of her drama andindecisiveness. She told my cousin's boyfriend, who is her major confidante, that he must watch out for my cousin. Since we are both cousins, and i hurther, there is a good chance she may hurt him too. She tells him to go find a perfect love match, like how she is falling in love with the new dude but theydont click
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(what? )Needless to say they both cut her off and ignoredher calls.

I been M.I.A. with her for awhile now. So...should i stick around and get her through this? Or should i just bounce and be a stranger?

The only thing that upset me about this whole thing, is who she is trying to portray. It disgusts me.
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Lol i would post but she regulates NT checking up on me. And damn i dont know how to cliffnote that. Some1 wanna help?
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Ya'll crazy
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checking up on you? wow

yea, some cliffnotes would be great
 
The only thing that upset me about this whole thing, is who she is trying to portray. It disgusts me. image


maybe you should look in the mirror as to how you've treated her..

i am the type to fool around alot.


to me leaving her shopping alont while im sleeping at home to hopping on NT instead of cuddling after the deed. image. I am to blame too since i never really keep my distance with other female friends and have a tendency to lead them on for the hell of it.


So we went our seperate ways about 2 months ago, over the fact that i promised her i would make her my official girlfriend between my bday and her bday. Both passed, nothing. On top of that in an argument i told her to go suck a D.
 
How are you with a girl for 2 years and it's unofficial? That doesn't make much sense to me...

How old are you, if you don't mind me askin', sounds like you both need to grow up.
 
Originally Posted by DCpowder

Lol i would post but she regulates NT checking up on me. And damn i dont know how to cliffnote that. Some1 wanna help?
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u need to put her in check
 
Originally Posted by FlyNY

Originally Posted by DCpowder

Lol i would post but she regulates NT checking up on me. And damn i dont know how to cliffnote that. Some1 wanna help?
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u need to put her in check

what is she she ya moms b?
 
you a closet racist, so i wont give you advice and couldn't care less what your dilemma is. good day sir.
 
Lol i am postng under an alternate SN.
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Dirtylicious: u right. Im not saying i am theperfect boyfriend. But at the same time she holds too much grduges against me. She remembers the bad time and i remember the god time, only. After going backto her hometown with the family this summer spending a week at her relative's house i thought it was a wrap for us. I never thought such a title can meanso much.

Primavera Vills: well ppl would always ask.But thats just our own personal preference. Like im single but not available. Im 20. She's 21. And yes i agree we have a lot of growing up to do.

KB8sandiego: agreed.

03silverbullet: do you mind clarifying whatyou mean? Good sir?

And for the record lol i don't have a problem with any races. Its her coming to me and my ppl telling us that she is disgusted because he is white, and shesees no future in them.
 
^^ya she sounds like a headcase, headache, and a waste of time...be on yo forget about her
 
um she loves u and since u wouldn't make things official she just tryin to make u mad jealous wit another dude. so if u feel somethin wit her then u needto stop beatin around the bush and just be wit her. otherwise just walk away from the situation and let her hurt herself wit this other dude. not ur fault ifher plan fails lol
 
Emsterr: i did come to her straight up and talked about it.Put everything on the table and asked her to reconsider. She said she didn't wanna hear it, and wanted the dude to be there to listen to what i have to say
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. But yea i been stepping back.

i love nikes: i dont
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She the one admitting dude disgusts her cuz he is white. Half the time shechills with dude she calls out my ppl cuz they have nothing to talk about...
 
you need to check yourself first, if you was with her for that long, should have been official. either let her be or work yall issues out.


I read it all BTW
 
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