Am I in the wrong? Upset g/fs family on Christmas....

OP home right now fapping with his own tears as lub while his gf is interviewing new candidates to destroy her box like Cameron Diaz.
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 well damn
 
Look at the results of his actions....he's on NT, no girl, and her fam hates him.

All he had to do was play it cool but he "called her out" which is actually a female trait.  I don't care if my girls parent's are in the KKK.  I'm playing it cool off the firs


very true
I actually agree with this. My girl filipino and i know they dont like me. They prefer a white dude or filipino dude. Instead they got a black dude thats been dating their daughter for 5 years and i know it hurts their souls. So i take pleasure in the fact that everytime we visit them for the holidays im deep in her guts right acroos the hall. Like last night i had her bed that she had when she stayed with her parents bumping hella hard against that wall. Hahahaha she couldnt even hold in her moans I know they was heated
 
So I've been with this girl for only a little over 3 months. Her mom kept making a huge deal about me coming over there and getting to know me. So I told my g/f I would leave my family Christmas early to go to hers to make her mom happy. Well I showed up, and for 2 hours while I was there, her mom was not in the room, no where to be found. My g/f said something to her, and she just brushed it off. We had plans to go see Django Unchained later, so I told her we had to get going, and her mom then comes in the room after I had been there for 2 hours and tells me to see the movie tomorrow, I'm like well I work tomorrow. She kept saying well just wait...
So I did what I probably shouldn't and said I left my family Christmas early to come spend time with yours and you are asking me to stay when you have been no where to be found the entire time I've been here.... needless to say it didn't end well...
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PS Even my girl says her mom is crazy.

1. way to stick up for yourself
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You are not in the wrong
2. uhm, you may want to think about your gf/s relationship with her mother as a potential factor into ya'lls relationship.... like, if you see yourself getting serious and being with this chick then ya'll need to have a sit down about her mother and how involved much time you guys will spend with her. Your gf saying she's crazy is one thing, but if she is enabling the craziness then that's a whole other ball game
This is why TAY is terrible. 
 
are you kidding me do you know how good django is?! I hope you saw it cause that **** was :smokin

Truth be told you should've just apologized respectfully and told her you can't do it. There is a way and a tone to go about it, and I can tell you were confrontational and aggressive.

When my mom gets pissed at me she is very illogical so i break things down into very calm, simple math.

And seriously you could have also made an effort to talk to the mom during the stay, what we have it seems are two childish individuals and neither are social enough to reach out, she only wanted your presence when she knew you were leaving.

A better approach imo

"Hey look im very sorry but I have to head out in the next hour. I left family's christmas a little early to spend a few hours with___ and you guys but the show is starting and we've been planning to see this all week. Hopefully we can catch up some other time"

^ The key there is you throw in leaving your family to spend time with them as a small side note and not as a point of disrespect. SAuch as "I LEFT MY FAMILY JUST TO BE HERE AND YOU DIDN'T EVEN SEE ME"
 
you dont meet moms till after a year or 2...

what the hell are yall thinking...so eager to have a girl that you leave your own fam 
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this all could've been avoided if you had been a man and said that its x-mas and that you want to be with your fam..

if she doesnt like it then she aint for you...3 months?? this chick is going to be crazy like her mom if she isnt already...

step ya game up.

all you dudes being pulled around like little puppies so they can show you off to their parents need to grow a pair and put the damn pants on..
 
wow theres a lot of people I want to quote right now for their truthfullness.

I feel that powerballin as others saying that you should not disrespect someone in their home when no one wronged you physically. You did stand your ground OP but the approach was a bit off as well as the reason. Spending 2 hrs at someones home when they invitied you was the right thing, them not showing their presence was very rude.

I also feel unsuited when "she" said 3 months was too early....totally agree.

too bad that your girl said don't contact her again. Don't worry about it, it sounded like that family was a couple screws loose.

Don't respond, don't send any texts just leave it as it is....TRUST!....your def gonna want to respond and if you do keep it very very simple....5 words max....something to the extent of **** YOU YOU DYCK *****.

Keep it moving.
 
you dont meet moms till after a year or 2...

what the hell are yall thinking...so eager to have a girl that you leave your own fam 
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this all could've been avoided if you had been a man and said that its x-mas and that you want to be with your fam..

if she doesnt like it then she aint for you...3 months?? this chick is going to be crazy like her mom if she isnt already...

step ya game up.

all you dudes being pulled around like little puppies so they can show you off to their parents need to grow a pair and put the damn pants on..
thats probably the only thing u did wrong. family comes first.......male or female.....

and GRIMLOCK....this is not the thread
 
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guarantee as soon as you left, her mother convinced her to dump you

moms smokin in the back with bully boyfriend
family seemingly unaware that you are a guest and should be treated accordingly & with respect
that it is not they're turf for you to prove yourself...

trash man, sorry but they sound like trash man
who cares
 
#1 Problem I see with this is that you guys have only been together 3 months and you guys are already spending Holidays with each others fam. I dont meet or introduce fam until atleast after a year. Think about it 3 months is not even a full college semester. You guys are already spending Holidays with the fam. Way to fast IMO.
 
Your girl (or former) girl is Puerto Rican isn't she? You not ready for that Latin culture.
Addition by subtraction my good man.

lol where are people getting their info from?

Her mom is syrian and her dad is Jewish, but she doesn't speak to her dad... lets just say she has serious daddy issues... was another red flag....
 
#1 Problem I see with this is that you guys have only been together 3 months and you guys are already spending Holidays with each others fam. I dont meet or introduce fam until atleast after a year. Think about it 3 months is not even a full college semester. You guys are already spending Holidays with the fam. Way to fast IMO.

nah
if you meet a girl in the fall & she talks a lot about you to her family - it's fairly common for them to want to bring you around during christmas

i wouldn't say that's a mistake in itself
 
daddy issues is a major red flag....

I remember my ex had a practically non existent father and at 22 years of age she would constantly ask me to tell her a story on the phone before she went to bed....after 2-3 times I was like "**** this....girl you need to grow up"

Tellin straight fables, fambs....FABLES!
 
dude that said 2 years is a little bit off. Even if youve been dating her for 6-7 months, some holiday or occasion mustve come up that you may want to bring her to ex. 4th of July or your birthday celebration etc
 
nah
if you meet a girl in the fall & she talks a lot about you to her family - it's fairly common for them to want to bring you around during christmas
i wouldn't say that's a mistake in itself

Thats what she is supposed to do if she likes you. Talk you up the fam before they actually meet. I guess its the younger generation that wants to put everything on the fast track. Take your time. Somethings need to be saved to show that the relationship is progressing in the right direction.
 
Is this really how ya'll think?  Ya'll really think you can meet a parent for the first time and they are supposed to treat you like a direct equal? And if they don't then you "call them out"?

Good luck having any relationship.  Got rent the Fockers and take some notes.
 
from everything you posted OP it sounds you dodged a bullet and you should know not to ever do this again so soon even if a relationship is going well

it sounds like that family has issues so just leave it alone youre better off
 
You know what, you guys are right.

When we first met, like a week into it, I had to pick her up from a family function because she doesn't have a car. I had only known her a week and didn't get out of the car and meet all of the family. Her aunt proceeded to send her a facebook message about how embarassing it was that I did that and how she needs to be focusing on her life and not messing with anyone :smh:

Her family has ALWAYS been an issue.
 
You know what, you guys are right.

When we first met, like a week into it, I had to pick her up from a family function because she doesn't have a car. I had only known her a week and didn't get out of the car and meet all of the family. Her aunt proceeded to send her a facebook message about how embarassing it was that I did that and how she needs to be focusing on her life and not messing with anyone
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Her family has ALWAYS been an issue.
Sounds like your ego is the problem.  I really don't care how my chicks family feel about me because I make her feel good and have confidence in all the decisions I make.  You sound like a child trying to go Tit for Tat.  Just do you and after a while the fam will get used to how you move.  But you ruined that off the break by showing your *****
 
Is this really how ya'll think?  Ya'll really think you can meet a parent for the first time and they are supposed to treat you like a direct equal? And if they don't then you "call them out"?

Good luck having any relationship.  Got rent the Fockers and take some notes.
Thats how us men think, not sure about you berrypoppins.
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I don't agree with that Power Reppin. While class is not something that can be bought, making an impression on people who use facebook to send stupid comments about you and nitpick about every friggin move you make as if their the gold standard does not really need to be applied....even at a 1 week mark.

If this family was behind this girl, and display great family characteristics then instead of putting focus on what's wrong with someone they themselves would make an effort to get to know OP instead of sideways talk.

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