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@ Ninja.
@ Ninja.
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Main point unless she beyonce stay away.
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Why not settle down with someone in their late 20s/early 30s and have his own children?
If he had countless chicks on deck what was the predicament?
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the only exception to no is if you have kids. Its too many chicks out here, ive dealt with a few these past three years, id take a fake independent over these broads and thats low
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so what you're saying is you rather deal with a chick who's got a higher probability to trap you (especially when they already have a kid
they keeping EVERY pregnancy after that) then a broad thats gonna
take it out at da snap of your fingers?
you know tyrone clappin them cheeks da min he picks up his kid while you out there coppin huggies and warming da formula for your fake JR acting like a beta
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pics? 
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So do any single men with kids in here feel like they are less worthy of being taken seriously by a woman because they have kids?
In reference to dealing with a woman with kids... try to approach every situation individually. I'm not saying be naive, but don't make decisions based on statistics and generalizations either. You never know... your sole mate could be a woman who already has a kid. Don't automatically prevent yourself from having the opportunity to find out by not even considering talking to a woman with kids.
*** Alpha male speaking btw***
In reference to dealing with a woman with kids... try to approach every situation individually. I'm not saying be naive, but don't make decisions based on statistics and generalizations either. You never know... your sole mate could be a woman who already has a kid. Don't automatically prevent yourself from having the opportunity to find out by not even considering talking to a woman with kids.
*** Alpha male speaking btw***
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For the record, I have a kid and I wouldn't be shocked to see my future romantic possibilities drop significantly if me and mine separate based purely on that fact. I am, in fact, somewhat less datable to the wider pool of females because I do carry what some might see as baggage in the form of a 1-year-old. The number of people who want to sign up for that situation is much lower than the total number of dating prospects.
All other things being equal, if an unattached woman is choosing between me and a childless man, I'm gonna lose that contest most of the time. He ain't that cute.
It works both ways, but it still works. I realize this, so I'm going to try my damnedest to keep my little family together.
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well im only 20 but to your question i actually believe the opposite, most girls i know from high school became very clinging and needed.
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Nah bruh. It's definitely a double standard.
My older brother has a son and if anything it gets him MORE yambs.
Chicks love a dude thats already a good father, but if you're a male with no kids and she has kid(s), that **** is no bueno.
Like ninja said, when Tyrone comes to pick up jr best believe he's infiltrating those cheeks.
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ninja shut this **** down
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I get more yambs thanks to my baby. If we out females instantly walk up and break the ice. Then they start askin about my status n ****, it's crazy the double standards we have.
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sheesh so being a mom means im never gonna find a guy to date me thanks NT you sure know how to make a girl feel good lol but no all seriousness i think it depends on the guy and also the girl. me personally my daughter has a father and she does not need another and i would never expect my partner to be a father to her but he will have to be around her eventually if we are dating as she is a part of me also i would never introduce my kid to every guy i date she will meet someone if it gets to be serious dating
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I have a kid and still get box thrown at me...women don't treat men the same way men treat women in that situation....most women are very open minded when it comes to that....now you might come across some that it may turn off but most the time they're good looking enough to make you say "damn"
I'm speaking for having one kid....now when it comes to multiple idk
Edit: as ****** up as it sounds I only entertain women with no kids even though I have one 
I'm speaking for having one kid....now when it comes to multiple idk
Edit: as ****** up as it sounds I only entertain women with no kids even though I have one
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I mean, I'm not saying single fathers don't get companionship offers, I'm saying when you're talking about serious dating, how many (if any) kids you have is just as important a factor as personality, your face or how much you make. It's something that MUST come up at some point, and a lot of people would rather avoid the situation entirely.
Simply put, any permanent lifestyle change (moving, getting a visible tat, switching careers) is going to alter your dating prospects in some way, and that especially includes kids.
Simply put, any permanent lifestyle change (moving, getting a visible tat, switching careers) is going to alter your dating prospects in some way, and that especially includes kids.
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im honest if we are having a conversation and it comes up they know i have nothing to hide she is a part of me but thats a far as it goes no one ever meets her i keep my sex/relationship separate from the rest of my life esp if its nothing serious
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Refer to my post #44. Your cuz is on top of his game and played it out well. IMO. I wish my father or any older male family member laced me with game. I learn purely on trail and error and now the internet.
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I don't think a guy with one kid will have trouble being in a serious relationship unless he wasn't about ****...but if he has things going for him, he's still considered desirable to a woman...,end of the day a woman just wants security
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ex lil wayne.
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Celebrity = worst example.
If you're attractive enough or the female is feeling you enough can get pass with a lot. Fame/Fortune you can get away anything
If you're attractive enough or the female is feeling you enough can get pass with a lot. Fame/Fortune you can get away anything
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Straight up, you insecurity is showing. If you was the ***** you talking like, that wouldn't be a problem.so what you're saying is you rather deal with a chick who's got a higher probability to trap you (especially when they already have a kid
they keeping EVERY pregnancy after that) then a broad thats gonna
take it out at da snap of your fingers?what kinda L masquerading as a W you think you pullin b?
you know tyrone clappin them cheeks da min he picks up his kid while you out there coppin huggies and warming da formula for your fake JR acting like a beta
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Why dd you guys speak as if people have all the options in the world. His uncle could be an ugly ***** who has to take what he can get. Or he could have a low paying job. Sometimes young cute chick will **** with you but they want to marry a young dude eventually
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gllahone84
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Dude used lil wayne as an example...
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I'd rather deal with a chick with a kid than a jumpoff who gets abortions on the regular (I would say the chick getting abortions on the regular is more likely to be sexually active than the moms). I may be wrong, but that's how I see it. Plus I don't buy into aborting the fetus in most cases. So I respect a woman who handles that ish like a G!so what you're saying is you rather deal with a chick who's got a higher probability to trap you (especially when they already have a kid
they keeping EVERY pregnancy after that) then a broad thats gonna
take it out at da snap of your fingers?what kinda L masquerading as a W you think you pullin b?
you know tyrone clappin them cheeks da min he picks up his kid while you out there coppin huggies and warming da formula for your fake JR acting like a beta
i thought your moms was single, so is tyrone consistently clappin them cheeks when you leave the box? your logic does not compute!
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im just gonna save this now before it goes past 20 plus, ninja has won this thread hands down. chicks with kids are problems
