Thirsty NY Street Cats vol. Is it cause I'm ugly?!

Why do women think every guy that says "hi" is doing it cause they're trying to **** them? Get the **** over yourself...some mogs just wanna say "hi" just cause

Ain't no ***** greeting those **** on the streets just cause.
It's all about looks. You saying hi to the ugly fat chick walking by you or just the nice looking ones with their *** and **** sticking out of their tights?

I'm not saying that it's harassment at all but if we going to keep it real, let's keep it all the way real.
Dudes want to smash...FACTS.
 
My girl tells me stories of her getting cat called in NYC all the time. It even happens when she's with me in DC so I can imagine it being worse when she's by herself. Showed her the vid and said it's, "100% accurate for when I'm home in NYC. So annoying."

Praying alp doesn't KO my girl now.
 
Ain't no ***** greeting those **** on the streets just cause.
It's all about looks. You saying hi to the ugly fat chick walking by you or just the nice looking ones with their *** and **** sticking out of their tights?

I'm not saying that it's harassment at all but if we going to keep it real, let's keep it all the way real.
Dudes want to smash...FACTS.

But what if you are interested in more than just smashing, which I sometimes am. First thing I notice is looks, like everyone else. But when I see a girl I think looks fine I shouldnt talk to her even if I want more than to just **** and flee?
 
dudes in NYC are ruthless and I know because I was one of em. And sometimes its not even about having real intentions....a lot of times its just for laughs with your friends
 
Just seen the vid. Smh harassment my booty. Let me guess

Looking at a girl is rape now? Oh wait..

I hate feminism with every bone in my body
 
dudes in NYC are ruthless and I know because I was one of em. And sometimes its not even about having real intentions....a lot of times its just for laughs with your friends

Cant tell u how many times we would say stupid **** when we hit up the city

Group of chicks walked by and my boy tried to kick it to 1 of em. They all like you aint comin with us

My boy goes well **** yall. I yelled thats why you have fake hair and ****. I see them tracks. Go glue that ****
 
My girl tells me stories of her getting cat called in NYC all the time. It even happens when she's with me in DC so I can imagine it being worse when she's by herself. Showed her the vid and said it's, "100% accurate for when I'm home in NYC. So annoying."

Praying alp doesn't KO my girl now.

100% accurate?
I'd call that a huge stretch.
 
Safe to say it's the ugly socially ackward girls that usually never get attention that don't know what to do when someone actually speaks to them?
 
Why do women think every guy that says "hi" is doing it cause they're trying to **** them? Get the **** over yourself...some mogs just wanna say "hi" just cause

Ain't no ***** greeting those **** on the streets just cause.
It's all about looks. You saying hi to the ugly fat chick walking by you or just the nice looking ones with their *** and **** sticking out of their tights?

I'm not saying that it's harassment at all but if we going to keep it real, let's keep it all the way real.
Dudes want to smash...FACTS.

I greet people on the street all the time just cause. Men or women. A head nod or a how's it going to complete strangers. So no, not every guy saying hi to a random stranger is doing it to duck them
 
Yall must have horrible manners. If someone (guy or girl) somehow make eye contact, are in a situation when it's just us, trying to accomplish the same thing, or standing in line, I'll AT LEAST say hello. Nothing sexual about that, nothing more than curtesy.

PS I also hold the door for people, and help people in need when the situation arises (old lady with bags, ect).
 
dudes in NYC are ruthless and I know because I was one of em. And sometimes its not even about having real intentions....a lot of times its just for laughs with your friends

Cant tell u how many times we would say stupid **** when we hit up the city

Group of chicks walked by and my boy tried to kick it to 1 of em. They all like you aint comin with us

My boy goes well **** yall. I yelled thats why you have fake hair and ****. I see them tracks. Go glue that ****
You're so cool
 
Safe to say it's the ugly socially ackward girls that usually never get attention that don't know what to do when someone actually speaks to them?

Hot girls do it too. it's just 1st world problems. The same people who complain that their tv stands are too small for their 90" LEDs
 
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My girl tells me stories of her getting cat called in NYC all the time. It even happens when she's with me in DC so I can imagine it being worse when she's by herself. Showed her the vid and said it's, "100% accurate for when I'm home in NYC. So annoying."

Praying alp doesn't KO my girl now.

Are you a big guy?
 
I agree with you guys that some of that in the video is not harassment but I am talking about the actual disrespectful cat calling and comments. Some guys are saying there is nothing in the video that is unsettling. As a female, you will get approached in many settings. But, when it becomes disrespectful and unwarranted, that's crossing the line.

But, what is uncomfortable and feels like a threat to a woman might not to the next one.

One guy friend of mine had a dismissive reaction to this video and said the lady instigated it and that's it's a culture thing because of areas she was walking in with people of certain backgrounds. He said this is normal for Latin-Caribbean men to do and back home they do worse such as grab you and it's more publicly accepted. I stressed it does not matter, does not make it right. I remember when I visited Jordan more than a decade ago and it is very bad with the Arab men cat-calling and harassment towards women in public. It's disgusting. Some will also get physical slap or grab. Still does not and will never make it right.

How do some of you not consider even a man staring oogly at a woman not part of street harassment? Especially where she feels very uncomfortable and threatened. I know many dudes that will say something or a fight will break out if they catch a dude looking at them. How do you think some women feel? It is invasive and threatening.
I think most decent guys will agree with you that when things become disrespectful and unwarranted we have a real problem. But it's the gray area that's really causing debate, b/c as you said what's uncomfortable and feels like a threat to one woman might not to the next. I wish more women would look at both sides of the coin. For us men it's near impossible to determine whether our advances are unwanted, until we've made advances. And as some have noted, a lot of it boils down to whether the woman is attracted to you, which again we have no clue about at first. If the solution is to never approach a woman in public we're heading down a path of social awkwardness that imo is unacceptable. I don't like the idea of knowing I can flirt all day on my IG and Twitter, but if I say hello to a woman on the street I instantly become a creep. I think women would be better served with an argument against physical touching, stalking, and verbal abuse, than a wholesale movement against even the most basic of public interactions. "Hello", "good morning", "God bless you" when directed at a woman on the street is in fact flirtatious the majority of the time, but I don't see anything wrong with openly trying to acknowledge that you're attracted to someone who you may never see again.

Things would work so much easier if women would speak up when they see something they like lol. Instead they'll be on Craigslist missed connections section talking about "I saw you walking down the street with your dog, we made eye contact. I wish you said something to me." 
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1st Shorty wasn't even that good looking, I know the thirst in NYC is bad, but it ain't that bad.

2nd who in the hell walks in NYC for 10 hours, I'm tired of walking after 3 hours in NY
 
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