You put in as much time as you want to in order to smash, its chicks out here giving up the draws just off online messages or designer belts..
Depends on how much time and more importantly effort we're talking about champ. A chick that has a kid should get minimal time and effort. Truth be told it shouldn't be that hard from the get go for alot of reasons. Even if a dude shes and meets an attractive female, soon as he finds out or is told she has a kid or even several kids, that guy in the back of his mind should tell himself not to get serious with said female and just play it cool and have fun. If that female is not down with the program then charge her to the game and keep it moving.
i'm not even going to try make sense of what you wrote because I know you just made it more complicated than it should be.you do have the option of neither.....i mean aint like there is a shortage of woman and somehow men heavily outnumber women.....Why isnt that even a option? Lol 50 abortions.. dude you basically make it seem like a dude gotta choose between sherri sheppard and octomom.... To which i say neither dog. But if i had to choose id still take meeting someone getting to know someone us growing together getting a home together starting a life together aka kids etc...as oppose to working hard making a life/home family for another grown person and someone elses kids.you realize how complicated you're making this? Lets just assume I know she hasn't had abortions (i know her doctor). 50 abortions by 22 or 7 kids by 22...i'll let you pick em.
plus your numbers where wrong (totals, and percentages)
I cant say id prefer to spend my life going thru school, striving/struggling working hard etc...just to make a way/life easier for a woman and somebody elses kids.. Id prefer doing all that, going through all that and sharing the burden the struggle etc...with my wife and sharing our success with our kids.
cant expect to be 1st priority in her life, and i wouldnt ask to be. just not fair to her situation.
which was expected cause she's the type to only date athletes and millionaires. Anyhow how are some of ya all going to say NAH to a gem like that even though she got a kid?
at nt is unrealistic because they refuse to raise some chicks kid. Right.
well based on description she seems superfiscal, shallow, craves attention, and place her morals and values into materlistic things... So your real question is why would a dude turn down a certified gold digger because she has a kid... same way a dude will turn down a gold digger with no kids...Entice? I know an investment banker, blond blue eye, big fake boobs, great body, early 30's, spoiled and rich, has her own crib and would be perfect in every which way but has a 4 year old from an abusive ex-husband. She reminds me of Tiger's Ex Elin Nordegren. She has no problem getting dates or schmucks hitting on her on a daily. I am just saying.. I mean I tried to holla but she put in the friendzonewhich was expected cause she's the type to only date athletes and millionaires. Anyhow how are some of ya all going to say NAH to a gem like that even though she got a kid?
but you see this is an anomaly she's one that got wifed up,I'm not saying every single mom is bottom of the barrel status just most are. Some dudes look for single moms because they know they're easy to get with. Why would a single guy want to put himself in that situation unless they were desperate or was truly in love ? also going back to your explanation on her would dude be with her if he found out she was third in line ? no dudes wants another mans seconds and with a kid you guaranteed your getting left overs.Dude can date a jump and maybe wife if he's dull enough because their is no proof unless she burning or gets put on hgf.com but with a kid it' like a mark ( and more power to those that do just explaining how i see it). Now i have no problems with a baby daddy getting with a single mom since there situation works but for single dudes and even single women i wouldnt reccomend it.
no doubt i say atleast 7 guys by 20-21 and i meant third in line like her being the third chick in his rotation if the other 2 didnt act right. if im dating a chick with serious intentions and find out she was or is another dudes rotation piece im out i couldnt just be that dude i expect more from my s/o because at the the end of the day you represent me and thats all you have in this world name and reputation.
I thought OP was talking about getting into a committed, exclusive relationship with these women?
And she deserves it right?
3 mens kidsAnd she deserves it right?
Her having 5 kids shouldn't matter. God will find a man for her that isn't insecure about raising another man's kid like most of you NTers
