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Maybe you've heard the recent jokes and comedic essays about "Dad" Bod. As I get older I could care less about certain attributes of guys as long as I meet a good dude.
I'm in my 20s with absolutely no ambition to become a wife, have children , and or settle down in the suburbs. I will live off my own and when the time comes buy my own home. So I don't care about money as long as he's not flipping burgers, living out of a box.... This has changed about me. As far as income and education, I don't correlate that to intelligence or making a good income (I know too many naturally smart men without a degree who make bank) . I used to date different races and sizes until I got more experience in the type of men I am attracted to. Race, not culture, is still no big deal but I cannot bring myself to date an out of shape man which I once was fine with. The issue occurred when I dated someone fit and really enjoyed our romantic life.
I know it's super shallow because even if he owns a successful business, no baggage, my age, and nice , there ends up being no spark because I can't look past his size. I end up having zero attraction meaning zero interest.
I used to think it was mostly men who felt this way but I'm one of those women who needs someone reasonably fit. This only works if you are going to be honest. I know we can be politically correct but I want to really know.
I'm in my 20s with absolutely no ambition to become a wife, have children , and or settle down in the suburbs. I will live off my own and when the time comes buy my own home. So I don't care about money as long as he's not flipping burgers, living out of a box.... This has changed about me. As far as income and education, I don't correlate that to intelligence or making a good income (I know too many naturally smart men without a degree who make bank) . I used to date different races and sizes until I got more experience in the type of men I am attracted to. Race, not culture, is still no big deal but I cannot bring myself to date an out of shape man which I once was fine with. The issue occurred when I dated someone fit and really enjoyed our romantic life.
I know it's super shallow because even if he owns a successful business, no baggage, my age, and nice , there ends up being no spark because I can't look past his size. I end up having zero attraction meaning zero interest.
I used to think it was mostly men who felt this way but I'm one of those women who needs someone reasonably fit. This only works if you are going to be honest. I know we can be politically correct but I want to really know.
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