Tips on approaching women. "UPDATE PG 6"

TeamJordan79 said:
To the dudes in relationships.....
do you still approach females even if you have no intent or expectations to smash? Sort of like, to avoid getting rusty and perfecting your game?
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man... the roughest part of the game is when you're fresh out of a relationship...

you have NO TEAM, NO CONFIDENCE, NO SWAG going... if you really feeling and concentrated on your chick, you dont really go after other yambs...

and, if you spit too hard, it might come back to your lady and make her feel kinda bad.

from what i've seen, it takes a couple yambs and a couple months for a dude to get back in the groove.
 
I can understand looking presentable whenever u are out around town but it is not the key thing to getting females. I walk around town and on campus with Kobe's, basketball shorts and bape supreme or diamond tee and still have no problem with picking up females. It's all about the way u approach them. Conversation rules everything! **** even when I go to NYC I have no problem with the females. Maybe you should talk to every chick you want to talk to and try doing some trail and error for a month or two.
 
Quick info: if you're thinking about it to the point you had to make a thread you're thinking too much, trust me. You relax & let things flow naturally & you'll be ok.

Don't worry about how the next man does their thing or how they made something happen, do your own thing & you'll be fine
 
First, you gotta cop some foambs and snabacks. Then, get tatted up and post pics on instagram. Do that, they'll come to you.

Trust me, 90% of the time, it works all the time.
 
Tips on approaching women.
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Take her out on an expensive dinner... and DON'T tip!

Trust me, she'll think you're douche and give you access to the yambs.
 
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C Money 88 05 said:
Quick info: if you're thinking about it to the point you had to make a thread you're thinking too much, trust me. You relax & let things flow naturally & you'll be ok.
Don't worry about how the next man does their thing or how they made something happen, do your own thing & you'll be fine
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i dunno famb...
i think looking to NT is like looking to the old head with alot of experience, simply b/c people wont pull punches. there are some gems on here, alont w/ the lulz.

what if he was brought up to be a simp? what if he doesnt know where to even start?

before the interwebz, cats would just go ask their player-made uncle... or some older person w/ game...
 
A woman is not some mythical creature from the ancient Roman times or some rare wild animal that roams the jungle. You simply just need to be a little more outgoing and practice. Be observant and work on your conversational skills. If you work at a job where you have to interact with women customers or coworkers, practice just speaking to them to get your confidence/comfort level up.

Everywhere you go throughout the day you are surrounded by women.....whether it be the train, super market, gym, mall, etc. Don't let all these opportunities pass you by because you are afraid of rejection.
 
handullz said:
Jay Are said:
Its the before...like a random chick u never saw b4 how do u get at her?
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to be real... if you're not presentable, you really dont have a chance. dont care have suave and debonair you are... if you're not presentable, cut that short.

doesnt mean you have to be drop dead, Calvin Klein model handsome... but crispness on things you can control (skin, hair, clothes) is what's key.

also, woman watch movies differently from what we do. they want that fairy tale type scenario (ever seen my best friends girl?). that's why its so hard to pull in the club. who wants to say "we met Beamers when i was poppin' yambs" ... ever hear a relationship that started in the club? a woman will say she met a guy on the internet before she say they met in the club.

as far as everyday mackin, you gotta be tactful... it may sound corny, but spark up some kinda convo about anything that you think could grab her attention. it rarely works to say "hey, i think you're cute. i want to go out." you gotta get something rolling first.

"do you know where ____ is?" "i'm trying to make this spaghetti and i dont know what's the best sauce" "i seen you have that psychology book... are you taking ____?

it may sound kinda corny, but you can scare a chick by being too aggressive too quick. they get this from alotta guys, though... many guys tend to do this, but dont know how to turn the convo to some "waddup w/ me and you kickin' it" vibeage in a smooth manner. this takes practice, and turning the convo to some vibeage is what separates playas from everybody else.

its a fine line between being aggressive, too aggressive, passive, and too passive... you want to be right in the middle, leaning toward slightly aggressive.

you chop it up, get some giggles, and DONT TALK TOO MUCH. make her contribute to the convo. dont be afraid to make a joke, and not laugh. when in a conversation, the person who laughs and smiles the most is the person that needs validation from the other party.

a smile/laugh from you has to be earned. dont do all that grinning and chinning... if she says something legitimately funny, smile, and keep it moving. on the other hand, if she's diggin you, everything you say will be received with a smile or laugh, followed with a lengthy response. if you're not getting that (short answers and no smiles) bow out gracefully and understand that A MAJORITY OF THE TIME, ITS NOT ANYTHING THAT YOU'VE DONE OR SAID... ITS HER.

here's an experiment for you... if you have some yambs or even a chick that you text, completely take the LOLs and smiley faces out... watch how she starts to do it... you know she's worried about what you think when she starts and ends a text with LOL...

sounds corny, but give it try and see

many fellas get uncomfortable in a brief period of silence, and think its their job to fill it in with chatter. this makes it seem like you're trying to impress her with game. sometimes, the best game is shutting the hell up. just like you dont like awkward moments of silence, she doesnt either... and if she's feeling you, she'll DEFINITELY try to fill it with questions or talk..

why? well, when you feel uncomfortable, you talk b/c you're not sure what she's thinking. you think she's judging you. SAME THING WITH THE GIRL... they think "was that joke not funny? why didnt he respond the way i thought? that was SO stupid... why did you say that... i have to say something quick" and out comes the words.


all this stuff only happens 2/10 times though... to be real, if she's feeling you, it doesnt matter what you do, but guys dont know when to SEE that a girl is feeling them... smiles, talking, long answers are all signs...

IF SHE LOOKS TWICE, YOU PRESS TWICE TO BREAK THE ICE AND GET HER RIGHT...

anything else?
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:smokin you sir know the game
 
Just be yourself dont change for no woman, if she rejects ya there is plenty more fish in the sea.
 
sometimes i just say "hey i couldn't help but notice you, i know your (whatever they're doing - doing laundry, grocery shopping, working out, waiting tables etc) and i don't wanna bother you but i just wanted to introduce myself. I'm Brandon, whats your name?"

just talk to them. if they seem nice or at least somewhat smart then i just straight ask "would it be cool if we exchanged numbers"


that's it really. call before you text and your in there.

i swear i have no game, no pick up lines. i just talk to them with confidence. most women are with it, some have boyfriends or just don't wanna be bothered.



with waitresses or women working sometimes i just ask "i don't wanna bother you but do you get a 5 minute break or anything?"

9/10 women are going to be so flattered you approach them, and kindly no less they'll be with it. you can be a fat or ugly guy and as long as your confident its all good.

if they say no, or I have a boyfriend then its cool. nice meeting you, peace.you miss100% of the shots you don't take.
 
Young Handsome said:
Real talk...

Bruh you gotta stay presentable everytime you go out/run errands/etc... you never know when you'll see some prospects for the roster

believe in yourself

repition = perfection (perfect your craft... everytime you approach a chick, be aware of things you can improve on... you do this and by the time you're older... you'll pull more chicks than ever)

have a strong mouthpiece


if you're fresh to death, you can't lose... even if she rejects you, you still win because you're fresh to death... just diddy bop like its nothin:pimp:
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^This. Don't over-think it, look presentable, and have some ice breaker that has nothing to do with her looks or something. Do that, go where the conversation leads you, (don't make it to long though) then say you have to be somewhere but can I get your number would love to continue this yada yada yada, and bam...that's how you get a Jam.

/Thread.
 
dont overdress, smell good, dont try to act like someone your not. SHAVE. 
 
Brandon3000 said:
sometimes i just say "hey i couldn't help but notice you, i know your (whatever they're doing - doing laundry, grocery shopping, working out, waiting tables etc) and i don't wanna bother you but i just wanted to introduce myself. I'm Brandon, whats your name?"

just talk to them. if they seem nice or at least somewhat smart then i just straight ask "would it be cool if we exchanged numbers"


that's it really. call before you text and your in there.

i swear i have no game, no pick up lines. i just talk to them with confidence. most women are with it, some have boyfriends or just don't wanna be bothered.



with waitresses or women working sometimes i just ask "i don't wanna bother you but do you get a 5 minute break or anything?"

9/10 women are going to be so flattered you approach them, and kindly no less they'll be with it. you can be a fat or ugly guy and as long as your confident its all good.

if they say no, or I have a boyfriend then its cool. nice meeting you, peace.you miss100% of the shots you don't take.
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pick up lines =/= game. just being able to confidently talk to a women w/o coming off as thirsty is part of having game. Like others have said just strike up a convo using something relevant.
 
ricky409 said:
1. Gotta have amnesia, like a NFL corner back
2. Understand that you WILL get rejected, no matter how crisp you are.
3. Understand that a good majority of the time, its not you.
4. Like homey said up top, always be presentable when you leave the house.
5. Like homey said up top, practice makes perfect. But don't go out heaving from half court. PERFECT practice makes perfect. When you spit, make sure you recap on what you did good and bad.
6. Go to different cities and try new things. Go to different bars and different clubs with different people at different times...
7. Understand that at these bars and clubs, chicks are defensive so don't take rejection our useless numbers personal.
8. In public, bee tactful about your approach. This raises your chances.
9. Rule number one
10. The worse that can happen is she says no.
This is all approach stuff.
You want to know after you get her, or before you get her?
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This/thread keep cookin
 
Like its been said before be confident and become one with rejection. The worst they can say is no and yea you might feel a little embarrassed but its part of the game.

If you do manage to engage them in conversation leave a little mystery to their imagination. Chop it up for a brief moment, then smoothly yet prematurely end the convo. Chicks get beasted on by 100s of dudes asking for their # but if you keep it chill they will want to know more about you and will become interested. It will be a change for them and women like things out of the norm when it comes to being hit on.

That approach shows them that you're different and they will think to themselves "well damn he didnt ask for my # or wasnt extra thirsty, he must not be too desperate"
Women seek attention and when you show them little they want more so will come looking for it.

For the guys that are into older women, approach them as if they are the same age as you. Never make them feel old or outdated. Let them know that they are just as attractive as that 20 something chick that's over in the corner with her girls. Be confident and assertive and know what you want from them because they are older and aren't trying to play games.

The straight forward approach always works, worst case they tell you that you're cute but no thanks.
These older women have heard it all and seen it all so they have one of two things on their mind, having the cobb webs beat off by a younger dude or just out to have a good time with friends. In 86% of these cases its the former
 
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Be funny or witty or confident. Any one of those should do.

If you're talking to a girl from class: "have you heard anything about our professor?" (look up your professor on ratemyprofessor.com) --> "Oh, I hear he/she is..."

"Have you got the book yet?"
 
"BE YOUR SELF"

HELLLLLLZZZZZ NOOOOO!!!

"Your Self" is starting a thread on niketalk.com about approaching women and sorting through the advice on "yambs". Don't be your self. Be that other dude who gets all the women. Drop some Paul Mooney bass in your voice, talk like Snoop and rehearse some Usher dance moves. Whatever you do, DON'T be your self.
 
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CorndogMcgee said:
"BE YOUR SELF"

HELLLLLLZZZZZ NOOOOO!!!

"Your Self" is starting a thread on niketalk.com about approaching women and sorting through the advice on "yambs". Don't be your self. Be that other dude who gets all the women. Drop some Paul Mooney bass in your voice, talk like Snoop and rehearse some Usher dance moves. Whatever you do, DON'T be your self.
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Very true.

Being "yourself" means "be confident"

Being "yourself" is what made you wonder why you weren't happy with women. 

You DO have to change some things about yourself to get ahead whether you realize it or not. That doesn't mean COPYING other people. There is a difference. 

Thats the hardest thing. Finding what works FOR YOU, not just copying what works for others. 
 
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