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Sometimes you don't have time for more than one... Sometimes it's just easier to have one too...
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Sometimes you don't have time for more than one... Sometimes it's just easier to have one too...
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nah..relationship means meeting fam, meeting friends, integrating lives n stuff
what we have is we smash each other exclusively aka no rubbers and I don't have to do the typical bf stuff.
Im not seeing where the L is
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This... And with the one I had... We definitely had a connection, and strong one... But we knew we weren't for each other... But that made it super easy, and she is still a good friend to this day...
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ok so knowing ur not for eachother, what happens when u see sumn bad and u wanna smash? u just dont bag chicks?
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I got nothing but love for y'all but this "new age" wishy-washy **** is going to come back and bite you in your *****..
You should never, ever, ever give this much power to one individual. Doesn't matter if you are single or married, if you are not ready for a relationship, let that be known off top and if they do catch feelings and you are not in the same place, the best thing to do is diddy bop and continue doing you. The longer you play this position of FWB, the greater risk of somebody getting hurt or catching feelings and you truly don't know what anybody is capable of when they are hurt. It's not about building a bench, let's keep it all the way 100, ***** is the lowest stock on earth right now. You can walk out the house right now and obtain it. **** is not as hard as some make it out to be. So like I have stressed before, build your empire, enjoy your youth, tell the truth(even if said person doesn't want to hear it), don't hurt anyone intentionally and let these females go on to find someone that can try to give them what they are looking for.
Like an OG told me:
"You can only hold on to a match for so long until you burn your finger"...
Peace..
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Man, don't overthink it. Don't be too thirsty. Shoot out a few wink emojies on their old pics. Like about 1 or 2. Not too many. Just enough to let them know you're interested.
I would recommend if you knew through mutual friends like a party they were going to be at, make sure you go...play it cool and holla at em. Worst that can happen is they give you no rap, and it's not like you have to see them in the hallways anymore...so move on.
Honestly, you came about 8 years to late. If these were the myspace days...you could shoot a message out and almost guarantee a good response.
I don't mess with the Instagram types too much. I've booked badder joints in person, who wouldn't even like or follow me on IG lol. I did catch a few off there though.
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Mugen with more truth alley opps.
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Also Max B ain't lying about the MySpace days, that was the golden era.
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Get a number for sport then.
Perhaps text her, make her remember you, keep it on back burner.
Live your life until the time comes to tap into that resource.
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I got nothing but love for y'all but this "new age" wishy-washy **** is going to come back and bite you in your *****..
You should never, ever, ever give this much power to one individual. Doesn't matter if you are single or married, if you are not ready for a relationship, let that be known off top and if they do catch feelings and you are not in the same place, the best thing to do is diddy bop and continue doing you. The longer you play this position of FWB, the greater risk of somebody getting hurt or catching feelings and you truly don't know what anybody is capable of when they are hurt. It's not about building a bench, let's keep it all the way 100, ***** is the lowest stock on earth right now. You can walk out the house right now and obtain it. **** is not as hard as some make it out to be. So like I have stressed before, build your empire, enjoy your youth, tell the truth(even if said person doesn't want to hear it), don't hurt anyone intentionally and let these females go on to find someone that can try to give them what they are looking for.
Like an OG told me:
"You can only hold on to a match for so long until you burn your finger"...
Peace..
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Being that I'm on vacation this week, I caught up with this thread. SO LET ME TALK MY ****(Meek Mill Voice)...
Everybody has their own definitions of what a relationship/ love story is, I get that because I do live in the grey area of life. But what I don't condone is this new ****. Maybe it's a generational thing but if we are just ******, that's all it is. I'm not spending time with you on the phone, I'm not trying to hear about your problems(quite frankly I could give two dambs), all I am trying to do is get up in that gushy from time to time and be on my way. This is where dudes get the game twisted and have chicks falling in love or setting up traps so they can squeeze you into a situation you told them you weren't ready for. This is were the power of NO comes in . There is no such thing as a main chick or side chick unless you are a pimp named Goldie( I advice everybody to watch The Mack). The true definition of single is just that, One, Uno, Ichi. You don't owe anybody an explanation, you don't have to keep tabs on people. I see nothing wrong with telling a woman the absolute truth from the jump. A woman of quality will appreciate the honesty and she will either be with it or flat out against it. No harm, no foul and no L's taken. But see this is where ****** get it twisted and try to be on that bench, pimp ****, not realizing you being set-up and pimped by a woman for that emotional weight. A woman with options is just like a man with options. They are not going to play games and will always shoot from the hip like a .45.
Life is too short for the nonsense.
Be about yours and keep it 100, if they are not down for the play, let them go and continue out here building for yourself..
Don't be a victim to the ***** , be a victor..
As you were...
Everybody has their own definitions of what a relationship/ love story is, I get that because I do live in the grey area of life. But what I don't condone is this new ****. Maybe it's a generational thing but if we are just ******, that's all it is. I'm not spending time with you on the phone, I'm not trying to hear about your problems(quite frankly I could give two dambs), all I am trying to do is get up in that gushy from time to time and be on my way. This is where dudes get the game twisted and have chicks falling in love or setting up traps so they can squeeze you into a situation you told them you weren't ready for. This is were the power of NO comes in . There is no such thing as a main chick or side chick unless you are a pimp named Goldie( I advice everybody to watch The Mack). The true definition of single is just that, One, Uno, Ichi. You don't owe anybody an explanation, you don't have to keep tabs on people. I see nothing wrong with telling a woman the absolute truth from the jump. A woman of quality will appreciate the honesty and she will either be with it or flat out against it. No harm, no foul and no L's taken. But see this is where ****** get it twisted and try to be on that bench, pimp ****, not realizing you being set-up and pimped by a woman for that emotional weight. A woman with options is just like a man with options. They are not going to play games and will always shoot from the hip like a .45.
Life is too short for the nonsense.
Be about yours and keep it 100, if they are not down for the play, let them go and continue out here building for yourself..
Don't be a victim to the ***** , be a victor..
As you were...
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Random..but last night I discovered the flexibility of my yamb....bruh.......
Mine eyes hath seen the glory
Mine eyes hath seen the glory
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Flexible women will have you thinking you've seen God because you probably did.
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Maaaaaaaaaaan.
Alright so, it was a friend that introduced me and another friend to these shorties, so yesterday they hit him up saying let's go blaze & swim for a while, so we pick em up, and everything is cool but when we get to the spot, me and my other friend KNEW what we'd be getting into but we still felt like it was pointless to be there, we wasn't tryna swim or anything lol so we were voicing our opinions to the friend that was basically wingmanning us & he took offense to it.
They come out in some swimsuits, looking heavenly & this guy goes, "I'll be back, I have to get my car." Basically causing us to leave and abort the mission. Man, they looked so bummed out & the minute I saw the shorty I wanted in her swimsuit, I knew I shouldn't have even said anything.
I didn't know this dude was gonna feel some type of way about a fleeting comment, man he was heated! He said that was the last time he brings females around us or kick it wit us.
I even tried to stop the bleeding by hitting up shorty but me & my other dude pieced together that the other friend obviously told them what was up because man.....she texts me back like "I only see you as a friend now, nothing more"
I can't win, guys. I'm officially washed. Lol
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Na you still got it after summer yambs is Fall semester yambs 
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She's flexing. Give her some space and then get back her again
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It's all fun and games till she has your phone playing a game and "Dominos pizza " texts you
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You're exclusive with one girl and you can't mess with other yambs.This is a relationship broski. She may be cool with giving you the yambs regularly without any work but it's gonna transition into spending time with her, dates, and listening to her problems. She suckered you with the "exclusive" title.
If this girl was cool with JUST sex then she wouldn't try to tie you down.
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^ Lol
I don't change chicks names in my phone. If you play search thru my phone like you looking at pics. That's at your own risk.
I don't change chicks names in my phone. If you play search thru my phone like you looking at pics. That's at your own risk.
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This is stupid man, complaining *** dudes when there's women to socialize with.
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Supposing that is the case...You're exclusive with one girl and you can't mess with other yambs.
This is a relationship broski. She may be cool with giving you the yambs regularly without any work but it's gonna transition into spending time with her, dates, and listening to her problems. She suckered you with the "exclusive" title.
If this girl was cool with JUST sex then she wouldn't try to tie you down.
I do like her so it's not really a problem.
As OG's in this thread have said time and time again..yambs are always there.
If we ever break up just get right back to farming for yambs. No biggie.
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Bro, we knew we ****** up immediately lmao, it is what it is. Homie shouldn't have been mad enough to blow up the whole game plan though, we shut up as soon as we saw the shorties!
But it's cool, me and my homie just bounced back with 2 others. Hope I don't f this up! Lol
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