Confessions

USABasketball08 said:
Started a new job and the processes are extremely specific. I'm the youngest one in the office by 5 years. I've been there 2 days and the other guy they hired along with me started too. One of my references responded late which means I couldn't get my computer and everything set up so I've been trying to learn a system without actually being able to use it. The other guy has his and I feel like he's a step ahead already because he has the tools he needs to learn. I won't get my computer until next Monday

I just feel pressured to perform already two days in. I'm also already missing social events with my coworkers because I'm still in school. They went out to happy hour the first day on the job and I had class. So it's already hard to connect with them.
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Just be yourself and don't try so hard to fit in. Almost all workplaces you'll fit in aslong long as your easy and cool to work with. Adults for the most part realise people have lives out of work and different personality
 
Bullying in the workplace, get used to it or leave. Or not and grind through constant bs everyday. That's me. I push back just as hard, but im david, they goliath. I beat goliath in court over bullying, and they still go at it. Bruh, I aint not give up kinda person. You should know this after my 4 year court crap with you guys. But no. You really want me to neck myself. Aint happening mate!

Why do people treat mental health like its a hassle for them to deal with, but if it was a broken leg oh itd be totally different. Im not being a hassle, im being me and the best I can with the mental issues I have that came from....... wait for it. YOU, my workplace as proven in court. **** off
 
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th3answ3r said:
you're right, I exchange looks with girls and can n ever tell if they dig me or naw. Things will be that much easier if I know they somewhat feeling me.
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Im real blunt when it comes to looks :lol: i catch them looking, i just hold the :stoneface: face for 2 seconds and go back to what i was doing. Head nod if i catch her again. This has worked. That hard to get role.
 
Man I feel me and my girl are over. It's been up and down for the last couple of months, but recently it's been bad. We don't talk anymore and I'm just ready to move on. Sucks because I really thought she was the one. 3 yeare and it's potentially done. Truly feel like people either grow apart or make it happen and thug it out.
 
jdi23 said:
Man I feel me and my girl are over. It's been up and down for the last couple of months, but recently it's been bad. We don't talk anymore and I'm just ready to move on. Sucks because I really thought she was the one. 3 yeare and it's potentially done. Truly feel like people either grow apart or make it happen and thug it out.
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Same situation here. Just ended two days ago. My advice is have a legit sit down and express every feeling that you have. Good and bad. Leave it all on the table. Encourage her to do the same. That way you both are fully aware of how yall feel. Then from there see where yall should go. Either grind it out and go forward with the relationship or both mutually come to the agreement that its best to close yall chapter and just appreciate that it even happened at all. Easier said than done, but its effective.
 
i don't know what the hell is wrong with me

Just weeks ago I was in a position to get everything I could ever want ,made a several bad decisions now I'm back to square one.
 
H60D said:
Im real blunt when it comes to looks :lol: i catch them looking, i just hold the :stoneface: face for 2 seconds and go back to what i was doing. Head nod if i catch her again. This has worked. That hard to get role.
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Will try this and report back. problem is I usually don't get the second glance or I don't catch it. I just exchange looks when I feel someone's looking at me and look away


louislagerfeld said:
story of my life
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Man I don't even know, apparently the mirror image is youre face reflected so what people see could be completely opposite.
 
My girl really wants to move in together in a few months, and I just don't think I am ready for that. We have been together for a little more than a year and I enjoy having my alone time. The closer we get to dday the more I am beginning to think this is a deal breaker for her....

I really need to get back in the gym, I feel a recent leg injury has made me a little depressed, I have always been an active person and as a former amateur athlete, it kills me to not be able to be as active as I want to be...I still haven't worked out despite being medically cleared to work on upper body a week ago....I will get on it this weekend...I will get on it this....I will get on.....

I really have no idea what it means to really find that person, is it someone you aren't sick of? Is it someone you click with? all I can do is be me, and not compromise myself, but then that's what a relationship is about- compromise....This is the main conundrum with monogamy. 
 
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BlackIntellect said:
 
My girl really wants to move in together in a few months, and I just don't think I am ready for that. We have been together for a little more than a year and I enjoy having my alone time. The closer we get to dday the more I am beginning to think this is a deal breaker for her....

I really need to get back in the gym, I feel a recent leg injury has made me a little depressed, I have always been an active person and as a former amateur athlete, it kills me to not be able to be as active as I want to be...I still haven't worked out despite being medically cleared to work on upper body a week ago....I will get on it this weekend...I will get on it this....I will get on.....

I really have no idea what it means to really find that person, is it someone you aren't sick of? Is it someone you click with? all I can do is be me, and not compromise myself, but then that's what a relationship is about- compromise....This is the main conundrum with monogamy. 
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1. You gotta look out for #1 before anything else. You know how on airplanes, they tell you in case of emergency you put your mask on before you help others? Same thing applies. Let her know how you feel and the rest will work out for the best, even if not immediately.

2. Just go. You're medically cleared so just go. Even if you feel like a POS the best thing you can do is force yourself there. Once you start, you begin building momentum. Eventually it becomes harder to break the habit of going than it does to just go. I started going back to the gym habitually back in February. I've been going 3-4 times a week every week since. If I go longer than 2 days without going I get really anxious. It's a habit I just can't allow myself to break and the results are steadily coming in.

3. I feel you a little on this one because I've struggled with the concept of monogamy over the course of my current relationship (over a year and a half now). I've never ever felt like she wasn't the one, I just had a hard time dealing with her being the LAST one. But eventually I realized that just because I still eye up a couple girls here and there doesn't mean I actually want anyone else. Not having my girl would devastate me and once you come to that conclusion you being embracing it all more and more. There's no doubt I'm marrying this chick.

It's hard to explain because it's different for everybody, but when you find it you know.
 
Pianoman281 said:
Not so much of a confession more of a vent I guess.
So the other day I got into a little accident. Cops say I wasn't at fault and a witness gave a statement that was also in my favor so I was clear. That accident was kind of the last straw for me. Ever since then I've been in a real down in the dumps mood on some why do bad things happen to good people type stuff. I'm a tough dude but it seems like nothing is going right for me right now and it's draining mentally and physically (all I want to do is sleep). I'm still looking for a job plus I have student loan payments coming up next month so it's really crunch time for me and I'm worried that I won't make it on time. I get calls for interviews and when I go to the interviews I feel like I did well, but I don't get that call back or follow up. I just want to get my ish together soon.
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Try temp agencies my dude they should be able to find you something
 
Smoked 2 Blunts of LOUD before the cinemas. Don't remember a thing of the movie, mind was wondering the whole flick smh
 
I have Google Health Anxiety....:rolleyes

Everytime something I feel is wrong I google it and the WORST things come up and I begin to think I have them.....Takes over a brother like me forreal I start to lay around and just think all day what is going to happen to me if I got this or that. :smh:
 
you sound like my brother and mom

call me about every little ailment they feel and ask me whats wrong with them

My brother got water in his nose while at the river a few weeks ago and blew too hard and got a bloody nose. His nose would bleed when he blew his nose in the following days he called me 3 different times asking if he was ok

Told him he was fine, was persistent on going to urgent care and doc told him the same thing I told him
 
Hanacheezy said:
you sound like my brother and mom

call me about every little ailment they feel and ask me whats wrong with them

My brother got water in his nose while at the river a few weeks ago and blew too hard and got a bloody nose. His nose would bleed when he blew his nose in the following days he called me 3 different times asking if he was ok

Told him he was fine, was persistent on going to urgent care and doc told him the same thing I told him
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Man that is me totally. I tired to break it and it just comes right back around. Really working on it because at some times it can take over my life and mentality.
 
one piece of advice

take care of your body...exercise, eat well, sleep, find ways to destress

the human body can do amazing things man it'll regulate itself
 
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