Do men compare themselves to other men?

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Come to NY mami and I'll treat you right. I got some Mcdonalds coupons I just been waiting to use.

After that we can go feed the homeless in Central Park or maybe take a nice stroll through Washington Heights.

It'll be just like taking a walk on Miami Beach. Then we can rent a motel room and I can teach you how to keep a man.

Srs.
 
Kellyrep said:
^^^ No.

That's not impossible to find though. Just wanted to wait for love.
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The flaw i've noticed with this is you wait, and don't get the proper relationship/sexual experience necessary. Younger couples who are each other's first work out the kinks together because they grow together, ain't too many dudes gon put up with someone in their twenties with the relationship skills of a teen. That plus those have a tendency to try and force love to happen because it feels right.
 
Bomba said:
In my opinion, if the girl is as bad looking as you say she is then she must have some good qualities about herself that only he admires.If it didn't work out for you and him then let it be. Like you say, your a good person but he's done with you just move on and face the facts that he found somebody else. Looks do play a part  but its not about that half the time. But most women will say a man has downgraded after them. Men are not as judgmental as women are though. 

Btw i'ma girl too 
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Thanks. It was my first thought. I do love him but if he doesn't feel the same and someone else does it better then I've got no choice but to let him go.

It's weird . And it's hard because I haven't felt this way in years and I don't date just to date. I really preferred to believe he doesn't really like her. But this...
Thanks again.
 
Kelly,
1. Yes. men compare themselves to other men. I think competitiveness is in human nature so of course, we always want to be the best and we try to evaluate that by comparing ourselves to other people.
2. I doubt those comments are what drove him away from you. I think it just gave him a good out from you. How old is he? Maybe he is not ready for the relationship right now but he knows he probably want you in the future so that's why he is keeping you close.
3. Just because it looks like she's in love with him, doesn't mean they are together. They could be really close friends and she might secretly want to bang him. Or maybe they are just FWB. For me personally, if I just got out of a relationship, I know I wouldn't want to jump into one that fast. I'm pretty sure other guys will agree with me on this point.
4. Get over yourself. :lol: and i mean that the nicest way possible. Sometimes it might not be you and it could be him so don't beat yourself down. You gotta get it to the point where you believe that he is the one that made the mistake and will end up regretting it.
5. pics? :nerd:
 
Mark Antony said:
The flaw i've noticed with this is you wait, and don't get the proper relationship/sexual experience necessary. Younger couples who are each other's first work out the kinks together because they grow together, ain't too many dudes gon put up with someone in their twenties with the relationship skills of a teen. That plus those have a tendency to try and force love to happen because it feels right.
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If you like someone you like them. I have the life experiences of a 26 year old. I have relationships with my family and people around me. Respect communication love. It's all the same principles applied in a relationship.

I have that wisdom.

It's not my first relationship. It's not the first time I've liked someone. I haven't lived in a box. It's the first time I went all the way.

Sex is a skill that can be learned. Anyway he knew what I was.
 
DatZNasty said:
Answer me this OP, how many PMs have you received since posting?
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Retro23J said:
You just talked about his hous

.....that's it?
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Pretty much and that I felt he was messed up and didn't treat me right except not in those words.

And this is exactly why I felt like he was hiding something the whole time.
 
OP tell me this and be honest.


You said sex is a skill that you could learn, right? I agree, but sometimes women have the wrong attitude and are easily offended when being taught and often times, they will relate what their man wants to what an ex did for him and not do it right out of spite.


That said, did he ask you to Drake his booty? :nerd:
 
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Brolic Scholar said:
OP tell me this and be honest.


You said sex is a skill that you could learn, right? I agree, but sometimes women have the wrong attitude and are easily offended when being taught and often times, they will relate what their man wants to what an ex did for him and not do it right out of spite.


That said, did he ask you to Drake his booty? :nerd:
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All I'll say is that I was completely open to whatever he wanted to do. He didn't ask me to do anything. I asked what did he like.

He said "You don't have to do anything. The things I like don't require you to. "
 
Brolic Scholar said:
OP tell me this and be honest.


You said sex is a skill that you could learn, right? I agree, but sometimes women have the wrong attitude and are easily offended when being taught and often times, they will relate what their man wants to what an ex did for him and not do it right out of spite.


That said, did he ask you to Drake his booty? 
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All I'll say is that I was completely open to whatever he wanted to do. He didn't ask me to do anything. I asked what did he like.

He said "You don't have to do anything. The things I like don't require you to. "
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Sounds like he likes pepper on his angus
 
I guess to an extent... ive never really done so , but I've had friends who've been hurt by girls and wondered what was it that made the girl choose the other guy...

sometimes it comes down to compatibility and future growth... maybe you were too good for him and he knew it... some guys will have sex with a girl but after they have sex they have nothing to offer, while the girl can cook clean have exceptional conversational skills and hobbies, while the dude just lives to maintain and he see's her eventually leaving so he cuts his losses before its even tallied...
 
sharpshooter718 said:
I guess to an extent... ive never really done so , but I've had friends who've been hurt by girls and wondered what was it that made the girl choose the other guy...

sometimes it comes down to compatibility and future growth... maybe you were too good for him and he knew it... some guys will have sex with a girl but after they have sex they have nothing to offer, while the girl can cook clean have exceptional conversational skills and hobbies, while the dude just lives to maintain and he see's her eventually leaving so he cuts his losses before its even tallied...
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Basically he said I don't want to hurt you. He wouldn't elaborate. But then I saw him with someone else...
 
Kellyrep said:
Retro23J said:
You just talked about his hous

.....that's it?
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Pretty much and that I felt he was messed up and didn't treat me right except not in those words.

And this is exactly why I felt like he was hiding something the whole time.
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But during this conversation you also said to treat the next girl better, right? I thought that's what you said on the first page.

So it could basically be surmised that after this conversation you two had broken up - right?

I would definitely say he had something lined up beforehand - or at least a possibility lined up - before you two broke up, if she was as comfortable with him as you say she was. Otherwise, she could have also been some random Tinder date.

To answer the question in your subject line though: yeah, I compare myself. Usually don't let it get me really heated or anything though. If you two broke up and you weren't really in "exclusive" physical contact or anything anymore, there's nothing you can really say.
 
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