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For the update: She apologized and took the pic down. We gonna have a nice chat when I get of work and that'll be the end of it. Conflict resolution at itsfinest.
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Originally Posted by Jfresh7
You should never date a girl with a facebook/myspace. They're not on there to make friends, she's putting those kinda pics up for a reason.
[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]I'm just sayin.. I know a WHILE back she posted her pic (or youposted it) and looked chubby.. I guess she slimmed down.[/color]Originally Posted by eNPHAN
if by chubby you mean 32 DDDs, yeah, that's her.Originally Posted by ProduccionFrescos
[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]You go out with that chubby black girl right? (just asking)[/color]Originally Posted by eNPHAN
i'm so glad noone got out of pocket when MY chick posted on NT
i was pleasantly surprised to find......there is relatively nothing negative to be said about her appearance.
@chubby
Originally Posted by Dirtylicious
my girl has enough sense to not put up pics like that
Originally Posted by GULLYDAGREAT
Originally Posted by yungmatt
Originally Posted by SpringfieldXD
dude tried to post the small pic so we couldn't see that bearrilla up close...
im weak
Originally Posted by eNPHAN
if by chubby you mean 32 DDDs, yeah, that's her.Originally Posted by ProduccionFrescos
You go out with that chubby black girl right? (just asking)Originally Posted by eNPHAN
i'm so glad noone got out of pocket when MY chick posted on NT
i was pleasantly surprised to find......there is relatively nothing negative to be said about her appearance.
@chubby
DearWinter219:
I agree with Ska, as usual, but to an extent this time. I don't think he has a right to tell her what to do, nor do I think she should be showing off her goods and talking slick if she's really in a relationship with this guy. As I see it, he has the option of withdrawing from the relationship if she refuses to chill on that other ##@+, but if he's worth it to her, he shouldn't have to. She needs to get her act right IMO.
Yeah, it's questionable, what she's doing... but if it's really no threat to the relationship... I mean, think about it; guys likeporn. Guys in relationships like porn. Guys in relationships where they don't want their girl showing off their goods like porn. See where I'm going?What do you look like having a Hustler collection stacked up behind your sneaker collection and Share the Load VI in your dvd player... telling your girl tocover up? You're not actually banging any of the girls in porn; it's just looking. Right? That would be the excuse; it's just visual. Well, maybeyour girl likes to be looked at. Almost every girl out there wants to think she's sexy, and that has nothing to do with sex. So provocative pictures areup, or your girl dresses provocative. That doesn't mean she's advertising herself, on some 'Hit me up and let's hook up' vibe. It couldjust be that she wants to feel sexy about herself, wants guys to think 'DAMN!' when they walk by.
Any man secure in his relationship and trusting of his gf/fiance/wife would have no problems here.
Now if you think her provocative dress or risque pictures are because she's advertising herself, trying to get dudes to get at her because she's not aone-man woman... well, if you feel like that's what's going on, then... yeah... there's some things that need to be handled, and quick.DearWinter219:
Jfresh7:
You should never date a girl with a facebook/myspace. They're not on there to make friends, she's putting those kinda pics up for a reason.
Word. You should also avoid women with ears because they might be able to hear when dudes make cat calls at them... step your security game up. that's weak as hell
I'm saying.
You're good peoples, man.
Originally Posted by MrMoneyInDaBank
Originally Posted by nelly28
ugly chics love attention so that should say it all.
another one? post your girl, or are you spending your nights with a pillow between your legs like the last fool?
Both of yall got good points. 23 hit it on the head tho when guys come into the forum with their problems. Thats your first mistake. Secondly youknow the guys of NT are going to clown if she isn't at least a 13 or a 10 scale!!! Of course I love cracking up reading their comments...I can't lieabout that. I feel where RKO is coming from also. I'm not gonna lie if my girl posed fr playboy I'll have no issue with it. I just find it funny thatya'll say that a girl is disrespectful if they show off body parts by wearing revealing clothes but yet yall be beasting in the Big Breast/Butt/ETCthreads. Yall can't be hypocritical.Originally Posted by RKO2004
Controlling, sensitive and insecure because He doesn't want his chick showing off her goods for millions to see? Why would anyone be cool with their chick exposing herself to others? That's for him to see not the rest of the world. She doesn't have respect for herself if she is showing the goods but she is also disrespecting him. And if making a relationship work is letting your girl walk over and through you especially with showing off her body, then I wont no part of it. Man where is the respect and morals?Originally Posted by 23ska909red02
Ooooorrr... grow the hell up and get off her back. Sounds to me like you're insecure, like you think you're going to freaking lose your girl over her showing her goods off. If you're a good enough man to keep her by your side, she ain't going anywhere. Stop being so sensitive, insecure, and controlling.
I know practically none of you are going to agree with what I just said, but I'm not worried about that at all. Like y'all know any-damn-thing about what it takes to make a relationship last anyways, always talking about girl problems on here that are the most basic problems ever. Y'all keep thinking that controlling, insecure mentality is going to land you a quality female that will stand by your side for years and years... or even a few months.
Would you be cool if your chick posed in playboy?
2. I agree with Ska, as usual, but to an extent this time. I don't think he has a right to tell her what to do, nor do I think she should be showing off her goods and talking slick if she's really in a relationship with this guy. As I see it, he has the option of withdrawing from the relationship if she refuses to chill on that other ##@+, but if he's worth it to her, he shouldn't have to. She needs to get her act right IMO.
co-sign. I wouldn't want half naked pics of my fiance all over the internet, tho the thought of that is amusingPictures like that are one thing. Bait. Someone's going fishing.
Porn is one thing - let's be honest - those girls or guys are unattainable. It's like me shopping at Chanel. Putting provocative pictures on theinternet is like inviting to be contacted by strangers.
Then there is the issue of him not being comfortable with it. And what does she do? Cop an attitude. That's not cool either.
Originally Posted by DearWinter219
Originally Posted by Jfresh7
You should never date a girl with a facebook/myspace. They're not on there to make friends, she's putting those kinda pics up for a reason.
Word. You should also avoid women with ears because they might be able to hear when dudes make cat calls at them... step your security game up. that's weak as hell
Originally Posted by early90s
sure.....Originally Posted by Face82
Pics ?Originally Posted by Dirtylicious
my girl has enough sense to not put up pics like that
Originally Posted by Dirtylicious
sure.....Originally Posted by Face82
Pics ?Originally Posted by Dirtylicious
my girl has enough sense to not put up pics like that
[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]I didn't ask the shorty for permission to post her pics, so reallyI can't even argue with you (comparison purposes). But trust me, I know all I need to know about breasts/hips/thickness (Dominicans FTW!).. and yeah, Ilike boy bodies.. Gisele Bundchen <3[/color]Originally Posted by eNPHAN
Originally Posted by ProduccionFrescos
[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]I'm just sayin.. I know a WHILE back she posted her pic (or you posted it) and looked chubby.. I guess she slimmed down.[/color]Originally Posted by eNPHAN
if by chubby you mean 32 DDDs, yeah, that's her.Originally Posted by ProduccionFrescos
[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]You go out with that chubby black girl right? (just asking)[/color]Originally Posted by eNPHAN
i'm so glad noone got out of pocket when MY chick posted on NT
i was pleasantly surprised to find......there is relatively nothing negative to be said about her appearance.
@chubby
she posted it.
it was a couple years old too....
and she definitely wasn't chubby anyway...
lol
you must subscribe to the little-boy-bodies too, huh?
too much breasts and hips....confusing you...making you see chubbiness....
For the update: She apologized and took the pic down. We gonna have a nice chat when I get of work and that'll be the end of it. Conflict resolution at its finest.
You work fast.
You work fast.Originally Posted by RKO2004
For the update: She apologized and took the pic down. We gonna have a nice chat when I get of work and that'll be the end of it. Conflict resolution at its finest.
Originally Posted by NothingBefore
Originally Posted by early90s
You work fast.Originally Posted by RKO2004
"I'm secure in my masculinity. I have no problem if my gf/fiance/wife shows off her goods too feel sexy. You dudes are lame/insecure if you have a problem with everyone imaginable having access to seeing your girl half naked".
Get outta here you!
For the update: She apologized and took the pic down. We gonna have a nice chat when I get of work and that'll be the end of it. Conflict resolution at its finest.
I don't like to let stuff fester. I really am gonna take into consideration that she just likes to feel sexy. Her smart *** comment was still out of line though.Originally Posted by MrMoneyInDaBank
You work fast.Originally Posted by RKO2004
"I'm secure in my masculinity. I have no problem if my gf/fiance/wife shows off her goods too feel sexy. You dudes are lame/insecure if you have a problem with everyone imaginable having access to seeing your girl half naked".
Get outta here you!
For the update: She apologized and took the pic down. We gonna have a nice chat when I get of work and that'll be the end of it. Conflict resolution at its finest.