what are you insecure about and why?

Weekz said:
My weight. It's going down but I'm still self conscious about it.
My personality. I know I'm a friendly person and can be nice but to people that see me around but don't speak to me I look consistently angry. Also I'm not good at speaking to women in a flirty way. Normal conversation is fine but I can't seem to make that jump to making my intentions really known.
And sometimes I also think to myself what's the point of going after someone when you're a tub of lard and that really messes me up in live convo.
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know dat feel to much ._.

dat feel when u drop out of college cuz u couldnt handle speech class. smh
 
Everybody keep ya head up ....change won't come right away so make small goals that are obtainable and make them part of a bigger goal....
 
The one thing I'm insecure about is my weight I'm 5'9 5'10 172 lbs sometimes I think I'm one cheeseburger away from looking like Professor Klump from the Nutty Professor or something.
 
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DSquare said:
The one thing I'm insecure about is my weight I'm 5'9 5'10 172 lbs sometimes I think I'm one cheeseburger away from looking like Professor Klump from the Nutty Professor or something.
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my dude, ur good weight for your height, im 5'10" 180lbs and i dont feel fat at all
 
RobinVanDamn said:
i have problems putting on fat but when i start working out i make gains pretty quickly.. Always wondered what body type that put me in.. Meso-Ecto hybrid or just plain ol' n***a genetics?
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its called "delusional teenager syndrome", and it looks like you're affected.
 
i feel like using to much sarcasm when i talk.,,

even the people who used to know that im just kiddin, think im being serious when i do it.

ive got to do something bout this.
 
My face, growing up in DC was ROUGH, girls callin me ugly all the time. Now every girl I meet tells me how attractive and goodlooking I am, and I just think they be lying. Im starting to come into my own though...
 
My sense of humor. I make jokes all of the time and I'm pretty good at making people laugh but if someone tells me that I'm not funny or something like that, I start to get really self conscious.

I also feel socially awkward and I always feel like people are talking about me behind my back so I'm constantly being self critical. The logical part of my brain knows that I'm not even a blip on most peoples radar but I can't help feeling that every little mis-step I make is being over analyzed by the public.
 
My wrinkled forehead, man boobs, and the fact that I can't grow any facial hair. But hey, it could be worse.
 
BigTy23 said:
My face, growing up in DC was ROUGH, girls callin me ugly all the time. Now every girl I meet tells me how attractive and goodlooking I am, and I just think they be lying. Im starting to come into my own though...
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^ this, i ran into this chick i used to go to school wiht way back in the day and she was like "hey, your so handsome now" i immediately thought "so ur pretty much just sayin i used to be ugly, thanks" :smh:
 
-My weight... used to be 30lbs lighter, dat dere dreamer bulk.

Now I'd be focused for about 2-3 days then relapse. :smh:

Shh is like battling an addiction.

-Also my voice. When I hear myself recorded I cringe.
 
I got a minor case of pectoral excavatum, which is why I've been hitting the gym for about 8 months now. It became a lifestyle for me now lol. It's less noticeable because of the muscle growth. I don't give a **** about walking shirtless anymore lol
 
DeLaSole47 said:
I got a minor case of pectoral excavatum, which is why I've been hitting the gym for about 8 months now. It became a lifestyle for me now lol. It's less noticeable because of the muscle growth. I don't give a **** about walking shirtless anymore lol
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I have this and just flaunt it :smokin:smokinhaha...some people I know who have it where shirts swimming.
 
3miyasaki3 said:
I have this and just flaunt it
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:smokinhaha...some people I know who have it where shirts swimming.
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Dope haha. And nahh **** that lol. I can't wear shirts when swimming, too awkward lol. Just hit the gym and it'll be less noticeable 
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My stomach. I'm in fairly decent shape except that part so chicks like to feel. I sorta tense up when they rub it cuz i feel uncomfy. Damn beer. But that's easily fixable.
 
I wouldn't say I'm insecure about it completely since I've been rocking it with no shame for over 2 months like/cuz I don't give a **** but my beard. I guess I'd say I'm more disappointed. When I first started getting facial hair in my teenage years it was growing like crazy and took a lot of maintenance and at the time I couldn't grow a mustache for **** or have the full connected mustache to beard to form a goatee but at least then it was consistently growing.

Now I don't know if I have to get back in insane shape, lose weight or gain weight or radically change everything I eat to fix this limited in length patchy beard that always looks like I'm in that in between transition of growing a full sideburns to beard to mustache look so it's all bummy looking. I basically gave up on it again yesterday and shaved. I can be on some no shave forever steez and I'd never get that Castaway look. Them vitamins that allegedly help hair growth don't work for me either. When I think about it I've noticed overall my hair doesn't grow much past a certain point either since I was capable of sporting an afro when I was younger and had braids and could've turned that in to locks (not saying I'm balding but my hair growth has seemed to have stagnated) but I'm really more focused on the lack of epic beard :smh:
 
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My height. I'm 5'7 most women want a tall guy. They don't tend to take you seriously at this height
 
How my voice sounds when reading out loud in class. I sound like a monotone robot.
Wang size. The small size makes me feel inferior compared to others a girl has been with.
Weight. Up until I turned 18 I was always called anorexic and now I'm constantly bothered by people telling me I need to loose weight.
 
Joined a dance competition group for the hell of it... I have no dancing experience and i look so stiff out there

My farmers tan
 
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