Thoughts on this article about rape?

I'm very sensitive to pain and one thing I can say is that I don't like it. And wouldn't this make all men sadist? Or do men fulfill these roles because women are masochist? Or is it a catch 22 from both sides? Kind of hard to pin point. 
You like to get spanked a little during sex? What about a little hair pulling? (not harassing just aiming at perspective)

even getting started during sex is a little rough... grab you by the waist, pull you close kinda hard. Pin you against a wall, pin you against the bed frame.

Rape is rape tho.... if you gotta knock someone out in order to get it in then there is the problem. Im guessing its ok to be a little rough as long as the girl has a way to escape from the situation. 

Cause Im sure other dudes on here have experienced the "no, no, no" while the panties coming off. Its a slippery slope
 
The survey and the persons pro rape views is why women don't report it. 
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I've heard stories that women have had their most intense orgasms from being raped due to the fact their adrenaline was pumping so hard.  Now you know why victims are so messed up afterwards. 

I live in Las Vegas and damn near every girl I know that is a stripper, prostitute, or girl who is doing porn was molested and raped before they got into the sex business.   The only girls that I encountered who were doing these things and wasn't abused was drug addicts.  The rest all had been abused before. 

Why do you think Todd Bridges became a crack head?  After he was molested by a man growing up he didn't know if he was gay or not because he would orgasm from the attacks.  Tyler Perry went through the same thing.  Why do you think rape is one of his main subjects in his movies?   He's trying to educate people about it and let victims know it's not their fault and that if your sexual organs are touched enough your gonna orgasm no matter what.  

Also a little off topic but  you have guys who say they are straight yet they do gay porn and orgasm but they say they aren't attracted to men.  Could be another example of  touching someones sexual organs enough and they will eventually have an orgasm. 
 
You like to get spanked a little during sex? What about a little hair pulling? (not harassing just aiming at perspective)

even getting started during sex is a little rough... grab you by the waist, pull you close kinda hard. Pin you against a wall, pin you against the bed frame.

Rape is rape tho.... if you gotta knock someone out in order to get it in then there is the problem. Im guessing its ok to be a little rough as long as the girl has a way to escape from the situation. 

Cause Im sure other dudes on here have experienced the "no, no, no" while the panties coming off. Its a slippery slope
I really don't see any of that as masochism tho, that's more submissive. I was thinking more along the lines of being punched, kicked, slapped, choked, etc. as masochism. But if those things are considered that then yeah I guess all women are somewhat masochist. 
 
The survey and the persons pro rape views is why women don't report it. 
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I've heard stories that women have had their most intense orgasms from being raped due to the fact their adrenaline was pumping so hard.  Now you know why victims are so messed up afterwards. 

I live in Las Vegas and damn near every girl I know that is a stripper, prostitute, or girl who is doing porn was molested and raped before they got into the sex business.   The only girls that I encountered who were doing these things and wasn't abused was drug addicts.  The rest all had been abused before. 

Why do you think Todd Bridges became a crack head?  After he was molested by a man growing up he didn't know if he was gay or not because he would orgasm from the attacks.  Tyler Perry went through the same thing.  Why do you think rape is one of his main subjects in his movies?   He's trying to educate people about it and let victims know it's not their fault and that if your sexual organs are touched enough your gonna orgasm no matter what.  

Also a little off topic but  you have guys who say they are straight yet they do gay porn and orgasm but they say they aren't attracted to men.  Could be another example of  touching someones sexual organs enough and they will eventually have an orgasm. 
I've heard about this and i've never understood it.

Can some one explain this to me?

How is this possible if they're scared ?
 
The survey and the persons pro rape views is why women don't report it.  :smh: I've heard stories that women have had their most intense orgasms from being raped due to the fact their adrenaline was pumping so hard.  Now you know why victims are so messed up afterwards. 



I live in Las Vegas and damn near every girl I know that is a stripper, prostitute, or girl who is doing porn was molested and raped before they got into the sex business.   The only girls that I encountered who were doing these things and wasn't abused was drug addicts.  The rest all had been abused before. 


Why do you think Todd Bridges became a crack head?  After he was molested by a man growing up he didn't know if he was gay or not because he would orgasm from the attacks.  Tyler Perry went through the same thing.  Why do you think rape is one of his main subjects in his movies?   He's trying to educate people about it and let victims know it's not their fault and that if your sexual organs are touched enough your gonna orgasm no matter what.  


Also a little off topic but  you have guys who say they are straight yet they do gay porn and orgasm but they say they aren't attracted to men.  Could be another example of  touching someones sexual organs enough and they will eventually have an orgasm. 

I've heard about this and i've never understood it.
Can some one explain this to me?

How is this possible if they're scared ?

Organs gonna organ.

While the orgasm is part mental, fear is going to stop much. You wasnt a little scared your first time?
 
The 2nd part of the article is almost pro rape

But I think it breaks down to sex stimulation feels good in general

Like most of us are straight but I'd bet willing to bet if you got raped anally/orally by another man, some part of you would like it.

Thats where the confusion comes in and thats part of the reason why rape is so horrible

EWWW **** no speak for yourself my man

if you think there is a part of you that would enjoy a **** in the butt you just might be gay
 
I've heard about this and i've never understood it.
Can some one explain this to me?

How is this possible if they're scared ?

From what I've come to understand, there is an easy way to relate to it.

Think of people who LOVE rollercoasters. Many people get a high from rollercoasters because they have a sense of danger. When people ride rollercoasters, they get a thrill from surviving such a dangerous experience. We're able to enjoy this experience because the danger isn't real (hopefully), but we still get excited and get a thrill because we think some measure of it is real. This is the same sort of the thrill women get when they have rough sex. The danger itself (being raped) is only simulated, it's not real, so they can enjoy the thrill of the experience because they know they are safe, and they trust that person.

Now think about riding a rollercoaster without the safety belt, or a rollercoaster that you KNOW hasn't passed safety standards. IF you survive that ride, that ride will probably have been one of the most emotionally hysterical experiences of your life. You would probably be hysterical, crying, and you would almost certainly never want to experience that again. You're frightened nearly to death, but in terms of your emotional energy scale, you're off the charts. If you look at it this way, it's not really a surprise that women may have such strong orgasms in the face of such danger and with that much fear, because of the very REAL thrill involved. The danger is the most real with rape, which means emotionally they are at their highest point (which CAN cause an orgasm) even though they really don't want the experience, and they wouldn't want to do it with such real fear again. I think this also causes so much of the confusion afterwards.
 
The 2nd part of the article is almost pro rape

But I think it breaks down to sex stimulation feels good in general

Like most of us are straight but I'd bet willing to bet if you got raped anally/orally by another man, some part of you would like it.

Thats where the confusion comes in and thats part of the reason why rape is so horrible

EWWW **** no speak for yourself my man

if you think there is a part of you that would enjoy a **** in the butt you just might be gay


I forgot the orgasm part....basically if you orgasmed from it, some part of you would enjoy it
 
From what I've come to understand, there is an easy way to relate to it.

Think of people who LOVE rollercoasters. Many people get a high from rollercoasters because they have a sense of danger. When people ride rollercoasters, they get a thrill from surviving such a dangerous experience. We're able to enjoy this experience because the danger isn't real (hopefully), but we still get excited and get a thrill because we think some measure of it is real. This is the same sort of the thrill women get when they have rough sex. The danger itself (being raped) is only simulated, it's not real, so they can enjoy the thrill of the experience because they know they are safe, and they trust that person.

Now think about riding a rollercoaster without the safety belt, or a rollercoaster that you KNOW hasn't passed safety standards. IF you survive that ride, that ride will probably have been one of the most emotionally hysterical experiences of your life. You would probably be hysterical, crying, and you would almost certainly never want to experience that again. You're frightened nearly to death, but in terms of your emotional energy scale, you're off the charts. If you look at it this way, it's not really a surprise that women may have such strong orgasms in the face of such danger and with that much fear, because of the very REAL thrill involved. The danger is the most real with rape, which means emotionally they are at their highest point (which CAN cause an orgasm) even though they really don't want the experience, and they wouldn't want to do it with such real fear again. I think this also causes so much of the confusion afterwards.
Makes sense.
 
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