What are the Pros/Cons of living with your Boyfriend/Girlfriend?

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My boyfriend and I are moving in together in July/Aug. Was wondering what some of you see as the pros/cons of living with your significant other?



What are some of the things they do that make you LOVE living with them? and HATE living with them?




Im kinda nervous, and wanted to get some opinions on it. Besides the pro of splitting costs lol. 


 
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Pros:?

Cons:
Lets just say nothing lasts forever. You will start to see the little #%!* you never wanted to see.
 
Don't do it, reconsider. Read some literature on the subject.

P.S. only reason you BF would even want to move in is because he thinks it means unlimited smashing and sandwiches.
 
Originally Posted by quik1987

Don't do it, reconsider. Read some literature on the subject.

P.S. only reason you BF would even want to move in is because he thinks it means unlimited smashing and sandwiches.
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thats how it is for me now. every day i go home like
 
Originally Posted by cap1229

Is marriage in the future for you guys?
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Were actually having a baby, im due in October - wanted to get some unbiased opinions though lol.



I feel like we can wait a little longer for marriage. Im 22, he is 30 and the pregnancy was unplanned but we are trying our best and we want to do this as a family. I honestly wanted some tips on making the experience better for him and I. I want to do the little things that make him happy with hopes of him doing them for me lol. 
 
R.I.P. to your relationship.

If you need a handy man when he's not around let me know.
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Edit- Scratch that just read the post above...
 
Originally Posted by gORJESS

Originally Posted by cap1229

Is marriage in the future for you guys?
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Were actually having a baby, im due in October - wanted to get some unbiased opinions though lol.



I feel like we can wait a little longer for marriage. Im 22, he is 30 and the pregnancy was unplanned but we are trying our best and we want to do this as a family. I honestly wanted some tips on making the experience better for him and I. I want to do the little things that make him happy with hopes of him doing them for me lol. 
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How long have you guys been together?  And how much time do you generally spend with each other?  I mean you're having a baby, so maybe it's worth a shot... But personally, I would be a bit cautious still.  Just be prepared to learn some new things about your bf.  
 
Whenever someone I know tell me they want to mov ein with they're GF/BF, i only tell them one thing.... NO.

and then I say trust me...
 
Originally Posted by gORJESS

Originally Posted by cap1229

Is marriage in the future for you guys?
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Were actually having a baby, im due in October - wanted to get some unbiased opinions though lol.



I feel like we can wait a little longer for marriage. Im 22, he is 30 and the pregnancy was unplanned but we are trying our best and we want to do this as a family. I honestly wanted some tips on making the experience better for him and I. I want to do the little things that make him happy with hopes of him doing them for me lol. 
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If he doesn't already there's a high probability you'll end up just a baby mama. Just sayin'

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Also, how long were you both together before your pregnancy?
 
Originally Posted by OGMIKEY

Originally Posted by gORJESS

Originally Posted by cap1229

Is marriage in the future for you guys?
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Were actually having a baby, im due in October - wanted to get some unbiased opinions though lol.



I feel like we can wait a little longer for marriage. Im 22, he is 30 and the pregnancy was unplanned but we are trying our best and we want to do this as a family. I honestly wanted some tips on making the experience better for him and I. I want to do the little things that make him happy with hopes of him doing them for me lol. 
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If he doesn't already there's a high probability you'll end up just a baby mama. Just sayin'

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Also, how long were you both together before your pregnancy?
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I meant in terms of living with him. Ive never lived with a guy, so I was looking for tips and some opinions on things that maybe some of the guys on here's GF's do that they love. Things that make them happy to live with them.



We have been dating since February 2011, found out I was pregnant in February 2012.
 
pros: we're married

cons: we're married

okay... my attempt at a joke is a huge fail.... lol
 
for guys its whack, expect for him to want plenty of space after you guys get over playing house, a major pro is having your own space with someone you really care about and want to share that space with
and you will learn stuff about your bf that will be cool and stuff that will annoy the heck out of you
 
Originally Posted by gORJESS

I honestly wanted some tips on making the experience better for him and I. I want to do the little things that make him happy with hopes of him doing them for me lol. 
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1) Sit on it(don't make him do work all the time)

2) Sandwiches(get to his tummy, he will be your dummy)

3) Shutting up occasionally(sometimes less is more)


And not in that order. Sounds pretty simple right? It is. We dudes are simple creatures. Good luck
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NT'ers make moving in with your significant other sound scary, lol.. OP, I don't think you should put too much pressure on yourself to keep him happy. Whose idea was it to get a place together?

I haven't taken that big step yet but my only worries would be too much nagging, feeling like I have no space and me time.

Congrats on the Valetines Day baby, lol

Libras >>>
 
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