yet ANOTHER girl advice thread.... update p.1

[brettthejett]

Alright so I'm living in this small village in Holland and theres this pub that EVERYONE age 14-34 hits up every friday. Past two fridays I went theretotally smashed because I was out before or w/e...
Met a girl I had my eye on a few times...shes pretty cute, not M Fox[

],but she has a great body which is RARE in holland (thick farm girls lol).
Two weeks ago I bought tickets for this concert in Amsterdam I really want to see...paid like 4x retail because I want to see it so bad. I bought two thinkingI'd have no problem finding someone to go with.
Well I did have a problem finding someone into this music, so I decided to play safe and ask this chick... I told her it prob wasn't her kinda music butit'd be really fun to go with me

Got her number to make further arrangments and ended up talking to her for the rest of the night. Too drunk to smash for sure, but I remember talking to muchhahaha which isn't normal because half these people don;t understand my American English.

. Can't remeber what we talked about either...
That usually isn't an issue, but for me it's a MAJOR handicap...because the train ride to Amsterdam is 2.5 hours! both ways!

Nt I need tips on what to talk about with this chick for a total of 5 hours (just travel time)....her english is really good from what I gatherfrom our texting this week. But I don't know what to bring up for convo during those "...."

.. what would you do?


Cliffs
-met a girl
-taking to a concert in amsterdam
-2.5 hr travel time to concert (each way)
-need advice what to talk about when convo slows down

UPDATE
So I met up with her..and no joke, I ran out of ammo within the first hour and half..
BRUTAL.
I realized this girls english was 100x over texting than it is in person ahaha

that + she was dumb as *@** and beyond shy. got beat red whenever i piped up.


but the show was good...dinner was %###%%...by the end of the night we were fooling around on the train
i said good night, but couldn't smash because (__lame excuse__)...def laid the ground work. i think i secured it for next time

thank you NT

 

[jepeh21]

i don't know man, i'm a born talker, i tend to have a story or start a conversation after the other but it does'nt have to be all conversationduring the whole trip, i'd say just be relaxed and don't think too much about what you're going to say or what topic of conversation should youguys talk about. If you're interested in her in the first place just go from there and ask questions about her, likes and dislikes, family, work etc,anyway good luck man, i'm not an expert but that's just me, and enjoy the concert.

 

[retroisback2008]

Music x Hobbies x Sex (Only if shes open about it) x Movies

 

[junior strikes]

Amsterdam!?!.... smoke a blunt, you'll think of something

 

[kix4kix]

Originally Posted by brettTHEjett

2.5 hours! both ways!

Nt I need tips on what to talk about with this chick for a total of 5 hours (just travel time)....

YOU HAVE GOT TO BE JOKING.....

..... Has teleportation been invented in the past 30 seconds?

 

[mw2889]

Do you really think she wants to keep hearing you? If there's nothing to talk about than !%%%.

 

[brettthejett]

Originally Posted by kix4kix

Originally Posted by brettTHEjett

2.5 hours! both ways!

Nt I need tips on what to talk about with this chick for a total of 5 hours (just travel time)....

YOU HAVE GOT TO BE JOKING.....

..... Has teleportation been invented in the past 30 seconds?

Travel for 5 hr on a frist date? That's not ideal.

 

[niketalker23]

Ok dude seriously, quit worrying about it. Be yourself, what are you so worried about? Since you like this chick do what common sense would tell you andactually try get to know her. How hard can that be? If you're truely interested you shouldn't have a problem. Once the conversation gets startedit'll all start rollin smoothly. You've know nothing about her, make it your job to change that.

 

[javier5857]

Well, if she's feeling you (which she obviously is because shes going on a trip with you already) you should have no problem conversing with her.

planned convo's = sure fail, so dont start to think ahead of time and topics.

dont think too much and try not to be too nervous.

 

[brettthejett]

You guys are taking this the wrong way.
I'm not worrying..or concerned..nor nervous or anything.....

I'm simply posing the question to you, when the convo dies and it seems you've talked the %$*% outta everything what would you bring up

 

[GaBeGRaMz]

If a conversation don't happen naturally than it ain't going to work.

All this asking for what to talk about is a waste, you gonna go into the whip with crib notes ? Mad George Costanza.

 

[18key]

Talk to her about the US. Like ask if shes ever been over here, that'll lead to a bunch of different convo subjects.

 

[niketalker23]

Originally Posted by brettTHEjett

You guys are taking this the wrong way.
I'm not worrying..or concerned..nor nervous or anything.....

I'm simply posing the question to you, when the convo dies and it seems you've talked the %$*% outta everything what would you bring up

It's impossible to get to know her in 5 hours. Ask her questions, share experiences, etc..There's so much to talk about it's hard to tell you totalk about certain things. Like I said just try to get to know her.

 

[in yo nostril]

just take a nap bro.

 

[brettthejett]

Originally Posted by In Yo Nostril

just take a nap bro.

i think i might

 

[cucumbercool]

tell her if this train's a rockin....
it would be better to have ........

 

[xilegacy]

Originally Posted by In Yo Nostril

just take a nap bro.

QFT

I guess you can take on the way there and just take anap on the way back. Say you are tired as hell.

 

[Pmighty]

whos performing??
what is the age of consent over there??

i wouldnt stress it though i was told when youre goin on a date you shouldnt plan out what your goin to talk about but to jus let it happen. I dont have thegift of gab either but i would jus go w/the flow. Or maybe you could jus take a shot or two durin the trip since you talk so damn much when youre drunk

 

[brettthejett]

^ hahaha

yeah...usually I'm good at keeping the convo rolling for a few hours. I'm pretty confident that if she participates at all it'll be okay.

We're going to Chris Cornell concert. and I'm in the GOLD on this one because she's 18..maybe even 19 ahaha which is a rare find as well

 

[DVMNXK]

Originally Posted by brettTHEjett

Alright so I'm living in this small village in Holland and theres this pub that EVERYONE age 14-34 hits up every friday. Past two fridays I went there totally smashed because I was out before or w/e...
Met a girl I had my eye on a few times...shes pretty cute, not M Fox[

], but she has a great body which is RARE in holland (thick farm girls lol).
Two weeks ago I bought tickets for this concert in Amsterdam I really want to see...paid like 4x retail because I want to see it so bad. I bought two thinking I'd have no problem finding someone to go with.
Well I did have a problem finding someone into this music, so I decided to play safe and ask this chick... I told her it prob wasn't her kinda music but it'd be really fun to go with me

Got her number to make further arrangments and ended up talking to her for the rest of the night. Too drunk to smash for sure, but I remember talking to much hahaha which isn't normal because half these people don;t understand my American English.

. Can't remeber what we talked about either...
That usually isn't an issue, but for me it's a MAJOR handicap...because the train ride to Amsterdam is 2.5 hours! both ways!

Nt I need tips on what to talk about with this chick for a total of 5 hours (just travel time)....her english is really good from what I gather from our texting this week. But I don't know what to bring up for convo during those "...."

.. what would you do?


Cliffs
-met a girl
-taking to a concert in amsterdam
-2.5 hr travel time to concert (each way)
-need advice what to talk about when convo slows down

I ride the train around Italy all the time with chicks...I'm usually passed out though

.

I think one thing you could do is bring an ipod with one of those ports where you can plug two headphones in, make a dope playlist and let that ride one of thetrips. The other, maybe talk about life in America or something?

 

[posite fiend]

just ask her lots of questions and act like your interested in what shes saying the whole time, the bulk of the "date" or ride to and from the trainwill probably go like...

you: so what do you do for a living?
her: i ... "whatever the hell she does"....you?
you: i "whatever the hell you do"...so how do you like doin that...
her: "however the hell she feels about doin that"...you?

so on and so fourth, first dates are interviews. be yourself and you should be good.

 

[eight2one]

just talk about her.

 

[951guero]

pics

 

[brettthejett]

it took you simps 22 posts to ask for pics?
haha joking..
but this is all i could find. not a true representation imo.

 

[crumbs]

if feelings are mutual it convo will flow naturally...if that fails...fall asleep on her breast