Tips on approaching women. "UPDATE PG 6"

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be confident women can smell fear

IcyyyESR Two3 said:

This has to be somebody's made-today backup account.... somebody who claims to pull maximum yambs

o, and here we go again...

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maybe its both

Wio.

zapatohead408 said:

Wio.

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PHHOI

Confidence

zapatohead408 said:

Wio.

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lock this up

jbpkickz said:

be confident women can smell fear

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That is pretty much it

Real talk...

Bruh you gotta stay presentable everytime you go out/run errands/etc... you never know when you'll see some prospects for the roster

believe in yourself

repition = perfection (perfect your craft... everytime you approach a chick, be aware of things you can improve on... you do this and by the time you're older... you'll pull more chicks than ever)

have a strong mouthpiece

if you're fresh to death, you can't lose... even if she rejects you, you still win because you're fresh to death... just diddy bop like its nothin

Be presentable, be yourself, dont overanalyze the situation, know what to say, be confident, and dont let failure discourage you.

Be realistic, confident, and don't expect to smash every woman you see/talk to

1. Gotta have amnesia, like a NFL corner back

2. Understand that you WILL get rejected, no matter how crisp you are.

3. Understand that a good majority of the time, its not you.

4. Like homey said up top, always be presentable when you leave the house.

5. Like homey said up top, practice makes perfect. But don't go out heaving from half court. PERFECT practice makes perfect. When you spit, make sure you recap on what you did good and bad.

6. Go to different cities and try new things. Go to different bars and different clubs with different people at different times...

7. Understand that at these bars and clubs, chicks are defensive so don't take rejection our useless numbers personal.

8. In public, bee tactful about your approach. This raises your chances.

9. Rule number one

10. The worse that can happen is she says no.

This is all approach stuff.

You want to know after you get her, or before you get her?

Its the before...like a random chick u never saw b4 how do u get at her?

^ lol hit her with the "ayo ma" works all the time... not really

To the dudes in relationships.....

do you still approach females even if you have no intent or expectations to smash? Sort of like, to avoid getting rusty and perfecting your game?

You got to have confident..

Be confident, and in my opinion Be real

Be yourself & be confident.

Act nonchalant....like u want da number but it won't make or break u if u don't get it

Just curious how old is OP?

Anyways, heres my two cents. Know that it's billions of chicks in the world and just be yourself because one day you will find one for you
Brosef.

ricky409 said:

1. Gotta have amnesia, like a NFL corner back

2. Understand that you WILL get rejected, no matter how crisp you are.

3. Understand that a good majority of the time, its not you.

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This is great info.

It is all easier said then done. My biggest issue is rejection. I can never mentally say "eh not me must be you" I always go with the "oh i am not good enough how dare you reject me dumb B prob a dirty garden tool anyway". Getting better at brushing it off. I guess practice makes perfect

Start with Hi..smile.. compliment... set up time to for date because u have things to do... if she doesn't want to give digits...charge it to the game

ricky409 said:

1. Gotta have amnesia, like a NFL corner back

2. Understand that you WILL get rejected, no matter how crisp you are.

3. Understand that a good majority of the time, its not you.

4. Like homey said up top, always be presentable when you leave the house.

5. Like homey said up top, practice makes perfect. But don't go out heaving from half court. PERFECT practice makes perfect. When you spit, make sure you recap on what you did good and bad.

6. Go to different cities and try new things. Go to different bars and different clubs with different people at different times...

7. Understand that at these bars and clubs, chicks are defensive so don't take rejection our useless numbers personal.

8. In public, bee tactful about your approach. This raises your chances.

9. Rule number one

10. The worse that can happen is she says no.

This is all approach stuff.

You want to know after you get her, or before you get her?

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Bingo! This man knows. People only notice the successes and not the failures, like most thinkgs in life. Now, mods please lock this thread. This pops up what seems like every few days.

Jay Are said:

Its the before...like a random chick u never saw b4 how do u get at her?

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to be real... if you're not presentable, you really dont have a chance. dont care have suave and debonair you are... if you're not presentable, cut that short.

doesnt mean you have to be drop dead, Calvin Klein model handsome... but crispness on things you can control (skin, hair, clothes) is what's key.

also, woman watch movies differently from what we do. they want that fairy tale type scenario (ever seen my best friends girl?). that's why its so hard to pull in the club. who wants to say "we met Beamers when i was poppin' yambs" ... ever hear a relationship that started in the club? a woman will say she met a guy on the internet before she say they met in the club.

as far as everyday mackin, you gotta be tactful... it may sound corny, but spark up some kinda convo about anything that you think could grab her attention. it rarely works to say "hey, i think you're cute. i want to go out." you gotta get something rolling first.

"do you know where ____ is?" "i'm trying to make this spaghetti and i dont know what's the best sauce" "i seen you have that psychology book... are you taking ____?

it may sound kinda corny, but you can scare a chick by being too aggressive too quick. they get this from alotta guys, though... many guys tend to do this, but dont know how to turn the convo to some "waddup w/ me and you kickin' it" vibeage in a smooth manner. this takes practice, and turning the convo to some vibeage is what separates playas from everybody else.

its a fine line between being aggressive, too aggressive, passive, and too passive... you want to be right in the middle, leaning toward slightly aggressive.

you chop it up, get some giggles, and DONT TALK TOO MUCH. make her contribute to the convo. dont be afraid to make a joke, and not laugh. when in a conversation, the person who laughs and smiles the most is the person that needs validation from the other party.

a smile/laugh from you has to be earned. dont do all that grinning and chinning... if she says something legitimately funny, smile, and keep it moving. on the other hand, if she's diggin you, everything you say will be received with a smile or laugh, followed with a lengthy response. if you're not getting that (short answers and no smiles) bow out gracefully and understand that A MAJORITY OF THE TIME, ITS NOT ANYTHING THAT YOU'VE DONE OR SAID... ITS HER.


many fellas get uncomfortable in a brief period of silence, and think its their job to fill it in with chatter. this makes it seem like you're trying to impress her with game. sometimes, the best game is shutting the hell up. just like you dont like awkward moments of silence, she doesnt either... and if she's feeling you, she'll DEFINITELY try to fill it with questions or talk..

why? well, when you feel uncomfortable, you talk b/c you're not sure what she's thinking. you think she's judging you. SAME THING WITH THE GIRL... they think "was that joke not funny? why didnt he respond the way i thought? that was SO stupid... why did you say that... i have to say something quick" and out comes the words.


all this stuff only happens 2/10 times though... to be real, if she's feeling you, it doesnt matter what you do, but guys dont know when to SEE that a girl is feeling them... smiles, talking, long answers are all signs...

IF SHE LOOKS TWICE, YOU PRESS TWICE TO BREAK THE ICE AND GET HER RIGHT...

anything else?