Linda, Linda... Listen To Me

Damn sounds like some of ya'll had rough upbringings. getting beat just for that? take it easy..
 
i called my mom by her first name when i was kid one time...got punished with the quickness...

...had to go to timeout AND went to bed 30 mins early...
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yikes. how many of you grumpy buzz killingtons actually have kids? talmbout slaps :smh:
 
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funny vid.

but if it was my kid, i would've whoop his ***.

ain't no arguing like that.

this kid will be a problem growing up.
Good to know that you have the ability to accurately forecast a person's future based off of a two and a half minute video of them from an age where they probably need help wiping their own ***.

Please, Miss Cleo.  Teach us your secrets.
 
funny vid.


but if it was my kid, i would've whoop his ***.


ain't no arguing like that.


this kid will be a problem growing up.
Good to know that you have the ability to accurately forecast a person's future based off of a two and a half minute video of them from an age where they probably need help wiping their own ***.

Please, Miss Cleo.  Teach us your secrets.

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I rather my kid take this approach than hitting and throwing tantrums. Dude was calm and collected, plead his case very eloquently.
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Nothing about this kid says he will grow up to be a criminal, he actually seems really smart and mild mannered.
Nah, there is something called knowing your place and boundaries. The way I see it, if he thinks he can call his mother by her first name and tell her to listen to him and his "reasoning" at five years old, by the time he's 15, he's gonna start bucking up and telling her to kiss his ***. She let him be too grown too soon. Kids have to know their place.
 
 
I rather my kid take this approach than hitting and throwing tantrums. Dude was calm and collected, plead his case very eloquently. :lol:

Nothing about this kid says he will grow up to be a criminal, he actually seems really smart and mild mannered.
Nah, there is something called knowing your place and boundaries. The way I see it, if he thinks he can call his mother by her first name and tell her to listen to him and his "reasoning" at five years old, by the time he's 15, he's gonna start bucking up and telling her to kiss his ***. She let him be too grown too soon. Kids have to know their place.

QFT.

I teach martial arts and i've had so many parents bring their 12-13 yrs old to class so we can teach them discipline. They will listen to us in class but they treat their parents like **** still. That all comes from when they were kids and i've had parents confess that to me, they know they made a mistake when the child was younger and it's almost impossible to repair those mistakes.

The most crucial time in the education of a child is 0-5. If you let stuff like this pass, it's just a downfall from there.
 
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Nah, there is something called knowing your place and boundaries. The way I see it, if he thinks he can call his mother by her first name and tell her to listen to him and his "reasoning" at five years old, by the time he's 15, he's gonna start bucking up and telling her to kiss his ***. She let him be too grown too soon. Kids have to know their place.

As long as he's from a good home, and learns to use his "words" instead of fists I think he'll be ok. There are kids way worse than this who just scream and hit. He's precocious, as long as his parents are upstanding law abiding citizens that trait may actually work in his favor.


I know horrible children, this kid is far from it.

he might not scream and hit, but it still not something you can tolerate as a parent from your 5 years old.

He's not listening now, he's not going to listen in the future. He's going to have a hard time doing what he's told to do as he grow up (in school and at work).
 
 
 
Nah, there is something called knowing your place and boundaries. The way I see it, if he thinks he can call his mother by her first name and tell her to listen to him and his "reasoning" at five years old, by the time he's 15, he's gonna start bucking up and telling her to kiss his ***. She let him be too grown too soon. Kids have to know their place.
As long as he's from a good home, and learns to use his "words" instead of fists I think he'll be ok. There are kids way worse than this who just scream and hit. He's precocious, as long as his parents are upstanding law abiding citizens that trait may actually work in his favor.

I know horrible children, this kid is far from it.
So let me get this straight, from a few video clips on TV you can make a prediction of what this kid turns out to be? At this time, his own parents don't know what he will be like for sure as a teen or an adult. I'm not saying he's going to be a problem kid, I'm  saying nobody knows. There are a lot of kids that come from "good homes" but that qualifier I think is severely short sighted when trying to predict human behavior my man. Parents have an idea of how they want their children to turn out, but life is different. A lot of people assume that because a kid comes from a two parent home, it's "good". There is much more to it.
 
"Linda look, everything they do at this house, cant touch anything they do at grandpa's house" 
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 Kids will always have that bond with grandparents
 
 
 
So let me get this straight, from a few video clips on TV you can make a prediction of what this kid turns out to be? At this time, his own parents don't know what he will be like for sure as a teen or an adult. I'm not saying he's going to be a problem kid, I'm  saying nobody knows. There are a lot of kids that come from "good homes" but that qualifier I think is severely short sighted when trying to predict human behavior my man. Parents have an idea of how they want their children to turn out, but life is different. A lot of people assume that because a kid comes from a two parent home, it's "good". There is much more to it.
No, but nothing about this is an indication that he will grow up horrible. Growing up in terrible environments is a better indicator and from my understanding kids seems like he comes from a stable home.

And no you don't need 2 parents, but you do need a good family support system.
Fine, that aside, I didn't agree with their methods of parenting. But who am I? That's their child, they raise him as they see fit. If he grows up to be disrespectful, then they can only blame themselves. A lot of people fail to realize this is the stage where it starts. Correct that **** now and you won't be crying as a parent down the line.
 
 
 
Fine, that aside, I didn't agree with their methods of parenting. But who am I? That's their child, they raise him as they see fit. If he grows up to be disrespectful, then they can only blame themselves. A lot of people fail to realize this is the stage where it starts. Correct that **** now and you won't be crying as a parent down the line.
That's fine, you're not his parents. I don't share your belief that he will grow up bad. There are many super strict parents out there who discipline their children and their children turn out to be horrible human beings. Obviously the mom has set boundaries for the kid and has verbalized those boundaries but she understands he's just a precocious 3 year old who unlike many children is verbalizing his desires quite nicely.
I think your idea of strict is different from mine and you are inferring things. I would not be the type of father to track every movement of my child and expect them to walk a fine line. Kids mess up, that's a given. What I will not tolerate is my child calling me by my first name, interrupting me in my house and  telling me what it's going to be at 3 years old.  Having old school parenting values =/= abuse and too many read it as such. It's about respect for elders above all else. I'm not with this verbalize your frustration ********. I can't get with this new school of parenting man. We just don't see eye to eye on this one, sorry. 
 
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He's cool in my book except for when he tried to interrupt caregiver. That's when you clip it.
 
Man it's dudes in here that still raise their hand to go to the restroom and others are my age (20) and have no idea how to raise a child are anything about basic adolescent psychology. Stop arguing people. :lol:

Dude could easily grow up and be very respectful or very disrespectful. No one knows. But calling your mom by her first name in an argument should be curtailed before he knows the significance of titles and the respect levels associated with them. That's all.
 
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