35+, never married man... society's perception...

shoefreakgame is my new project. I'm gonna be her "Hitch". 
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Find a man, talk to him, learn how to cool, play with his marbles every now and then, don't be ugly, have a good personality.....and most importantly don't openly complain about how you can't get married.
 
OP dude is on the down low either full blown gay or bisexual that is why he make that excuse.

And to others nothing wrong with marriage. I'm married one kid. I go when I please come back when please.go on vacations by myself.

I'm married and I still smash new yams time to time. All married men do 100% sirr
 
I dont remember complaining about I how I cant get married.
I said I wont get married because of children, and personal reasons
Im living my life my way and I am content with that.
If you knew my past post, you would know my "game" is far from my mind.

Thank you, but no thank you.
 
I dont remember complaining about I how I cant get married.
I said I wont get married because of children, and personal reasons
Im living my life my way and I am content with that.
If you knew my past post, you would know my "game" is far from my mind.

Thank you, but no thank you.
Why do you think everyone is calling you salty mi lady? If you had to take a wild guess.
 
I dont remember complaining about I how I cant get married.
I said I wont get married because of children, and personal reasons
Im living my life my way and I am content with that.
If you knew my past post, you would know my "game" is far from my mind.

Thank you, but no thank you.
You mean to say you got issues??







Go see a therapist.
 
Why do you think everyone is calling you salty mi lady? If you had to take a wild guess.

One person called me salty....

But in general maybe because they hate women.

You mean to say you got issues??


Go see a therapist.


Nope no personal issues, just dont want to bring a child into this world because of my personal views and dont want to tempt myself.
Sadly I feel some type of way about this earth.
 
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One person called me salty....

But in general maybe because they hate women.
Nope no personal issues, just dont want to bring a child into this world because of my personal views and dont want to tempt myself.
Sadly I feel some type of way about this earth.
That's the same as having issues.


Lol live your life though.
 
Noy wanting to get married too soon= hating women...

Criticizing women when they're clearly wrong instead of constant back patting society does = hating women

Being proud that as a man, you don't cave into what society wants, and will do it the way you feel = hating women...

Seems legit.

Brb... Hating women...
 
One person called me salty....

But in general maybe because they hate women.
Nope no personal issues, just dont want to bring a child into this world because of my personal views and dont want to tempt myself.
Sadly I feel some type of way about this earth.
one person? I looked back in the thread it seems like quite a few people think you're saltier than the dead sea. Stop caring about why men aren't marrying early and go out and meat some
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That's the perpetually single friend that takes massive L's that's always saying that too. Boggles my mind how they never see a problem with her advice.


Word the group of female friends who give advice on how to keep a man. I love women but they can be very irrational creatures.

I'm sayin tho :lol: But we can't just put it all on the females, the dudes be doin the same thing. The smart person would stop and ask "If u got all this sound advice, why don't u have a man/woman?" :lol:
 
one person? I looked back in the thread it seems like quite a few people think you're saltier than the dead sea. Stop caring about why men aren't marrying early and go out and meat some :wink:

Quote me where I said men should get married early, or where I was "worrying".

I tell everyone I know getting married before 30 sounds silly.
But I do not play the whole not married> married or married old>married young game some of you play.



Noy wanting to get married too soon= hating women...

Criticizing women when they're clearly wrong instead of constant back patting society does = hating women

Being proud that as a man, you don't cave into what society wants, and will do it the way you feel = hating women...

Seems legit.

Brb... Hating women...


Calling me a bitter black women and having at least twenty people thumbs you up when you make no sense, seems a little hating :lol:
 
Noy wanting to get married too soon= hating women...

Criticizing women when they're clearly wrong instead of constant back patting society does = hating women

Being proud that as a man, you don't cave into what society wants, and will do it the way you feel = hating women...

Seems legit.

Brb... Hating women...

seriously :lol:



as far as the thread topic, you gotta do what's right for you. Me personally, I def see myself getting married once I find the right woman.

However, so far, I've never been in love in my life.
 
My Uncle is a prominent figure in Indianapolis and he waited until 40+ to have kids and get married and he's been doing fine. His wide retired as a Principal, His daughter is an IU alum, he's a regular at Pacers/Colts/Hoosiers games and he used to get murdered by members in our family for not doing the family guy thing early. His reasons were he wanted to set a stable foundation etc and it paid off.

In my case I'm 30 and I'm single no kids, and I'm waiting too. I haven't met a female worth settling down with and I refuse to be one of friends who made a child/family out of lust and is now regretting it, fighting the baby Mama on the train/bus, relyin on their parents to help them raise their child. It puts a strain on all parties, and raising kids is a 24/7365 job. I'm too selfish :lol:
 
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I think its difficult to say what society says because our network does not comprise all of society.  I do not really know that many people over 40 but the ones I do have varying relationship statuses. I have family that isnt married and doesnt have kids. I have family that is just married and I have family that is married with kids. I do not feel any pressure at all to get married. And I feel none of my friends feel pressure to get married either. As far as my situation goes I am 26 living with my girlfriend so its serious. We will get married when Im like 31 because she want to get married before shes 30, that is the tentative plan. And I have to admit I am looking forward to it. Celebrating our relationship with friends and family sounds like a blast. But I cant see myself having kids until at least 35+ if at all. From my experience no one is truly ready for marriage or kids, It is something you just kind of have to do. 

From reading some of these post it does sound like a couple of you have a some what skeptical view of women. All my amigas are super funny talented and fun to hang with. All of them would be great companions. There are a ton of amazing women out there just step outside your comfort zone. And dont be afraid to let love it your heart. Living free and seeing the greatness in people is the best way to live.


I don't feel any pressure either, I think NT likes to take certain situations and blow them up. You meet one guy who tells you his business wants him married and you assume that is how it is with all in married men. In my experience I have spoken to two professional men who have told me there job loves that they are not married.
 
I think we all have to rember that a relationship full of sacrifices. Like I said in my situation my gf wants to get married before she is 30. I do not know where she got that number from it may be various sources or from societal pressures. But if it's that important to her to get married I want to do everthing in my power to make that happen. I want to go back to school sometime in the next few years dont know where but when I told her she told me she would follow me anywhere. Again sacrifice. You just have to decide what are you willing to sacrfice for the relationship. It is better to give then to receive.
 
 
I think we all have to rember that a relationship full of sacrifices. Like I said in my situation my gf wants to get married before she is 30. I do not know where she got that number from it may be various sources or from societal pressures. But if it's that important to her to get married I want to do everthing in my power to make that happen. I want to go back to school sometime in the next few years dont know where but when I told her she told me she would follow me anywhere. Again sacrifice. You just have to decide what are you willing to sacrfice for the relationship. It is better to give then to receive.
 
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