at many comments in this thread. I only got to page 4 and just..... A lot of people view this as black and white. There are many different emotional aspects that go along with it. OP came in here looking for help and support and all he got was a bunch of comments of about how much of a liar his gf is. We don't know either way what it is, we're behind a screen. Is it that hard to offer a few kind words? . Anyway, OP I hope you and your GF are ok going through this situation, this is really tough.
Did you bother reading the thread my dude?
It's not about us giving OP a hard time, because i'm sure most of us are not. But it's the red flags that gives us a suspicion of what really happened.
I rather someone be blunt and tell me how it is instead of sugar coating and telling everything will be okay.