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Originally Posted by Chico Dusty
FTR I like my girls style of crazy ...
She lurks
I can relate
NT..seriously.... how can you tell if your chick is certifiable insane without going to a shrink?
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I can relate
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sounds like you are just comfortable in a relationship and afraid to branch out and realize she isn't the one
you guys seems to have issues out the @!! so imagine marrying into that
it will look a lil bit like this
that is hell by the way
you guys seems to have issues out the @!! so imagine marrying into that
it will look a lil bit like this
that is hell by the way
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You and your relationships
LOL
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emotionally driven FTL
glad i'm single and dont gotta deal with all that %@*. i will soon enough tho...
glad i'm single and dont gotta deal with all that %@*. i will soon enough tho...
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Originally Posted by StillIn729
sounds like you are just comfortable in a relationship and afraid to branch out and realize she isn't the one
you guys seems to have issues out the @!! so imagine marrying into that
it will look a lil bit like this
that is hell by the way
The question should be who's really insane... the chick or the guy who stays withher?
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I know Sam.. I know..
and I don't get the pic at all...
and I don't get the pic at all...
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Look at it this way, all of this makes it that much better when you meet "the one" or whatever BS you want to call it
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here's the thing though...why would you want to be with a person that constantly gives you grief?
you can attempt to say that one race of girls are more "crazy" than the other...but at the end of the day... your choice of a person and theircharacter is up to you...regardless of their race.
you can attempt to say that one race of girls are more "crazy" than the other...but at the end of the day... your choice of a person and theircharacter is up to you...regardless of their race.
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I don't believe in meeting people that make a perfect fit for you... I'm the type that thinks if you can get through and get OVER the BS, it works outbetter for you in the end. Getting over the BS is tough though. Right now, shorty's complete lack of crazyness is crazy to me. She's been likethis at times before but it's different now... more mature even. I guess in a sense, we've role reversed. I'm used to her being the person thatfeels awkward when %%** feels right, not me. And I'm used to me being the generous type.
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I hear you dirty. It's that %** bro. Have you SEEN a black %** up close?! It's magical
... I'm sorry, but I won't trade black physiology for!@##
... nah but really, my mom was black. I'm black. I want to have lil black %** kids like me when I was little. I have NOTHINGagainst any other race though, I just want to create something and be a part of a relationship that looks like the ones before me.
... nah but really, my mom was black. I'm black. I want to have lil black %** kids like me when I was little. I have NOTHINGagainst any other race though, I just want to create something and be a part of a relationship that looks like the ones before me.
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I feel for you. I have found someone who I love more than anything/one I have ever loved before, but sometimes I hate her all the same. it's very confusingand sometimes I think that all the happiness isn't worth the small percentage of pain and suffering. good luck to you
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Nice one Dirty. To the OP: All women have a certain crazy in them. Some buy a lot things for their men for no reason.........some put knives on their necks andthreaten them. It's what you can deal with. If it's too much, cut her loose before we see a R.I.P.thread.
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Originally Posted by DearWinter219
I hear you dirty. It's that %** bro. Have you SEEN a black %** up close?! It's magical... I'm sorry, but I won't trade black physiology for !@##
... nah but really, my mom was black. I'm black. I want to have lil black %** kids like me when I was little. I have NOTHING against any other race though, I just want to create something and be a part of a relationship that looks like the ones before me.
i think i remember dirtay saying he dated a black chick before...
how'd that work out for you?
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very well put there enphan. i think we all can at least slightly agree that black chicks are more confrontational that other races.
i for one would like to know why black females are much more prone to getting into confrontations as opposed to other female races?
any thoughts
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Originally Posted by DearWinter219
Well I like to think Dirty has a pretty idealist POV on relationships, which is beneficial to me more often than not. But in the reality of things, a lot of what he says isn't applicable at the present time. So it's worth noting and reading, but not necessarily the course of action I'd choose off the bat. It's not that Black women are all that different PHAN. Really, it's that black men present different challenges to them.
Asid from that, my cell phone JUST rang 5 seconds ago. This was the convo
ME: Hey baby, what's up?
Her: I love you
ME: ... I love you too..
Her: OK. Bye now.
What have I gotten myself into guys
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Y'all dudes have the kid scared to ever get wifed up like I'm bout to end up on dead with a Court TV special. SMH.
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good call on those.Originally Posted by eNPHAN
being black in america?
instead of being feared like their male counterparts, they are disrespected and disregarded more, imo
plus, they gotta deal with ignorant *!%%$# all day....
i dunno, a combination of african american culture and inner-city-ness, i guess...
-shrugs-
also its defintiely because there arent very many positive black female role models, matter of fact there arent very many positive black role modes regardlessof gender
so they learn how to act form their peers & the people they see on TV, which is being confrontational towards anything & everything.
just a perfect storm of things contributing to their confrontational nature.
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I'm not telling you to abandon your racial preference..
I'm telling you to find someone who meets your physical needs along with your mental needs...just b/c someone looks good...doesn't mean she's goodfor you.
not all black chicks are going to be "crazy" and "confrontational" as you guys put it.
I'm telling you to find someone who meets your physical needs along with your mental needs...just b/c someone looks good...doesn't mean she's goodfor you.
not all black chicks are going to be "crazy" and "confrontational" as you guys put it.
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thas a real true statement, alot of people sacrifice their mental needs just to satisfy their physical needs. But that is partly because of theemphasis that is based on looks & physical attractiveness in our society.
but that last statement nobody is saying "EVERY" black girl is confrontational, but i think in alot of our experiences the majority of black girlsare confrontational. & even in my personal experience, its not just the ones from the inner-city, its all of them.
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good point...Originally Posted by eNPHAN
being black in america?
instead of being feared like their male counterparts, they are disrespected and disregarded more, imo
plus, they gotta deal with ignorant *!%%$# all day....
i dunno, a combination of african american culture and inner-city-ness, i guess...
-shrugs-
but dirty makes a good point as well...
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There going to be some confrontation in every relationship, regardless of age, race or socioeconomic standing. It's all about how said confrontation ishandled.
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dont even bother going into why black chicks seem to be more confrontational. no good will come of it
some of ya'll seem to think that if you dont have drama in a relationship, it's weak..on some "She loves me but she set my car on fire"type #+@. never that for me. it may be boring to some but sometimes i feel like i'm too cerebral and above the BS and that i can just leave if that'sthe route its going.
some of ya'll seem to think that if you dont have drama in a relationship, it's weak..on some "She loves me but she set my car on fire"type #+@. never that for me. it may be boring to some but sometimes i feel like i'm too cerebral and above the BS and that i can just leave if that'sthe route its going.
